What DON'T you like about M/M tickling? (a discussion)

[PainTrain]

No, but seriously now, Gremio and Bagelperson... this thread was created for people who do NOT like m/m tickling videos to express why they do NOT like m/m tickling videos.

Did you start posting on this thread because you want to tell us why you DON'T like m/m tickling videos?

If you didn't come here to tell us why you don't like m/m tickling videos, then.... why are you on this thread at all? (that was clearly labeled in the first post)

Thanks.
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Once again: Oh the irony.


The same reason you posted in a m/m clip thread, targeted only towards those who enjoy m/m, to voice your disgust for m/m, even though the thread was clearly labeled in the first post.

 

[Goodieluver]

I think the male body is gross and not my thing to see tickled, thats just me

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Did anyone actually say that watching gay porn "makes them gay"??? What I THINK people said was that watching M/M tickling does nothing for them because they aren't gay or bi. Two entirely different concepts, Guy.

I disagree. From what I understand is that if you watch it that means you must be gay or bi. I am just wondering why they said "m/m tickling does nothing for me because I am not gay or bi." why not just say, I dont like it...it doesnt interest me..why the "because I am not gay or bi." It just sounds to like they label it that way. Unless you are admitting that anyone that looks at same sex tickling videos or are in same sex tickling video are really lesbians and gay men.

Also, what I am hearing is that some say that the reason they don't like to watch m/m tickling is because they vision themselves as the male "ler" to the m/f tickling vids. The same guys stated that f/f turns them on I am merely wondering again if that means they see themselves as the females in the vids as well.

I'm just saying not everyone that watches or participates m/m or f/f should be labeled as lesbian or homosexual. Unless, you know something I dont ...if so I will stand corrected. I just thought it was an unfair accusation.

 

[tickler_n_black]

Once again: Oh the irony.


The same reason you posted in a m/m clip thread, targeted only towards those who enjoy m/m, to voice your disgust for m/m, even though the thread was clearly labeled in the first post.

In hindsite, those posts of mine and of others were deleted by the mods, and correctly so. What makes you think you can do the same on this thread? Do you want your threads deleted? Are you seeing how far you can go? Are you attempting to "get back at us heteros" for posting on the m/m video thread? What is it Gremm? What's your motive here?

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[PainTrain]

Are you attempting to "get back at us heteros" for posting on the m/m video thread? What is it Gremm? What's your motive here?

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I think that right there reveals more about how you think, than I ever could.




By the way, my posts in that m/m thread were deleted as well.




Secondly, if you look at what I have posted in this thread, it has been responses to a few key statements. Let's examine, shall we?

My 1st post in this thread was in response to this statement, which had nothing to do with the original purpose of the thread:

I'm a single, heterosexual male. I'm not a homophobe. I have friends and co-workers who are gay and that is fine. It is not my cup of tea however and I don't care to see or hear about their lifestyle.

This was my reply

...And yet it's ok for us to see and hear about your lifestyle everywhere we go? Because thats what happens.


Oh, and drew70, I'm proud of ya mate.

2nd and 3rd post, also had nothing to do with me being against anyone not liking m/m material. If you look back, every single one of my posts in this entire thread, has been in response to an off topic remark. So don't blame me for going off topic. (Which you have done yourself in this thread, BTW)

 

[tickler_n_black]

"There are two kinds of straight people in this world. The kind that will hate you to your face, and the kind that will hate you to your back."


Does your signature quote (above) convey that all straight people hate you? If you believe that then you are indeed dilusional, and full of hatred yourself.

Come on man, give it up. You are not the representative of the gay community that has been sent forth to conquer all anti m/m thoughts and ideas. You're not "their" savior. You can take a rest now.

It must be hard jumping from m/m thread to m/m thread in attempt to spread your sexual preferences. Me, I'm just staying on this one thread. You have the same thing to say in every one of them. Your eyes must get crossed!
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[PainTrain]

"There are two kinds of straight people in this world. The kind that will hate you to your face, and the kind that will hate you to your back."


Does your signature quote (above) convey that all straight people hate you? If you believe that then you are indeed dilusional, and full of hatred yourself.


It must be hard jumping from m/m thread to m/m thread in attempt to spread your sexual preferences. Me, I'm just staying on this one thread. You have the same thing to say in every one of them. Your eyes must get crossed!
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Ah, so typical of you. Dodge the points, and try and change the subject. Talking to you is like talking to a brick wall.

Oh, and the sig quote? It's from a TV show.

Secondly, I only reply to other peoples negative remarks in said threads. Breathe TiB, Breathe.

Spread my sexual preferences? So are you saying that by my posting in m/m threads, that I'm somehow going to make people attracted to men? Please, elaborate.



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Come on man, give it up. You are not the representative of the gay community that has been sent forth to conquer all anti m/m thoughts and ideas. You're not "their" savior. You can take a rest now.

