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Tickled a cute stripper today

That doesn't answer the question as to, why you just don't go to a Dungeon or other area that is more kink related then a strip club?

So you don't think there is a certain amount of kink to voyouisem (sp)? Besides going to a dungeon would coast more, and I am not used to those places. I am comfortable in the Strip Clubs. I know when I get there what to expect, and I like the idea that when I first tickle the dance it is a bit of a surprise to them.
 
yea but this thread has already solidified the "NonCon is disgusting/disturbed/disrespecting/giving us a bad name because he likes to get his rocks off tickling strippers that come to dance and not be bothered by such things as a lap dance."
No, it really isn't. Several people, including me, have written that the problem isn't paying for play, but rather seriously disrespecting the people he plays with.

As someone else wrote one, let's keep our facts straight.
 
I hope people realize that strippers in strip clubs can and will be treated as pieces of meat. They are appealing to a man (maybe a woman's) carnal desire. Let's be clear. A strip club usually involves the baring of breasts, sometimes more. Males frequent strip clubs NOT to watch the "dancing". We are there to see tits and ass and much more. Why on this planet would we shell out money to watch some woman dance? No, we want to see the woman naked. She could stand there and hum the "star spangled banner" for all we care.

Every atractive woman I meet appeals to my carnal desires, that doesn't give a person the right to treat them like a piece of meat. Ever person is entitled to be treated like a person until they prove otherwise. I don't pass judgment on them just because the strip because I don't know why they do it. They could be single moms who's child father fucked off on his obligation, they could be paying for school, they could simply enjoy performing a strip tease to the roaring crowd, and none of these things entitles anyone to treat them like they are less then people. I do agree with the first part of your comment though, people are responding way to negative, but when the girl said no NonCon respected her limits did he not, so he didn't do anything wrong.

primetime said:
Women who are willing to dance in strip clubs have to be aware that males will be in a high state of sex arousal, so it should be EXPECTED that you will receive lewd comments and all kinds of crazy requests. If you are shocked about how males will react to your dancing, perhaps you shouldn't dance in a strip club. Granted, they should not be subjected to abuse, but they better beware of the possibility that some moron will act like a moron. The bouncers are there for protection and most males understand this. So if a guy wants to tickle them, why shouldn't he ask? Again, not every male has an opportunity to tickle a ticklish female easily, so strippers/prostitues/escort services will have to do.

Being in a high state of sexual arousal doesn't give people free reign to call somebody disgusting names, or touch them in places they don't want to be touched. While I realize that there can be a percentage of low lives who go to these clubs, it doesn't excuse them being low lives when they are there. However as you stated there is nothing wrong with asking a dancer if she is ok with being tickled, or even simply tickling her while she is dancing, so long as you respect her telling you "NO!" if she doesn't enjoy it.
 
yea but this thread has already solidified the "NonCon is disgusting/disturbed/disrespecting/giving us a bad name because he likes to get his rocks off tickling strippers that come to dance and not be bothered by such things as a lap dance." Whether or not that's true is all personal preference now.

Well you can add me to the list of all the things people are calling NonCon on this subject. However I would like to add that the women at the clubs ask me if I would like to get some dances, and the stage performance it normally done as a way to advertise to the people in the club. There have only been two times where I have broken my own rule of "Respect her limits" and after both occasions I returned to the club with flowers and apologized to the dancer for being an ass hole, and having had to much to drink on one occasion was no excuse, and I now keep my drinking to no more then 3 beers.
 
If the dancer doesn't like th job - get another one.

If it is degrading, don't do it.

If you work as a stripper, your job is to arouse people - simple.
 
I've been sitting on the fence so far, but I just want to interject,,,

If the dancer doesn't like th job - get another one.

Sometimes that isn't an option.

If it is degrading, don't do it.
Again, it isn't safe to assume that limiting factors like poverty and violence are ever absent from people's choices.

If you work as a stripper, your job is to arouse people - simple.
No, it's their job to strip. Not do whatever it takes to turn on the customer.

Still sitting on the fence, though.
 
If the dancer doesn't like th job - get another one.

If it is degrading, don't do it.

If you work as a stripper, your job is to arouse people - simple.

All true, but if you can't respect other peoples limits just because you are horny then you belong in a cage- simpler
 
I've been sitting on the fence so far, but I just want to interject,,,



Sometimes that isn't an option.


Again, it isn't safe to assume that limiting factors like poverty and violence are ever absent from people's choices.


No, it's their job to strip. Not do whatever it takes to turn on the customer.

Still sitting on the fence, though.

