Tickle Dating Service?

[ft_tklr007]

Any one ever thought about starting a tickle dating service. Because if they have i would like to know. Not some bull crap where you have to spend an ass load of money for a membership. But a place where people who wanna hook up for a tickle session can do so.

 

[ticklehound]

If there is one, sign me up... If there's not, let's get that rectified.

 

[tummytickler69]

even if there was a tickle dating site it would probably be a sausage fest just like the tmf. 99% guys and 1% girls with a 1% margin for error

 

[leeboy]

It's been tried before. It doesn't work. You'l get 100 guys to sign up and 1 woman.

 

[Leo tickles]

It's been tried before. It doesn't work. You'l get 100 guys to sign up and 1 woman.

Yup...

 

[milagros317]

It's been tried before. It doesn't work. You'l get 100 guys to sign up and 1 woman.

That's the most likely outcome, yes.

 

[taptoematt]

That's too bad. I guess even tickling can sometimes have it's drawbacks

 

[Comfort Eagle]

It's been tried before. It doesn't work. You'l get 100 guys to sign up and 1 woman.

And 38 of those guys will make damn sure that woman only stays for a short time.


I'd give it a shot tho.

 

[Labyrinthgddss]

the thing is

the thing is you have to make sure your female friends, who are ticklish, join...if say u met at someone's house and every guy going brought a female friend then there would be more percentage of females there.... and dont bemoan the fact that there are no females...geez people invite them...
of course if u have invited them, well then ignore the last part...

 

[Stage Whisper]

Yeeaah. Um. I wouldn't feel comfortable at all signing up for a "Tickling dating service". Heck, I don't sign up for dating services in general. So that's one woman 'ler out of the count right there. >.>

If it ever happens and works though, lemme know.

 

[Mostly Harmless]

Its not too hard to make a simple dating board (honestly, I think there must be such free services or just php-packs for individual install). I see it as a little extension of "Personals" section of the forum; with abilities of looking for partner by personal details more accurately, more ways to tell others about yourself, with best/lastfilled questionnaires on top of the main page, etc.

But will anybody be interested in that? What for do you need such service - just to call a local ticklee w/o messing with acquaintances, datings, long-lasted friendship building etc, - or for anything else? Do you really need something more than "Personals" section?..

 

[Em Es]

People can already hook up thru this web site

This great web site already enables people to meet. I agree women must deal with men who do not interest them; welcome to the world.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

the sad fact of the matter is this: if someone went through the trouble to make a site dedicated to bringing tickling singles together, you can bet that any female, no matter how many sign up, will be assailed with messages. hell, even now, women who have nothing to do with the TMF, or tickling, are getting messages on Facebook, MySpace, etc. about it.

now, since tickling is becoming more accepted in the BDSM community, one should try www.collarme.com and try to see if one can come across another individual into tickling. of course, approaching the individual as a person rather than a slab o' beef will help.

 

[Cavum]

It's just like cloud says. To many of the people here hang out with "vanilla people" and expect to find a partner who like the same. Good luck with that one. You MIGHT find one in a million.

 

[Mostly Harmless]

the sad fact of the matter is this: if someone went through the trouble to make a site dedicated to bringing tickling singles together, you can bet that any female, no matter how many sign up, will be assailed with messages.

/shrugs/: right as it happens now in "Personals" (AFAIK). Just make it through.

now, since tickling is becoming more accepted in the BDSM community, one should try www.collarme.com and try to see if one can come across another individual into tickling.

I talked with few SM people, - as they say, too many of them simply afraid of being tickled. They eagerly prefer to take much pain rather than some tickling.
If you want to find a partner, the best way is to mingle in T-community, taking its rules...

 

[Cavum]

I talked with few SM people, - as they say, too many of them simply afraid of being tickled. They eagerly prefer to take much pain rather than some tickling.
If you want to find a partner, the best way is to mingle in T-community, taking its rules...

You kind of sayd it yourself...you talked with FEW.
Some don't like it, but it's still many of em.
I know of more that 20 sub girls who don't mind tickling just in the
little group I hang out with. It took time some time to find em all, but
try doing the same with vanilla girls or the girls in here who get raped
by desperate PMs from idiots.

