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[nowayjose]

Hmmmm...four hours since Tulip Angel's last post, and tonight was to be the night... Well, they're having either one hell of a fight right about now, or one heaven of a tickle.

Or they're lying under the table, snoring.. 😉

 

[WorkInProgress]

Tulip Angel? Oh, Tulip Angel? Don't leave us now!

 

[tulipangel]

Ok

SO,

I didn't get it out last night! He got home from work and I was passed out and he just left me to sleep (even though I told him I had to talk to him!). When we woke up this morning He was not feeling well cause he finished of the bottle I started! LOL I have no luck! I dont care how sick he is when he wakes up from his nap... we are going to talk about this!

BUT, for some good news.... He did lightly tickle my sides this AM to wake me.... I tried to lay as still as I could so it wouldnt stop but he did! 🙁 ANyway, I am going to get this done no matter what it takes! If I have to rent a sky writer to send my message to him I will!

 

[Illtcklu]

SO,

I didn't get it out last night! He got home from work and I was passed out and he just left me to sleep (even though I told him I had to talk to him!). When we woke up this morning He was not feeling well cause he finished of the bottle I started! LOL I have no luck! I dont care how sick he is when he wakes up from his nap... we are going to talk about this!

BUT, for some good news.... He did lightly tickle my sides this AM to wake me.... I tried to lay as still as I could so it wouldnt stop but he did! 🙁 ANyway, I am going to get this done no matter what it takes! If I have to rent a sky writer to send my message to him I will!

I'll be here for you however it goes! PM anytime, honey!

 

[WorkInProgress]

I still think you're making this a lot more complicated for yourself than you need to. I say, stick with the point that you like to be tickled and want him to tickle you, and stick with direct face-to-face communication, preferably when you're already in an intimate or fooling-around mode. You don't need skywriting any more than you need alcohol, E-mail, or websites. The average guy I know will think a community like this is whacko, but that same average guy I know will jump at any opportunity to pin his girlfriend down and tickle the daylights out of her.

 

[tulipangel]

easier said then done

I still think you're making this a lot more complicated for yourself than you need to. I say, stick with the point that you like to be tickled and want him to tickle you, and stick with direct face-to-face communication, preferably when you're already in an intimate or fooling-around mode. You don't need skywriting any more than you need alcohol, E-mail, or websites. The average guy I know will think a community like this is whacko, but that same average guy I know will jump at any opportunity to pin his girlfriend down and tickle the daylights out of her.

Depends on the person! Some people are good at just saying what they want and others are very shy! I happen to be one who is very shy! I do the best I can with the "balls" I have (well, its an expression, I dont REALLY have balls)! Any way, I will speak to him! And I have dated a TON of just AVERAGE guys and NONE of them have ever pined me down to tickle me!

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Depends on the person! Some people are good at just saying what they want and others are very shy! I happen to be one who is very shy! I do the best I can with the "balls" I have (well, its an expression, I dont REALLY have balls)! Any way, I will speak to him! And I have dated a TON of just AVERAGE guys and NONE of them have ever pined me down to tickle me!

That's because you went for ordinary guys..we TMF guys are "extra"ordinary..

 

[ticklesmurph]

hi tulipangel!

hey i jus gotta throw my 2 cents in again...i think its totally ridiculus that you even have to go through all this jus for your b/f to tickle you! it seems like your the type of person that would do anything for your b/f to please him in anyway, if the shoe was on the other foot....i'm sorry that you are tickle deprived and he won't budge! its tickling for cryin out loud a real innocent and fun fetish if you ask me! holla @ ya boy.

 

[isabeau]

Depends on the person! Some people are good at just saying what they want and others are very shy! I happen to be one who is very shy! I do the best I can with the "balls" I have (well, its an expression, I dont REALLY have balls)! Any way, I will speak to him! And I have dated a TON of just AVERAGE guys and NONE of them have ever pined me down to tickle me!

hon i understand completely. i am also shy about asking for some things. i have hinted with david, and he never got it. finally i just came out and told him exactly what i meant. and his answer nope. granted he has a bad back at the present time, but gesh i mean here i am willing and able to get tied up and he says no he would never do that to me....

good luck tulipangel and i'll answer your pm soon. xoxo

isabeau

 

[WorkInProgress]

*LOL* Well, Tulip Angel, just about every post of yours has made me want to tickle you.