Ok. Yep. There are no other jobs available - there is always an alternative

Plus, why the fuck would a girl be taking her clothes off and dancing provocatively if not to arouse the client?

Sorry, there is nothing wrong with strippers, but they are there to arouse men.

Also - I never said that it is their job to do whatever it takes to turn a man on. I said it is their job to arouse men, by removing clothes and/or dancing for them.

If you are a fireman you should expect to have to put out fires. If you are a stripper you would expect to have to deal with horny customers.
 
All true, but if you can't respect other peoples limits just because you are horny then you belong in a cage- simpler

The man ASKED her if he could tickle her. He also proves that he respected her limits by not tickling the girl who said no!

Your making comments that aren't very relevant.

If a man rapes a woman, I think the man should be in a cage for a long time. However, whilst that statement is loosely connected to this thread, it's not really relevant.
 
Shambles, the point is that the dancers are there to provide a service: to dance and/or strip. Any harassment or rude behaviour isn't necessarily excused just because the dancers ought to expect rudeness from patrons.
 
Shambles, the point is that the dancers are there to provide a service: to dance and/or strip. Any harassment or rude behaviour isn't necessarily excused just because the dancers ought to expect rudeness from patrons.

I agree entirely.

The women should be respected.

I just think that respect will be different from the respect that should be shown to a female police woman or a female working in a cafe.

The women are taking their clothes off to arouse men, who are paying high bucks and often drinking in the club.

I don't think it's necessarily wrong to ask provocative questions to a woman who is doing her best to entertain and arouse you.

If the rule is no talking - you stick to the rules and keep schtum. If there is no rule against asking questions, I say go for it.

I don't go to strip clips (not in years, anyway). I remember going to one a few years back in the afternoon. It was pretty much just me in there. I kept tickling this one girl, and was eventually politely asked to leave (for being too drunk). It was all harmless, but I realise that I was being a jerk. However, was it that wrong? Should charges have been brought (they weren't - not even a question of that)?

You could argue that the strip club failed in ITS responsibility for letting me in when drunk.
 
If the dancer doesn't like th job - get another one.

If it is degrading, don't do it.

If you work as a stripper, your job is to arouse people - simple.
Sure - any time something unpleasant happens at your job, just quit. That won't cause any problems with your cash flow.

If you're going to work as a janitor, you have to sincerely enjoy cleaning toilets, right?

And the fact that a stripper's job is to arouse people does not mean that it's her job to do anything and everything a client finds arousing. Even a little imagination can show where that would lead.
 
Uhm, I make a long post about my take on things and how all of this affects me, and nobody responds to it. Could we direct this discussion back to me?
 
If you are a janitor, enjoy it, and love to be busy and work with your hands probably cleaning toilets is the worst part of the job, but every job has a worst part.

If you are a janitor and tolerate it, you’ll hopefully do the job as is required of you and not slack, will try to find joy in some of the better parts, but will also probably be looking for other work or some way to otherwise get out.

If you are a janitor and truly hate it, I have to wonder how you came into doing that job, and, again, feel free to look for something else. You may hate it, but you weren’t forced into toilet cleaning with your tongue against your will the way some are interpreting this stripper has been done.

And was the janitor asked to clean toilets, outside of his job description, or forced to, outside of his job description?

If some one asks if they can tickle you, you say yes, or you say no. If you say no, but are pestered, you call the boss. They do remove people from strip clubs for bad behavior, after all. A woman truly put out by a customer doesn’t have to take it. I am taking that when he told her what he wanted and "went to work on her" that she consented. if not, he crossed a line, but then again, if he did she would have/should have called the bouncer.

And who said a stripper, or janitor, should quit "immediately"? Who said that? Name that Dane! She can look for something else to get out of it - all those awful people asking if they can tickle her - and giving her money to do it…. switch places with the janitor, go to school, bartend at the club, whatever. Why is the alternative only one thing? Even good old NonCon has found an alternative to what his urges tell him. Is the stripper somehow more handicapped? I didn’t get that from his story.

And why is this in the discussion section, not the story section?

I mean, if your job is to arouse people, and you’re almost naked, and there’s quick cash there, there’s a chance someone will want to take it a but further. Not sex per se, but further. When asked about it, you say yes, or you say no. Many strippers make money doing "extras" and the strip clubs look the other way. But the stripper agrees to the offer or doesn't. There’s a pointlessness to saying yes then complaining about it. In fact, the blond said that she liked it. You say yes, but if it gets too intense you say stop. That didn’t seem to happen here. Respecting women and treating them like blown glass swans aren’t the same thing. Again, if he started tickling her without her consent, then wrong. But he appreantl got her legs into a lock or something without much of a fight and without getting tossed out, so it reads more like they made a business deal.

