Tickling a vanilla person more rewarding?

[TicklingTips]

Does anyone else find tickling someone that you know doesn't have a tickling fetish, can be a lot more fun in some ways than tickling another fetishist?

Personally, I really enjoy either converting women who don't like being tickled, or tickling women who do enjoy it but don't quite know why and helping them discover just how far you can go with it and how much fun it can be. I guess I've never had a full blown tickle session (as a ler) with someone who has this fetish, so possibly I don't have anything to compare it to. Any thoughts?

 

[giggle-maker]

tickle-toy did not know about this until I showed it to her. All she knew was that she loved to be tickled. However, once she saw all this, she understood that she had a tickle fetish all along. It just wasn't labled as such.

Now, finding a girl who hates to be tickled and slowly and gently getting her to like it is possibly the greatest achievement (and reward) a ler can accomplish IMOH.

 

[anonymiss86]

I've always converted vanilla boys 🙂. I don't know if it's a choice or just lack of fetishists in my area.
Either way, I have fun tickling the crap out of them and seeing how shocked they are when they discover that they're beginning to get turned on by it. 😉

 

[giggle-maker]

I've always converted vanilla boys 🙂. I don't know if it's a choice or just lack of fetishists in my area.
Either way, I have fun tickling the crap out of them and seeing how shocked they are when they discover that they're beginning to get turned on by it. 😉

If you are hot and the promise of sex is the pre-understood goal of the tickling, you will definitley be able to tickle the crap out of a vanilla boy.

 

[hockeygolf13]

My current girlfriend likes it when I tickle her. She isn't sure exactly why, but she likes it. I haven't gone crazy with it yet, so we will see what happens when I do lol. Also, she isn't ticklish on her feet, just everywhere else. I guess I can't complain though, at least she is ticklish at all.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Most "vanilla" people actually do enjoy tickling to some extent (a fact that seems to shock a lot of you for whatever reason), be it only from certain people or on certain places etc. You don't exactly need to get aroused from it to enjoy a prolonged tickle.

 

[peanie wilpnips]

All my girlfriends are Vanilla..except Sophie..I'm not sure about her yet . Brianna and Alexis do it because they know it makes me feel sooo good
I'm trying to get Weezie to tickle my feet..no luck yet.. I don't know if she counts as Vanilla though.

 

[TickleMyFancy]

I've only tickled vanillas. I'd like to tickle a fetishist sometime 🙂

 

[luca002]

i really prefer to tickle fetishist women... I like the idea she enjoy it

 

[TicklingTips]

i really prefer to tickle fetishist women... I like the idea she enjoy it

Yeah but somehow I love the idea of helping vanilla women discover that they enjoy it, a bit more than knowing that a fetishist already does. Not that I'd turn that down!

 

[rhiannon]

Yeah but somehow I love the idea of helping vanilla women discover that they enjoy it

Not all vanilla women do enjoy it though. 🙂

 

[TicklingTips]

Ah Rhiannon, I thought you might appear in this conversation with some sort of similar comment...

You're absolutely right Rhiannon, not all vanilla women do enjoy it. I never said they did. I never force anything on anyone.

 

[-Hari-]

yes and no.

At a BDSM afterparty one time i tickled a girl I knew was into it, she was restrained to a spit roast device, kinda like a narrow padded bench covered in straps that rotates between two pillars. I was able to tickle her for a long time with very little genuine objection and the comforting feeling that it was mutual.

On the same night I tickled her friend tied to a spanking bench type thing, she wasnt into tickling at all, in fact I dont think she was in to much so far as it was her first time and she came out of curiosity, i didnt tickle her for long and I was limited to where I could tickle her, but the reactions were different, she was just as ticklish as the first girl but there was hints of shock, surprise, desperation that you will never really get with someone that is into it and has done it before, and theres something very desirable about that, the 5 mins or so I spent tickling her was far more enjoyable than the 15 or so I spent on the first girl.

then theres my current situation, my gf wasnt into it, and upon first mentioning it to her and asking what she thought of it, I believe her response was something like "that sounds horrible but ide give it a go" and give it a go she did, and converted she was. I dont think I could enjoy tickling anyone more than when I tickle her.

So summarise, it appears I enjoy mostly tickling someone who wasn't into it, that is now. The corruption bonus is priceless 😀

 

[waitin2btkled]

Tickling vanillas are fun when the situation calls for it. I see that most vanillas interpret it as either flirting and or foreplay before sex.

It's cute going back and forth.

But there is nothing like having a lee tied up who has the fetish and tickling them until they can't take it anymore knowing they are trying thier hardest For it not to stop.

Big difference. However, pushing a vanillas limits after introducing one to our world is a different story...

 

[lapetitemort]

I always thought I was vanilla. But then I got tickled and realised maybe I wasn't. Now I know I am definitely not but some people may really just be vanilla.

 

[MaleTickleeDC]

I'll turn your question around. As a lee primarily, I love it when a vanilla woman tickles me, discovers that she likes the reaction, and continues to tickle me because she likes it. I'm not talking about full blown tied and tickled here, because I've never been able to figure out how to get a vanilla woman into that. I'm talking about the quick and playful tickles that happen in real life. Once a buddy and I used to frequent a sleazy bar and one of the waitresses, who thought I was too serious, decided to tickle my sides. She liked the way I jumped so much that she decided to tickle me every chance she got, basically every time I came in. It was awesome, mostly for the tickling, but also it was great knowing that I helped a vanilla person discover that she might like tickling.

 

[TicklingTips]

Yes harabish, personally I love seeing the internal thought processes going through a vanilla's head the first time they are seriously tickled e.g. "what? I'm ticklish there?" Or "oh my god, my feet are being tickled for more than 3 seconds!"

 

[hockeygolf13]

I tickled a fetishist and have tickled vanillas, vanillas are better.

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

I tickled a fetishist and have tickled vanillas, vanillas are better.

Agreed! And the more they hate it, the funner it is!

 

[Horatio]

Agreed! And the more they hate it, the funner it is!

^^^^ This.

 

[coldneck]

Ab-so-fucking-lute-ly!!!

Especially if they have no idea it was coming and they are powerless no stop it!

Those have always turned out the best for me.

 

[mohaha]

sorry to ask... what is a vanilla person??

 

[TicklingTips]

Well as the TMF community defines it, it's someone who doesn't have a tickling fetish - and it's generally accepted that they're not into BDSM either. Essentially, they like regular, non-fetishistic sex and nothing else. Or haven't explored other aspects yet.

Sorry if that's a bit vague and complicated.

Personally I'm not sure anyone is totally vanilla, in the sense that everyone seems to have fetishes to some degree - but don't recognise them as such. Within this thread, I just mean people who aren't into tickling, and don't know it is a fetish that some people have.

 

[TickVix]

I'm not sure if I'd say more rewarding, but definitely rewarding in it's own way I don't really tickle people since im the receiver Yet I have a vanilla friend who I'd LOVE to tickle if I could.