What do you think I should doooo?

[TickleToy4You]

Ok...I have a boyfriend, and at this point we are working out a deal so I can try and do more tickling sessions and stuff and still have us date and be trusting with each other, but...about a week or so ago one of his friends sent me a text saying "I was wondering if you would ever consider letting me tie you to a bed and tickle your stomach and feet." I didn't really know what to say so I never answered back. The next day he sent me another text that said "I'm sorry this may seem strange and random but I feel the need to tell you about my fetish. You have no idea how much I would like to have ya tied up to my bed with a nice gag and then tickle torture ya all over. Let me know if we could do this sometime, i'd pay you of course." I feel funny saying it but it turned me on for the fact that it's usually my boyfriend who says that kinda stuff to me. It felt wrong but I don't know. What should I do about this? Kinda seems weird to have my boyfriends friend want to pay me for a tickling session. Do I tell my boyfriend about this? I wanna be 100% honest with him but at the same time I don't want to destroy his friendship with this guy...even though he is going behind his back :/

 

[sasaxrah]

I wouldn't do it at all... but you could conceivably ask your boyfriend if theoretically he'd be OK with you playing with someone you both know. Gauge his reaction and then decide if you can ask the follow-up question.

I wouldn't take money from a friend, also. Just me.

 

[Maestro1874]

Tough one - comes with all the difficulties of mixing business with pleasure.

 

[LD_Tickler]

If it destroys his friendship with his buddy, it's because of his buddy breaching the trust, not because of you mentioning it. In fact if you don't mention it and it comes out later, you'll be in a bad spot. Full disclosure, tell your bf. It's not your job to referee his friendships.

Also, I feel like there's more to the story you're not mentioning. Obviously this guy knows you're into tickling, so is this something that you and your bf are pretty open about with your friends? Are your sure your bf doesn't already know that his buddy was planning on asking?

 

[TickleToy4You]

Yeah I already know 100% i'm not gonna let him tickle me let alone tie me up but yeah most of our friends know about our tickling fetish and stuff. No, he doesn't. If he did he would have said something to me and to him by now. The thing is I didn't know HE was into tickling until he texted me about it. I'm gonna definitely mention it though.

 

[-Hari-]

You could request that he clears it with your boyfriend personally first.

That way its not your problem plus your bf would probably rather a friend he knows rather than some complete stranger.

 

[TickVix]

Wow girl, that's not an easy situation to be in I could imagine. I don't fully know the whole situation but I would think that your bf's friend would have more respect for you and his friend to not even send you msgs like that in the first place. With that said, I definitely wouldn't do it. Even if you kept it between you and his friend he'd probably find out eventually and everything that you two have built thus far may be ruined. If I were in your place I wouldn't do it, especially since you stated that you and him are working out a deal for you to have more tickling sessions. So just focus on that, at least the trust element will still remain. Good luck t you hun.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

why are you even wanting to go outside ?

if this relationship with your bf is so good why do you even feel the need to go outside of it for tickling???
so it's pretty clear the relationship is not fullfilling. with that in mind i'd say yes play with his friend, just not with bondage, as there is a trust issue. i have mixed feelings on the money side.
good luck.

steve

 

[StevePerry4Ever]

Tell him! No guy wants a friend who tries to sneak around on the side with his girlfriend. ...and you said you wanted to be 100% honest. It may hurt their friendship but it's way better for your bf to know.

 

[TickleToy4You]

Areenactor, it's something I would do for money since most people pay pretty well it's not because i'm not "getting enough." I don't think it's pretty clear at all honestly but I guess thats your opinion right? Thanks though.

 

[primetime]

I do not doubt the validity of the original post. Is it really a stretch to think that it actually happen? Nope...

Anyways, use your best judgement. If you tell your boyfriend, it could affect his relationship with his friend. So, just use your best judgement.

Then again, how about this twist? Since you and your boyfriend are discussing you having sessions with other people, could it be possible that your boyfriend put his friend up to texting you to "test" you?

 

[BellybTickler]

I'd agree with the majority of the posters in that you should tell your boyfriend. I mean, would you want him to tell you if one of your friends offered him the opportunity to tie and tickle her?

 

[Bohemianne]

Let me know if we could do this sometime, i'd pay you of course."

Why is he paying? Be careful...

 

[WheresThe Clip?]

Well if it is true then I would suggest your boyfriend has been discussing your relationship and interests with his pals (which would be verrrry creepy).

And if it isn't - well I have been going out with Nicole Kidman for some time and she said ..................

 

[TicklesFemales]

I think maybe your boyfriend put him up to this, maybe he told his friend how ticklish you are and that you enjoy others tickling you. Maybe you can make some kind of arrangement with him and your boyfriend both tying you up and tickle torturing you sometime.

 

[SlaverTickler]

Ok...I have a boyfriend, and at this point we are working out a deal so I can try and do more tickling sessions and stuff and still have us date and be trusting with each other, but...about a week or so ago one of his friends sent me a text saying "I was wondering if you would ever consider letting me tie you to a bed and tickle your stomach and feet." I didn't really know what to say so I never answered back. The next day he sent me another text that said "I'm sorry this may seem strange and random but I feel the need to tell you about my fetish. You have no idea how much I would like to have ya tied up to my bed with a nice gag and then tickle torture ya all over. Let me know if we could do this sometime, I'd pay you of course." I feel funny saying it but it turned me on for the fact that it's usually my boyfriend who says that kinda stuff to me. It felt wrong but I don't know. What should I do about this? Kinda seems weird to have my boyfriends friend want to pay me for a tickling session. Do I tell my boyfriend about this? I wanna be 100% honest with him but at the same time I don't want to destroy his friendship with this guy...even though he is going behind his back :/

It sound to me like your guy is using one of his friends to test you. I would tell him no, and then ask you boyfriend about the possibility that he knew about it. If it turns out he did, and it was some sort of test, then I would get rid of him. I would never put up with that sort of thing from a chick, so you shouldn't either. He either trusts you or he doesn't.

 

[love feet]

It sound to me like your guy is using one of his friends to test you. I would tell him no, and then ask you boyfriend about the possibility that he knew about it. If it turns out he did, and it was some sort of test, then I would get rid of him. I would never put up with that sort of thing from a chick, so you shouldn't either. He either trusts you or he doesn't.

I am with SlaverTickler on this!!!.

 

[Mike3355]

I dunno i have this feeling when i read the original post that your boyfriend may have set this up somehow, i very well could be wrong as it is just a gut feeling. I will add i do hope i am wrong about that one...

 

[Phineas]

The thing that bothers me the most about this scenario is something that no one's mentioned yet... the fact that he persisted in asking her again after she already indicated disinterest by ignoring the first text.

Definitely bring it up with your boyfriend. Something's fishy here.

 

[phil8888uk]

i put money on it being your bf testing you

 

[Ticklish9's]

It's probably worth mentioning that it's not the sign of a trusting boyfriend if he feels he needs to "test" you. That's crap.

So find out what's going before making any snap judgements.

Personally I think I would just tell my fiancee what had happened and get her opinion on it, and if she was ok with it then cool, and if not then cool too.

 

[TickleToy4You]

Yeah we've talked about it, everything is fine...and we both avoid the other dude so it's not a problem anymore. Thanks everyone.

 

[usgrant]

Just remember guys will do anything to get their NUT off. Exception to every rule but usually the younger the guy, the less self-control.

 

[love feet]

Yeah we've talked about it, everything is fine...and we both avoid the other dude so it's not a problem anymore. Thanks everyone.

That's good!.