When and where did I ever claim to be this? Please, enlighten us.

 

[tickler_n_black]

Oh, and the sig quote? It's from a TV show.

Oh, so in your line of thinking I can quote all the horrible things Mel Gibson said about Jews in my signature, and get around it by saying "it's from what Mel Gibson said."

Yeah, nice way to hide your hatred for straight folks. Blame it on a "tv show." It's really sad man. Really.

 

[PainTrain]

Oh, so in your line of thinking I can quote all the horrible things Mel Gibson said about Jews in my signature, and get around it by saying "it's from what Mel Gibson said."

Yeah, nice way to hide your hatred for straight folks. Blame it on a "tv show." It's really sad man. Really.

Still dodging those posts, eh?

And where did I ever say I "hated straight folks"? Please, I'm asking you again, enlighten us.

Let's get this straight. You think I "hate straight people" because of that little line of text in my sig? Wow. Thats a pretty bold statement. Anything other than that to back up such a claim?

Every friend I have here on the TMF is straight, and every friend I have in real life is straight, except for 3. You can't make such a claim, and then not have anything to back it up. So, do you?


The quote is from Queer as Folk, Season 1, episode 3, BTW. Check it out sometime.

 

[wendynpeter]

Yes but why would you? You say you can and it won't do nothing for you, but why would you watch it to prove it, if you can? I sure as hell can't. The only other dick I want to see is my own when I am having a passionate and/or sexual time with a woman.

But back on topic to those who say they watch it and say they are not gaye and/or defend it is at the least bi-curious. You don't just watch for the sake of watching something you find entertaining. Just because it has tickling in it. Its your fetish and yes fetishes are usally related to a sexual desire. So yes I am saying you are in denial.

Frankly, I'm having a hard following *what* you're saying. What do you think I'm in denial *about*? I never said I watch gay porn to prove anything. I said it's possible for me to see gay porn without flipping out. There's a big difference between watching something and being aroused by it. My point is that if I'm watching gay porn, I might as well be watching a documentary on the sex life of the snail darter. So if I'm going to watch something that gets me going, the primary starting point is the presence of a female.

 

[wendynpeter]

I disagree. From what I understand is that if you watch it that means you must be gay or bi. I am just wondering why they said "m/m tickling does nothing for me because I am not gay or bi." why not just say, I dont like it...it doesnt interest me..why the "because I am not gay or bi." It just sounds to like they label it that way. Unless you are admitting that anyone that looks at same sex tickling videos or are in same sex tickling video are really lesbians and gay men.

Also, what I am hearing is that some say that the reason they don't like to watch m/m tickling is because they vision themselves as the male "ler" to the m/f tickling vids. The same guys stated that f/f turns them on I am merely wondering again if that means they see themselves as the females in the vids as well.

I'm just saying not everyone that watches or participates m/m or f/f should be labeled as lesbian or homosexual. Unless, you know something I dont ...if so I will stand corrected. I just thought it was an unfair accusation.

Well... "watches" and "participates" are two very different things, at least for me. For example, I was at a party once that a gay friend threw. There were lots and lots of gay guys there. They started watching some old gay porn videos that were shot on film, by some famous gay director. They got me to watch because they wanted to show me the difference between this "art porn" and later stuff that was shot on video. I could watch that with some interest because of the film making aspect. That's watching, and watching doesn't make you anything except more exposed to gay porn. No big deal. But there is no denying that the vast majority of people who watch homosexual porn are gay or bi. That just makes sense.

Participating, well, that's something else alllllllll together if you ask me. I just put it like this: For me and me alone:

"Adult" tickling is sexual a sexual act.
By definition, sexual acts with people of the same sex are homosexual acts.
Therefore "adult" tickling between two people of the same sex is a homosexual act.

Is that wrong or a big deal? No. But it's not for me.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

A valid point..but it isn't right to assume that everyone is gay that watches or participates in tickling videos, if so then you have to say that most of the girls being tickled on the videos are all lesbians as well or dare I say..on the TMF as well. I don't believe that to be true. Some of the people on here said otherwise. So watching it is a "gay" act. Which to me doesn't make sense. Unless, they are so turned on by tickling (m/f or f/f) that if a man was being tickled by another man might turn them on as well and they fear that.

 

[10 armed tkler]

That post was not all for you. I never said you were in denial since you said that you would rather be watching something else or something like that.

 

[Palendrome]

Like most have already said,I am am a Heterosexual who finds m/m homosexual, and Dont really care for it. I am also somewhat of a Homophobe, but Im sure my dislike for it comes from a much more primal source, you know, Finding a suitable mate and such. So , to put in simple terms, it is an issue of sexuality

 

[Bagelfather]

There ya go. 🙂 You have finally contributed to the thread in the way that it was intended. To find out who does NOT like m/m, and why.

