Which best fulfills your tickling needs, a lover or a friend? Lovers can come and go (in more ways than one) and even at the marriage level, it's a 50-50 chance of working out. But with a friend, the emotional attachment and expectations are not as great, which decreases your chance of losing someone who satisfies you, tickle-wise.
When I was dating my wife, I tickled her often enough and while I knew she was not the type I could tie up, the tickling was at least satisfactory. But starting with - I kid you not - our wedding night, she would just get
mad when I tickled her.
The past six years I've indulged in tickle-for-pay encounters (mostly dominatrices who switch or submit) and also tickled two fabulous women I met through this great web site. These days money problems make the former difficult. As for the latter, while I thought I was respecting their limits my tickling style was too pushy for the tastes of those two girls; one blew me off after our sole play date and the other stopped answering my calls after six sessions.
I'm thinking a platonic friend/tickle buddy is the better way to go. While I'd still want the woman I tickle to be attractive, knowing the complications of a sexual relationship isn't going to affect my tickle action would be a fair compromise.
If you've had both, what's worked better for you? And if you've had only one or maybe none, which do you imagine would be your choice, the lover with whom you tickle or the platonic opposite-sex tickle buddy?
When I was dating my wife, I tickled her often enough and while I knew she was not the type I could tie up, the tickling was at least satisfactory. But starting with - I kid you not - our wedding night, she would just get
mad when I tickled her. The past six years I've indulged in tickle-for-pay encounters (mostly dominatrices who switch or submit) and also tickled two fabulous women I met through this great web site. These days money problems make the former difficult. As for the latter, while I thought I was respecting their limits my tickling style was too pushy for the tastes of those two girls; one blew me off after our sole play date and the other stopped answering my calls after six sessions.
I'm thinking a platonic friend/tickle buddy is the better way to go. While I'd still want the woman I tickle to be attractive, knowing the complications of a sexual relationship isn't going to affect my tickle action would be a fair compromise.
If you've had both, what's worked better for you? And if you've had only one or maybe none, which do you imagine would be your choice, the lover with whom you tickle or the platonic opposite-sex tickle buddy?
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