What makes a person a good Lee

[badreligion]

Well we have all seen topics about what makes a person a good Ler but what makes a person a good Lee . I can see how having skills as a ler can be but being a lee can't be that hard can it ? All it requires is to be ticklish lol

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

I should think a lee should have genuine reactions to being tickled as well as a genuine laugh and actually enjoys whats happening to them.

Also, that they could be willing to try new things; like bondage/position.

A good connection with the ler, understanding the situation etc.

Being able to communicate if not comfortable but not wishing to use the safeword.

 

[-Hari-]

a good lee? i dont think I can go very deep here... I mean... they just need to be REALLY fucking ticklish and willing to go thru with it and youve got yaself a kick ass lee😀

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Enjoying it to some extent. I prefer a girl that likes it much more than one that will simply put up with it.

 

[Redmage]

Well we have all seen topics about what makes a person a good Ler but what makes a person a good Lee . I can see how having skills as a ler can be but being a lee can't be that hard can it ? All it requires is to be ticklish lol

Not true at all. A good 'lee has to be communicative about what he or she likes and should be responsive during play. A good 'lee should be sensitive to the 'ler's moods and interests and able to work with the ebb and flow of a scene. It should be erotic (or at least fun) for him or her (and that's a lot less common than you might think). Ideally he or she should be open to experimentation with different styles, positions, and types of bondage.

Most important, but hardest to quantify, a good 'lee should have chemistry with the 'ler in question.

Add all this up, and a really good 'lee is a rare thing, unless the 'ler just isn't choosy.

 

[Flatfoot]

To be a good lee, one must not only be ticklish, but also have found a happy medium between the love/hate relationship with tickling. Also, being a playful instigator helps. Fighting back doesn't hurt, either. These are just a few things that come to mind.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I'm sure another good thing would be a lee that doesn't kick/bite/chew/digest off body parts of the ler in their attempts to free themselves. 😀

 

[sasaxrah]

I'm sure another good thing would be a lee that doesn't kick/bite/chew/digest off body parts of the ler in their attempts to free themselves. 😀

I am a bad lee.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I am a bad lee.

Fuck that. In my book that makes you a FUCKING EPIC LEE!

(Emphasis in capitols. You know how we roll. 😀)

 

[Redmage]

I'm sure another good thing would be a lee that doesn't kick/bite/chew/digest off body parts of the ler in their attempts to free themselves. 😀

I've always considered bondage and gags as safety gear.

 

[Redmage]

Pft. Scaredy-cat.

It's for your own good. If you distract me with biting, I can't reduce you to a babbling, exhausted shadow of your former self.

And you wouldn't want to miss that, would you?

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Communication for sure. Not necessarily talking, it can be in other ways.

Of course I feel it takes a lot of trust to allow yourself to be tied up in some way to a bed or whatever.

 

[Flatfoot]

I'm sure another good thing would be a lee that doesn't kick/bite/chew/digest off body parts of the ler in their attempts to free themselves. 😀

That depends on how physically imposing they are!

 

[ticklishscribe]

I couldn't agree more. But the more ticklish the better and a fighter attitude as well.

I should think a lee should have genuine reactions to being tickled as well as a genuine laugh and actually enjoys whats happening to them.

Also, that they could be willing to try new things; like bondage/position.

A good connection with the ler, understanding the situation etc.

Being able to communicate if not comfortable but not wishing to use the safeword.

I agree with this as well.

I'm sure another good thing would be a lee that doesn't kick/bite/chew/digest off body parts of the ler in their attempts to free themselves.

 

[Spacey_Stacey]

a good lee? i dont think I can go very deep here... I mean... they just need to be REALLY fucking ticklish and willing to go thru with it and youve got yaself a kick ass lee😀

Exactly! That's the definition of a good ticklee. Someone extremely ticklish who doesn't mind getting tickled and tickled!! What else is there?