TICKLING ACCEPTED

[ticklechambers]

hehe, ok i am in shock.

I wanted to be become more confident with this tickling fetish. To be happy that it was a part of myself. And to just put myself out there and be open with it.

(not many people are a fan of this) But i've been on a dating site for roughly 6 months now. I made a second profile... secretly.... and outted myself!

OMG i've made so many new friends it's crazy lol. (as the profile specifies i'm only looking for friends)

HOWEVER

90% of the people i've spoken to (which is a lot of people by the way)

have been totally cool with it and accepting and just curious.

TICKLING is aparently the cutest fetish ever lol.

I've never felt so confident about it-

so i wanted to tell everyone my experience and let you all know to be confident too 😀

WE ROCK lol

 

[PomPom]

Yaaaaay! *celebrates with you*
I'm actually very shy with my fetish. Theres only one other person I know in real life that knows about it. She says she's willing to rp with me but I have yet to take her up on her offer. So I have atleast one person who accepts it! 😀
And yeah, she had the same reaction when told her. She said it was "adorable" haha.

 

[milagros317]

Glad to hear about the positive reaction. 😀

 

[Coda]

You have socialled it up! Congratulations on your courage, ticklechambers.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Pretty cool!

 

[socktickler86]

Congratulations but I am curious...

Do these other people understand to what extent you mean by tickling? If a guy or girl says they love tickling, that does sound cute! However... if they mean they like so much they actually go to a forum like this... or if they like tying down a girl/guy and tickling them or being tied down and tickled... or if they mean its a turn on as many people feel on this forum... or however deep it goes, how much do things change?

 

[ticklechambers]

Congratulations but I am curious...

Do these other people understand to what extent you mean by tickling? If a guy or girl says they love tickling, that does sound cute! However... if they mean they like so much they actually go to a forum like this... or if they like tying down a girl/guy and tickling them or being tied down and tickled... or if they mean its a turn on as many people feel on this forum... or however deep it goes, how much do things change?

🙂 to answer your question. Yes they are aware of the extent. And while i had a rare bad comment- most people just said "cute" "adorable" "different but i like that" and soforth 🙂

 

[socktickler86]

🙂 to answer your question. Yes they are aware of the extent. And while i had a rare bad comment- most people just said "cute" "adorable" "different but i like that" and soforth 🙂

Awesome. Sign me up.

So what is the 'extent' that you told them about? This is actually good to hear

 

[rhiannon]

It is one thing to "out" yourself on the internet to total strangers, it's another thing to out yourself to people you actually deal with.

 

[rhiannon]

I tolerate just about everything. But I still have an opinion about it. 🙂

If I'm being asked on the internet about my sexual preferrences, I don't have a problem to answer that question. Doesn't mean that I am running around in the real world telling everybody that I'm into tickling. I also don't see the neccessity to do so. It isn't anybody's business!

 

[chuckle]

I tolerate just about everything. But I still have an opinion about it. 🙂

If I'm being asked on the internet about my sexual preferrences, I don't have a problem to answer that question. Doesn't mean that I am running around in the real world telling everybody that I'm into tickling. I also don't see the neccessity to do so. It isn't anybody's business!

I second that!

 

[Canadian_Eh]

I tolerate just about everything. But I still have an opinion about it. 🙂

If I'm being asked on the internet about my sexual preferrences, I don't have a problem to answer that question. Doesn't mean that I am running around in the real world telling everybody that I'm into tickling. I also don't see the neccessity to do so. It isn't anybody's business!

Maybe they outed themselves so that they weren't feeling like that were hiding a piece of themselves, and finally wanted to be completely honest about who they are.

Not everyone on here outs themselves cause they want people to know, but because they're tired of hiding who they really are. I find a lot of people who have told friends, or their s/o have done it so that the person they're telling can accept them for who they are.. Fetish and all. "This is who I am" - take it or leave it. ... Just my two cents.

 

[texastickler]

First of all, I am happy for you.

Here is my thing. A fetish is something that turns you on. Might be physical and might not. The thing is, If someone asks me about it, I tell them. Here is the catch. If you get turned on by tickling (or any fetish for that matter) It is personal. Tickling is awesome. I love it and I have for many years. If it happens in my personal life it is simply that. Personal. If I was with a lady and we had a great night of making love I would not tell the first person I saw about it. It would be personal. Just my thoughts on the subject.

Anyways, I hope something works out for you on the dating site. Sounds very good.

