What do you find sexy?

[steph]

For me there are a few MANDATORIES, although I like most men in general (unless they're totals pricks, greedy, racist, etc.)

But as far as what turns me on, I'm pretty picky. I'm drawn to a guy's eyes and his smile. He has to have good hands and be sensual. He doesn't have to look like Brad Pitt but good hygeine is essential. I think fun guys are sexy and they have to treat me well.
Also I tend to like to do silly things to make people laugh so he neds to at least be tolerant of that and above all else, if he accepts me for me, it's in the bag!

Feel free to be as shallow as you want, just as long as you're honest. (If this generates enough response I'll do a turnoffs list too...)

Thanx y'all--have some fun with this!

XOXO

 

[qjakal]

Hmm...

I'd say....."submission" turns me on most. The willingness to be out of control and place ones trust in my hands is just plain sexy. A pleasant attitude along with intelligence are close seconds though. *Shrug*...we men are such uncomplicated creatures..lol.

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[steph]

I like that answer

It's not something I expected. I can definitely see why a guy would dig that.

(I figured the first response would be something generic like "I need her to have a big rack") 🙄
😀😀😀

XOXO

 

[milagros317]

At the risk of seeming shallow, let me say that what I find most sexy in a woman is a)beautiful feet, especially soles, and b)the desire to have attention paid to them. 😀

 

[steph]

I don't think that sounds shallow at all...

plus I did say be honest...😀

XOXO

 

[Sadistictickler]

Body:
-TICKLISHNESS 😛
-eyes
-smile
-nice ass would be OK 😀

but body doesn't matter that much

Personality:
-intelligent
-playful
-submissive
-independant

 

[steph]

More good answers!

I'm pleasantly surprised and impressed, guys...

XOXO

 

[qjakal]

Re: I like that answer

It's not something I expected. I can definitely see why a guy would dig that.

(I figured the first response would be something generic like "I need her to have a big rack") 🙄
😀😀😀

XOXO

I think that's the upside of having a fetish/fascination. You aren't as hung up on a certain body type as all the poor vanilla guys with their limited perception and attitudes towards sexual play. I find nearly all women attractive, although you brought up a great point about hygiene...*shudder*.

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[venray]

Playfulness
Evil mind
Nice laugh
Likes to be tickled/likes to tickle
Cute feet

 

[Sadistictickler]

yeah, a nice laugh is a + too 😀

good one venray

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I know some guys who consider a woman's body to be her best part but then I wonder why you'd never date a pretty bitch?

 

[KoocheeKoo]

What do I find sexy in a lady?

First...a woman who is sensitive (caring) and has a conscience...a person who cares about others. A lady who has a great personality and sense of humor, who loves to have fun (sporting events, concerts, amusement parks, playful ticklefights)....but also loves quiet evenings cuddling in front of a roaring fireplace and holding hands with her special guy on a long walk along the beach.

As for physical attributes, the first thing to catch my eye has always been a lady's eyes and pretty smile. I also find a lady who takes good care of her hands and feet extremely sexy (regular manicures/ pedicures). I also find a woman sexy who has self confidence, is happy with her body/ size...doesn't stress herself trying to look like a half-starved supermodel.

I've never been much into nudity....because nothing is more sexy looking IMO than a cute little barefoot girl (lady) wearing a t-shirt and cut-off blue jean shorts or sundress.

 

[Dave2112]

Janet Reno is the fire that ignites my loins....

 

[qjakal]

Aaargh...

THAT should be edited for some uber rule violation having to do with common decency...c'mon man, it's Sunday and I'd like to eat some dinner not scrub images out of my brain all night.

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[Psycho]

She doesn't have to be EXTREMLY smart but i would like her not to be a dumbass. Also everyone knows what we liek in a body. 😀 Im not extremly picky but i do like an ass. Flat asses just turn me off. LOL. There are very few women though that have a completely flat ass. I dont want her to be a bitch. Submissive is good. I like tickling dominant women too because it turns me on when you make a dominant woman submit. It turns me on when i am forced to submit as well. (i know im a friggan weirdo) Anyways hope i wasnt too shallow.

ps-i like nice racks as well. lol

Psycho

 

[venray]

Janet Reno is the fire that ignites my loins....

Hillary is gonna be soooooooooo pissed at you...😛

 

[Double T]

Hey steph. how do you feel about begging?