You stated above that you're not interested in it, and do not like watching it ...
So would you care to tell us WHY you don't like watching m/m?

Thanks.

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showpost.php?p=1110484&postcount=67

 

[tricham]

Jesus. Idiotic, homophobic, bible-thumping answers aside...

Simple question, simple answer.

My response may not have been what all people agree with, however you should be more respectful of other peoples opinions if you want the same respect for yours.

 

[wendynpeter]

Jesus. Idiotic, homophobic, bible-thumping answers aside...

Simple question, simple answer.

My response may not have been what all people agree with, however you should be more respectful of other peoples opinions if you want the same respect for yours.

I'm sorry tricham, and maybe you're right. And if you qualified your statement by saying something like "I believe homosexualty is contrary to what the bible teaches," then no one should have a problem with that because it's a statement about you and you alone. But many people say "homosexuality is wrong because it's contrary to what the bible teaches." Its a subtle difference, but the latter is a statement about homosexuals, not a statement about you.

The truth is I have no respect whatsoever for people who judge others based on "what the bible teaches," because, as others here have pointed out, the bible also teaches us not to judge others. Well, and also I believe all organized religion is a huge crock of shit (which is a statement about me.)

 

[Myriads]

If you want to debate over the bible and homosexuality. Open a thread on that in the P&R forum.

Please keep this focused on TiB's question.

Myriads

 

[wendynpeter]

If you want to debate over the bible and homosexuality. Open a thread on that in the P&R forum.

Please keep this focused on TiB's question.

Myriads

Thanks, we needed that.

 

[tricham]

I just wanted the respect for my opinion

If you want to debate over the bible and homosexuality. Open a thread on that in the P&R forum.

Please keep this focused on TiB's question.

Myriads

That either one of you would want for yours.

 

[Neotickles]

It doesn't look cool to me.

 

[simulated]

Originally Posted by tickler_n_black
No, but seriously now, Gremio and Bagelperson... this thread was created for people who do NOT like m/m tickling videos to express why they do NOT like m/m tickling videos.

Did you start posting on this thread because you want to tell us why you DON'T like m/m tickling videos?

If you didn't come here to tell us why you don't like m/m tickling videos, then.... why are you on this thread at all? (that was clearly labeled in the first post)

Thanks.

I'm confused - you make a thread about why m/m tickling disgusts you, asking other people to explain why it disgusts them, and then you're surprised when you find proponents of the genre posting here?

When I originally read your topic I assumed that, as you are a producer of tickling videos, you were asking to find out what people liked/disliked about m/m content in order to perhaps produce some videos yourself.

Apparently I was wrong, and the purpose of this thread was to simply rag on the videos and thus, by association, the people who like them? Thats like me making a thread called "What don't you like about TIB's videos?" filled with reasons I thought your videos were crap, and then getting pissy when you or anyone else tried to post about why you don't think they're crap.

 

[tickler_n_black]

I'm confused - you make a thread about why m/m tickling disgusts you, asking other people to explain why it disgusts them, and then you're surprised when you find proponents of the genre posting here?

Yeah, that's right. This thread was intended for people to tell us why they DON'T like m/m tickling.

There are a couple other threads that were created on this same forum that ask why people DO like m/m tickling... and I have no posts in those threads because I've learned its best to stay on topic of what the post is intended for, whether you like the thread's topic or not.

If a person see's that a post is asking clearly for comments on "why they DON'T" and they still proceed to use that thread to tell "why they DO" then that person is hijacking the thread. This thread is NOT for people who love m/m tickling and who want to promote it. It is for those who want to express why they don't like it. There is nothing wrong with such a discussion. So, please share with us why you DON'T like m/m tickling. Thanks. 🙂

 

[scorpionldr]

Well first of all, when i think of males, i think we are physically unappealing, smelly, dirty creatures. i personally wont even watch porn that has a male in it. even if theres a hundred gorgeous women in the video also. as far as the tickling part goes, i see men as dominant and in charge. to see a man, or especially two men being ticklied, just the thought makes me squeemish. its horribly unmasculine to see a man reduced to a giggling mess. i just see it as a weakness to our masculinity. thats my view on it.

men being dirty, smelly? I'm a guy and even i think that the female form is far more preferable. as far as tickling goes.........M/M just seems like punishment, whereas F/M "punishment" seems like eroticism because it's putting a guy in a semi-erotic situation....similar to just how women in tickling videos are.

 

[Redmage]

If a person see's that a post is asking clearly for comments on "why they DON'T" and they still proceed to use that thread to tell "why they DO" then that person is hijacking the thread. This thread is NOT for people who love m/m tickling and who want to promote it. It is for those who want to express why they don't like it. There is nothing wrong with such a discussion.

Except that it isn't a discussion. It's a mutual congratulation session. It appears that an actual discussion is the last thing you want.