Why is this stripper now a victim if she was made a fair offer - and went for it? He didn’t even cross her limit, which is a good thing, too.

This thread does have a kind of shady, Taxi Driver downer feel to it, but I see a guy who has problems and is doing the best he can with his situation. It’s not the way of many of us and not a particularly glamorized tale of tickling, but he got what he needed, she got what she wanted and the world for a moment is a little better for both people. In the context of the entire situation, what he did solved his issue, he was reasonably respectable with the people he interacted with, and it was lucrative for one of them.

She was tickled but not into it. How many people in tickling videos are REALLY into it? She didn't like it during and after the fact? Just don't see the disresepct. I’ll bet even janitors ask for help with the really bad clean-up jobs. But they hold steady and still do the job .

No one has really come up with any alternative that would work for this guy in getting his fix, safely and legally, some thing better than what he‘s already come up with. But folks can sure wag their disapproving fingers.
 
Uhm, I make a long post about my take on things and how all of this affects me, and nobody responds to it. Could we direct this discussion back to me?


Your post was a story. It should be in the story section. What "take on things and how all of this affects me" do you mean? Apparently it effected you in the "I enjoyed myself" way, just as you wrote in the last paragraph. Mystery solved, Scoob.
 
Your post was a story. It should be in the story section. What "take on things and how all of this affects me" do you mean? Apparently it effected you in the "I enjoyed myself" way, just as you wrote in the last paragraph. Mystery solved, Scoob.

If you mean by a story that if was fictional then I disagree. Not because I know for a fact that it is true, but because I have had the same type of experiences my self. If you mean that it should be in True Tickling Stories then I agree. However I have a feeling this thread would probably be going down the same path.
 
The man ASKED her if he could tickle her. He also proves that he respected her limits by not tickling the girl who said no!

Your making comments that aren't very relevant.

If a man rapes a woman, I think the man should be in a cage for a long time. However, whilst that statement is loosely connected to this thread, it's not really relevant.

I think you've missed my point. In every post I have made on this thread I have been on NonCon's side, even to the point of defending the fact that his story is probably true. I was simple re-enforcing the fact that just because a woman works at a strip club doesn't mean she isn't entitled to the same common courtesy as any other person.
 
I think you've missed my point. In every post I have made on this thread I have been on NonCon's side, even to the point of defending the fact that his story is probably true. I was simple re-enforcing the fact that just because a woman works at a strip club doesn't mean she isn't entitled to the same common courtesy as any other person.

I'm sorry. You're absolutely correct on that.
 
If you are a janitor and truly hate it, I have to wonder how you came into doing that job, and, again, feel free to look for something else. You may hate it, but you weren’t forced into toilet cleaning with your tongue against your will the way some are interpreting this stripper has been done.
How about if you're a janitor, and one guy consistently refuses to flush the toilet after he uses it?

As I wrote earlier, there's never an excuse for making someone's job harder than the job itself requires.

If some one asks if they can tickle you, you say yes, or you say no.
Your entire long post missed the main point. We don't know whether the dancer was or was not unhappy about what NCT did. That's beside the point, so naturally how she chose to deal with her situation is beside the point. So you killed a lot of electrons for no particular good reason.

The point is, NCT believed that she didn't like what he was doing, and regarded (still regards) that fact as irrelevant. Whether she did or didn't isn't nearly as important as the way NCT's beliefs about that affected his actions. If you really don't understand why it's a bad thing to put your hands on someone with no regard for their wishes then I honestly don't know how to explain that to you.
 
wow

I really can't believe this thread made it to 7 pages

itll break 10 by friday

NON I READ UR LONG POST EXPLAINING URSELF....
but you have to remember, most of the folks in here dont really care who wrote the original post and instead are just taking the chance to argue with each other.
Its human nature to debate opinions.

but most importantly Non, dont let this thread negatively affect ur lifestyle or your involvement in the forum.

and next time u hit the club up have a drink for me,
cheers :gbtoast:
 
Uhm, I make a long post about my take on things and how all of this affects me, and nobody responds to it. Could we direct this discussion back to me?

Oooooooooooooooooooo, you wrote this post to get attention... now it's all clear. I was wondering why you bothered posting it when (according to you) you've done it hundreds of times before.

I'm surprised you didn't anticipate this thread moving onto discussing the respect and rights of the women when you say that you don't think one liked you asking all those questions.
 
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