 

[Mostly Harmless]

Maybe your girls are more open to it... I don't know.
But those with whom I talked, they're reflecting views in their SM group - of course that subject was discussed repeatedly. And that was really surprising, to find that SM girls are much less inclined to tickling than ordinary girl-next-door.

Maybe its due to different ways of looking; when they talked about it as of discipline, or method of SM-play, - dating with girl you use tickling as another communicative way, innocent playng or beforeplay... not more than light teasing. I mean, tickling then is not the subject, just a trifle that don't scare.

 

[the wiz]

Run it like a stripper service

on my 40th b day, my wife and friends got me a stripper; when she arrived, she had his big muscle bound stripper as a body guard. I say do the same thing with the tickling service; have at least one big ass guy to make sure the lee is well protected.

 

[Cavum]

Maybe your girls are more open to it... I don't know.
But those with whom I talked, they're reflecting views in their SM group - of course that subject was discussed repeatedly. And that was really surprising, to find that SM girls are much less inclined to tickling than ordinary girl-next-door.

Maybe its due to different ways of looking; when they talked about it as of discipline, or method of SM-play, - dating with girl you use tickling as another communicative way, innocent playng or beforeplay... not more than light teasing. I mean, tickling then is not the subject, just a trifle that don't scare.

I doubt that there is any difference between norwegian SMers than other SMers. I have chatted with girls within SM from the US before as well, and non of em mind tickling eigther. But I find it so hard to understand that you guys in for example US have so much trouble finding a lee. Here in Norway there is 4,7 million people...thats like a small city or something in the US. In Oslo there is like 200.000 people. But I still get plenty of tickling action. Maby the problem ain't that they don't like it, but it's the way people over there threat and talk to them? Im not saying you act bad or anyhing, but it's just a taught. There is so many people in here who act desperate.

 

[Mostly Harmless]

I think its because tickling is in the bud in Russia. It's still more weird than most SM practices, even in SM midst. For the whole country there's less than 30 people ready to communicate in sole Russian forum; what shall we wait from vanilla people, if ticklefiles themselves are too shy about showing up?..

 

[Texas_Tickle]

I think its because tickling is in the bud in Russia. It's still more weird than most SM practices, even in SM midst. For the whole country there's less than 30 people ready to communicate in sole Russian forum; what shall we wait from vanilla people, if ticklefiles themselves are too shy about showing up?..

Even in the States, we are a very extreme minority with the SM crowd.

 

[Mostly Harmless]

Ticklemaster
Speak about 50000+ members =)

 

[Texas_Tickle]

Ticklemaster
Speak about 50000+ members =)

Yes, but how many of them are active members? What I am saying, is we are a fringe group... a 'splinter' group, if you will.

The fact is that SM like hard-core bondage, spanking, torture, ect is viewed as more 'legit' than tickling. It is more 'acceptable' in the SM world than tickling.

I wish it were not the case, but if you go to any porn/fetish shop, how many spanking videos, bondage videos, ect will you see? Compare that to the tickling vids and such.

And here in Texas, it's really frowned upon if it's not just plain vanilla sex

 

[Mostly Harmless]

Yes, but how many of them are active members? What I am saying, is we are a fringe group... a 'splinter' group, if you will.

The fact is that SM like hard-core bondage, spanking, torture, ect is viewed as more 'legit' than tickling. It is more 'acceptable' in the SM world than tickling.

I understand your point, but it's still three orders more than we have.
IMHO thats only fortune, that our T-community grown not from SM-people, but from literally nothing; founders of our forum were all far from SM, and all other ticklefiles slowly aggregated round them.

And now, if newbie ler/lee will try to find anything about tickling in Runet - he'll get straight to our forum, not to any SM site. That's why, I suppose, they have such low percentage of ticklefiles in their rows... but thats only a suggestion, anyway.

 

[go_234]

Yes, I would consider myself part of the tickling community rather than the BDSM one, even if it is similar or part of it. I think it's a bit different. But thats just one opinion.