 

[rhiannon]

Maybe they outed themselves so that they weren't feeling like that were hiding a piece of themselves, and finally wanted to be completely honest about who they are.

Not everyone on here outs themselves cause they want people to know, but because they're tired of hiding who they really are. I find a lot of people who have told friends, or their s/o have done it so that the person they're telling can accept them for who they are.. Fetish and all. "This is who I am" - take it or leave it.

And would the same people also run around telling everybody: "I totally love blowjobs....this is who I am - take it or leave it"? I bet you, people would look at them like they are totally crazy! Most people don't WANT to know stuff like that.

Why does everybody and their mother need to know what turns them on? This doesn't have anything to do with being completely honest about who they are.

Close friends - I understand that! My closest friends indeed know I am into tickling - and they don't care, because it is completely not interesting to them since we don't have any sexual contact!

 

[darkscar]

Its easier to type something on a keyboard and hit enter than it is to speak face to face. you can put a dating site profile on the internet say what ever you want. the beauty of it is people don't post their picture or they put a fake one up. not saying you did that but that's what people do. i would not state my fetish in my dating profile and put a picture to it just because i have a fear that someone that i know will come across it and the word would get out in a bad way.

 

[rhiannon]

i would not state my fetish in my dating profile and put a picture to it just because i have a fear that someone that i know will come across it and the word would get out in a bad way.

Totally agreed. On sites like Facebook you will never be able to read anything about my sexual preferrences. I just don't believe that kind of private information should be on the board for everybody to see!

 

[Leo tickles]

Your next step is to do it during dates.

Trust me, it's just as easy. 🙂

 

[moonlitedrive5]

Hey Ticklechambers, I'm really glad you got a positive response, always promising. Yea, it's way easier to tell people I don't know. I'm way shy about my tickling fetish, and could never tell someone I know or deal with all the time, or it would take ALOT of prodding, lol.

 

[P_Bustleton]

Your next step is to do it during dates.

Trust me, it's just as easy. 🙂

Seconded. But only on the first date if it goes REALLY well. 😉

 

[rhiannon]

But only on the first date if it goes REALLY well.

Only on the first date if SHE starts talking about sex! Nothing is more of a turn-off than a guy who starts mentioning sex on the first date!

 

[love feet]

hehe, ok i am in shock.

I wanted to be become more confident with this tickling fetish. To be happy that it was a part of myself. And to just put myself out there and be open with it.

(not many people are a fan of this) But i've been on a dating site for roughly 6 months now. I made a second profile... secretly.... and outted myself!

OMG i've made so many new friends it's crazy lol. (as the profile specifies i'm only looking for friends)

HOWEVER

90% of the people i've spoken to (which is a lot of people by the way)

have been totally cool with it and accepting and just curious.

TICKLING is aparently the cutest fetish ever lol.

I've never felt so confident about it-

so i wanted to tell everyone my experience and let you all know to be confident too 😀

WE ROCK lol

Wow That is so good!! 🙂
but it almost never happens that way at all!.
Power to you!

 

[rhiannon]

but it almost never happens that way at all!.

Of course it does. On the internet, the sky's truly the limit.

 

[P_Bustleton]

Only on the first date if SHE starts talking about sex! Nothing is more of a turn-off than a guy who starts mentioning sex on the first date!

Hence the "REALLY well," not just "really well." 😉

You've locked eyes all night and end with a passionate goodnight kiss-->no

You're back at your place and undressed-->go for it

I did once talk about it on a first date. Tickling came up in conversation (she was a med student, and I brought up that rats were ticklish). Then she remembered I had written I like tickle fights in my online dating profile, so she asked me about it. We had a lot of chemistry at that point and the date ended up being quite fun. But alas, she didn't like being tickled--though she did like me enough to give it a try over the time we dated.

This was kind of an extreme case: we were kissing half an hour into our first date, and we ended up spending like 8 hours together that day. I forget if tickling came up before or after our first kiss.

 

[Leo tickles]

Only on the first date if SHE starts talking about sex! Nothing is more of a turn-off than a guy who starts mentioning sex on the first date!

Not always true. I don't know who's aware and who isn't here, but I'm a virgin until marriage. So in my case when I bring up sexual things, it's to see our compatibility level. Of course if the date is going horrible, why bother.

But 9.5/10 times I'll have a half hour conversation about what I'm into, what she's into, and if/how we can mix those things into something unique for us.

 

[rhiannon]

but I'm a virgin until marriage

Bad idea. 🙂 I wouldn't buy a car I haven't driven before! 🙂