 

[tulipangel]

TMF guys

That's because you went for ordinary guys..we TMF guys are "extra"ordinary..

Well, maybe I should have bypassed the regular guy and went right for a TMF guy! LOL

Unfortunatly, I didn't so I have to deal with what I have! Isabeau, Your a doll! I am glad you can see where I am coming from! I think If he says no again I will just drop it and get someone to just tickle me once in a while....
Someone from out of state!

 

[Illtcklu]

Well, maybe I should have bypassed the regular guy and went right for a TMF guy! LOL

Unfortunatly, I didn't so I have to deal with what I have! Isabeau, Your a doll! I am glad you can see where I am coming from! I think If he says no again I will just drop it and get someone to just tickle me once in a while....
Someone from out of state!

Izzy the person to talk too about that! But your not alone with this I really don't know how my g/f will respond either...........gotta admit makes me nervous!

 

[Redmage]

Unfortunatly, I didn't so I have to deal with what I have! Isabeau, Your a doll! I am glad you can see where I am coming from! I think If he says no again I will just drop it and get someone to just tickle me once in a while....
Someone from out of state!

Is California far enough out of state?

 

[steph]

Really beautifully put Night! Seriously, this doesn't have to end in tragedy~lots of us have our cake and eat it too...
XOXO

If you don't like the reaction you get about it, the next move has to be up to you. Plenty of people I've met in the scene have spouses or significant others who 'don't understand.' They've chosen to make this part of their lives subservient to having found the 'right person in all other ways except for this.' I am not saying they've made a bad choice in any way - it's what they've chosen. You have a choice depending on how your guy reacts. Stay and make this part of you something you do on 'your time' or decide it's something you can't see living the next 50 years without his support on. I know that sounds simplistic, but aren't those the choices?

Either way, good luck!

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Unfortunatly, I didn't so I have to deal with what I have! Isabeau, Your a doll! I am glad you can see where I am coming from! I think If he says no again I will just drop it and get someone to just tickle me once in a while....
Someone from out of state!

I doubt you'll have problems in that catagory around here

 

[tulipangel]

Out of state!

Is California far enough out of state?

Yes dear, CA is far enough! Ever get out to NY? I used to live in Vegas and still have family there! I might have to make a trip to "visit" them! My boyfriend always tells me to go... MAYBE I will! LOL

 

[kis123]

Some of you fellas just don't understand.....

I can understand why tulipangel and Izzy have had problems. It's still hard for some women to communicate physical/sexual desires in a relationship. Traditionally, the men have run everything including control in the bedroom.

Now don't get it twisted folks, I'm not trying to complain-someone had to be in control back in the day. Unfortunately, some women (myself included) have not been taught to speak up about their desires as boldly as others. It hasn't been that long since sex was for the man's satisfaction and the woman's "duty" so it's still hard for women to speak up without feeling kinda' "slutty!"

I commend both tulip and Izzy for their attempts to step up and be satisfied physically and sexually. It should never be one-sided! What I really don't understand is these guys' complete refusal to entertain and satisfy their wife's/sig other's sexual/physical fantasies. Tulip's fella has entertained spanking, slapping, and choking. Izzy's fella.....well, I don't know. Tickling is such a minute thing in comparison to other fetishes/alternative fetishes-I just don't see what the problem is.

The only thing this does is send "her" out to fulfill her fantasies/desires elsewhere. Let's face it-men have been doing this for a very long time.

 

[tulipangel]

I bow down to you Kis123

I can understand why tulipangel and Izzy have had problems. It's still hard for some women to communicate physical/sexual desires in a relationship. Traditionally, the men have run everything including control in the bedroom.

Now don't get it twisted folks, I'm not trying to complain-someone had to be in control back in the day. Unfortunately, some women (myself included) have not been taught to speak up about their desires as boldly as others. It hasn't been that long since sex was for the man's satisfaction and the woman's "duty" so it's still hard for women to speak up without feeling kinda' "slutty!"

I commend both tulip and Izzy for their attempts to step up and be satisfied physically and sexually. It should never be one-sided! What I really don't understand is these guys' complete refusal to entertain and satisfy their wife's/sig other's sexual/physical fantasies. Tulip's fella has entertained spanking, slapping, and choking. Izzy's fella.....well, I don't know. Tickling is such a minute thing in comparison to other fetishes/alternative fetishes-I just don't see what the problem is.