For me, I need a woman to be intelligent. (and am I going to look like a jerk if I misspelled that. Spelling was never my strong point, and I'm too lazy to use Encarta). I like to be able to talk with a woman, not at her. A warm, caring heart is also a big plus, she should also be honest, confident, have a sense of humor, and be able to put up with some of my more annoying habits. Being attractive, well, if she has all that inside her, she is attractive! Outward appearance never impressed me that much, and, if she likes tickling, and being tickled, well, that's the icing on the cake.

 

[steph]

LOL

You're adorable!

I don't mind begging UNLESS I've made it clear to the guy that I don't find him attractive and he ignores my wishes, but that's one for the turnoff list I think 😀

Thanks for the responses guys--very interesting stuff!
I didn't direct this question at men specifically--it was meant for everyone to come in and play--WHERE ARE THE GIRLS???

XOXO

 

[Flatfoot]

I'm afraid my answer may be a little skewed...

I don't know if I've ever really verbalized what makes a woman attractive to me. I guess after looking back at the women in the past, here's a few that come to mind(not necessarily prioritized in this order, but this is how they pop into my head.)

She would have a little bit of a dominant streak, but not be a control freak or a micromanager.

Brunette (not that I'd have minded dating a blonde. I just always seemed to wind up with brunettes.)

I like very affectionate, touchy-feely women (I think touchy-feely is pretty important in this community in general! 😛 ).

It's sexy when a woman is accepting of my interests, including hobbies and sexual, but not when it's in a patronizing way, or in a way of trying to use my interests to get me to do things on her agenda. I'm not a dog to sit for my master and await a treat. In fact, it's even better if she can share my interests. I never believed in that stuff that too many shared interests is bad for a relationship. That just makes it easier to be able to relate to someone. Also, as far as sexual interests, like Milagros said, it's great if she takes care of her feet and likes having her feet paid attention to, because a foot fetish is not something I want to indulge with someone who will not appreciate it. That's not something I want a woman to cater to if she's not into it, I'd feel too weird, and wouldn't want to be patronized.

Oh, I remembered a very important one. It's very sexy when a woman has a "real" personality. She can't have a fake personality, or one that she'll display to her friends, family members, and acquaintences that differs from her true nature. I'm not going to put on a mask and act in her performance because she's afraid to show her true self. A perverted mind is a definite plus, as well as a playful personality (will instigate lots of tickling! 😉 ) with a little bit of introspect (Don't try to be presumptuous about what I may be thinking if you haven't taken the time to think about it yourself.).

 

[BigJim]

Best thing for a gal to have is as close to a perverted, twisted, demented and freaky sense of humour as mine. If someone can find something funny and giggle helplessly about mundane crap, there's gotta be something there! On top of which she'd not find it funny I laughed at mundane crap either, which is also a bonus! 😀

The sort of appearance that immediately attracts me is kinda hard to define. I've known tickling models who the rest of the community raves about, but I'm not in the least attracted to. (Priscilla James being the prime example, as I've said before.) I don't think I can put it into words really. Just the strange combination and juxtaposition of facial features that triggers my radar. I couldn't describe it. Probably the most "beautiful" tickling model I've ever seen (facially) would be Cierra Baynes from Realtickling. Footwise it would either be Baynes again or Mercy from RT, or possibly Starr from Paradise Vision. (Add her to the facial list too.)

Of course, looks never decides 100% of someone's attractiveness. You could have a Miss World candidate and I wouldn't be attracted to her because of a total lack of personality, or you could have a very average girl who'd I'd love to bits because she has *it*. No two gals are the same I guess and no one (or two) qualities or facets could define attractiveness.

 

[Traveler]

Well,lets go for the shallow part first🙂,they must have long hair,really like long hair🙂,and really only attracted to redheads and blondes how shallow is that lol.I like what I call intelligent femine women.Strong on the outside but.all sexy and sensual on the inside,wow,it's getting warm🙂.And,yes being a foot guy I become really interested when they have nice feet.But,as long as they don't have katie holmes feet,I am flexible.Yes,and one more thing I like women that smell real good nothing more sexy to me then a woman who smells good.I know the last thing is a bit bizarre but,that's just me,

 

[TicklishSinner]

Flatfoot is sexy!!!!...lol....anyways i have a thing for guys abs and those indents right above the hips....OMG to die for!

 

[steph]

A girl at last...

Welcome brave lil' Mama--thanx for the post!

XOXO

 

[TicklishSinner]

your welcome hunny..you know im the brave one and i definetly am brave lol

 

[steph]

I know you are honey...

I was teasing the guys, waiting for a brave chica to chime in, although I gotta say, so far I'm LOVING their responses...

XOXO

 

[Psycho]

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