i wished to share this news in april, but considering there were some sad threads at the time i decided to wait til now. the surgery i had april before last was for cancerous tumors, not fibroid as i told everyone.. we didn't want anyone knowing that i had cancer, especially my sister, who would have bugged me to death, although well-meaning of course.. it's been a rough year, and the forum has helped me distract myself until i could learn whether the treatments i had had last summer would work or not.. so now i can say i am cancer free, i found out in april, a year after my surgery.. because we weren't sure what the future would bring, we took that dream vacation last october and it's also why i met with dtrell, although i knew doing this behind hubby's back was wrong.. i felt it might have been my only chance.. so thank you, to the forum, for helping me keep my thoughts from myself as i waited...