The only thing this does is send "her" out to fulfill her fantasies/desires elsewhere. Let's face it-men have been doing this for a very long time.

Oh wise one... PLEASE teach me! lmao! You hit the nail right on the head! You are so beyond right its scary! I am very sub to begin with so I dont go around barking at him what I want him to do with anything including sexual play... So in a way for me to turn to him after all this time and tell him I want "this" or "that" is not only hard for me to do... But hard for him to take in! He is used to being the one to tell me...... I dont even order for myself when we go out to eat!
YOU are so wise Kis123! MUAH!

 

[kis123]

Oh wise one... PLEASE teach me! lmao! You hit the nail right on the head! You are so beyond right its scary! I am very sub to begin with so I dont go around barking at him what I want him to do with anything including sexual play... So in a way for me to turn to him after all this time and tell him I want "this" or "that" is not only hard for me to do... But hard for him to take in! He is used to being the one to tell me...... I dont even order for myself when we go out to eat!
YOU are so wise Kis123! MUAH!

I'm a ler by choice who occasionally switches, but understand the world of the sub. Let's face it, most women tend to the be sub in their relationships naturally and traditionally. I am a very strong woman in public, but tend to allow the man to be the "man" in relationships and enjoy stepping back and allowing him in charge of things.

But my dear, sometimes you have to stand up for what you desire. Not even in sub/dom relationships should you not state your pleasures/desires. Holding them in only leads to rebellion-you will go and have your needs met because that's the way you're wired. You might as well stand up to your man and start trying to get your needs met there. If he doesn't, he shoud expect at some point that you may move elsewhere (even on a platonic basis).

 

[Redmage]

Yes dear, CA is far enough! Ever get out to NY? I used to live in Vegas and still have family there! I might have to make a trip to "visit" them! My boyfriend always tells me to go... MAYBE I will! LOL

I haven't been to NY/NJ in several years, but you never know. Meanwhile San Francisco is a great place to vacation. 😉

As for letting him know, I think you should embrace your inner slut. She knows what you want - don't be afraid to let her tell him.

 

[tulipangel]

inner slut!

Oh how I want my inner slut to become my outer! lol! I am going to sit him down with out getting tipsy and i am not going to let him change the subject! ONCE his friends leave I think I will have my chance! I would do it right now cause im pumped but his boys might think im crazy (well, they already think im wierd and i dont want to make it a fact)!

 

[tickle_feety]

There's an incredibly wide variety of information on this site. Might not be a great idea to let him wander through it unguided...

*nods agreeingly*

 

[tickle_feety]

This is true. He might get the wrong idea of what I LIKE. But I tried to tell him last night when we were just watching TV. I tried to talk and he looked at me and asked me what I was looking at. For about 10 mins. straight I looked with my mouth 1/2 open and couldn't get the words out. Its hard enough to tell a man what you like (sexually) but when its KIND OF socially not accepted it makes it MORE difficult!

i found it really hard to tell my GF about my tickling and foot fetish, i was in the same position where i opened my mouth, and the words wouldnt come out ...when i finally told her she was ok with it, her words were something like 'we all have things we like, i like having my toes sucked as it happens' id gone a whole year avoiding anywhere below the knees and she loves toe jobs!!! and now she knows every ticklish part of my body, and she hates/loves to be tied and tickled! and i get to massage and play with her toes whenever i like!!!

i guess all im saying is the worst case scenario is that he may think its a little weird, but if he has a real problem with it, and he cant accept something you truly love, then hes not the one for you! (if he does come on the forum, dont show him that last sentence, i dont want him to come over to england and open a can of whoop ass on me - come to think of it, when we get married hes gonna be pretty pissed at me, perhaps i should flee to mexico, wanna come? ) the best case scenario is that you get tickled every day! woo hoo

 

[tulipangel]

Hey babe!

Well, dont you think your girlfriend might have a problem with us getting married too?!?!?! lol Oh well!

 

[tickle_feety]

Well, dont you think your girlfriend might have a problem with us getting married too?!?!?! lol Oh well!

shes cool with it, the whole idea is to kidnap you when your here so you can be our personal tickle slave, still wanna come over?