Told my girlfriend I liked feet the other day...

[phant0m]

The convo goes down tomorrow night....wish me luck!

Good luck man, I hope it all turns out well for you!

 

[featheredfeet]

Well...the talk happened...we were completely honest with each other. I have to say, I feel relieved! She was totally accepting of everything I had to say and consented that she was, in fact, open to all the things I had mentioned on here! I laid everything out on the line and told her how much my fetish meant to me and she said, "I don't understand it babe, but I love you and and more than happy to grow to understand more each day I spend with you." The BJ thing turned out to be a non-issue...she had, apparently, been talking to a couple of her married friends about it and they told her how big of a deal it was in there relationship and how they had ways of getting around the lack of cleanliness (i.e. in the shower, post-shower). The foot fetish gained so much ground when i told her that I didn't have any desire for her to do anything to my feet. Guys...I feel so relieved and so genuinely happy about the way this conversation went...words can't describe!

 

[3xPIN]

We've all been there. Not that particular moment, but haters gotta hate. they are everywhere.

 

[phant0m]

Congratz man. You've affirmed that honest communication is the way to go in these situations, and you have a caring girl who is willing to accept you to show for it.

 

[cttickler44]

in a round-about way. We are a couple that has been taking things slow...7 months in, no sex (attributed to my religious/ethical beliefs). Last night we were on the couch, half watching a movie/half kissing, and she started to play with my beard. As she did that I playfully nipped at her hand (common, playful occurrence) and she let me bite it and then said, "You always nibble my hand! ::cutsie tone::". I looked up and said half jokingly/half testing the waters, "Would you rather it be your toe?::deep but coy tone::" It was like one of those movie moments when two people are driving and the passenger says something to which the driver immediately slams on the breaks. "I would never kiss you again...honestly babe, there isn't enough brushing you could do to make me forget about that." There was a brief back and forth about whether that was hyperbole or not...it wasn't. That's kind of a big deal for me. I mean, that is an ingrained fetish that I have. Anyone ever have anything similar happen? What was the outcome of that relationship (if its not to bold to ask)?

Ouch man, that sucks. I feel your pain. How does she feel about tickling in general? Or is she more the vanilla type?

 

[Backstep]

I'm glad things are settled for the moment. Just remember that this shouldn't be a one-time conversation in the future. Keep those lines of communication open; there are all sorts of things to talk about before you decide to make serious commitments.

Out of curiosity, is there anything sexually she's interested in and would like to try? Something you can do for her in the future? Sometimes that helps keeps things balanced.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

It sounds like things are starting to really look up for you and it sounds like your girlfriend is going to be accepting of the tickle kink/foot fetish so that is great thing. Congrats on that -that can be rare and hard to find-finding someone that can accept and try/ready to do what he or she can to accept a kink. So congratulations. Like others said keep the communication flowing and stay consistent with talking about your mutual turn ons and your kinks as individuals-kinks and passions you can share together happily as a couple. Let each other know what works what you enjoy and what you both don't enjoy as individuals and most importantly as a couple too. Keep trying to stay and be sexually compatible, talk out your differences/ both be willing to compromise mutually when you can- figure out as a couple what works for both of you not only in a intimate sexual aspect but also in other every day aspects too. Find out each other's hobbies and other important stuff/issues outside the bedroom as well. Other than that-good luck and happy tickles to you. Oh yeah and I agree with backstep- it does help to find what works for you both-what you can do for her to make her happy outside the bedroom-sexually in bedroom/intimately as well-same what she can do to make you happy likewise in both departments outside and in the bedroom-it does bring more peace and more equal balance in the relationship when you find what benefits and works great for you both sexually as a couple. Good luck to you both.