what you won't do...

[TikleBelly]

Bondage and tickling

One of my most memorable and favorite tickling sessions was with a woman that didn't want bondage.
It was lots of fun. Having her squirm around and try to defend herself was very sexy. Pining a woman's arms over her head and playing with her armpits is one of my favorite things!

I understand the reluctance to bondage and certainly one can enjoy tickling without any bondage. If you don't enjoy bondage there is no reason to explain why. I think most people have a reluctance to being tied and helpless.

All that being said, I do think that bondage adds another dimension to tickling that is hard to obtain any other way. But I'm just kinky that way. 🙂

Oh yeah, big no no's for me are, no sticking things in any orifice, no pain, no gags, no guys tickling me, no farting in my face, no animal bondage and no not having fun!

 

[Sexicana]

I jus dont like it. Anyone tries to tie me, I get mad. I feel disrespected and betrayed. I wish for people to respect my wishes and not tie me. Last person that said " Oh come on! You'll love it! Its great" and proceeded to tie my hands behind my back, ended up w/ a bloody lip. I've never liked it and probably never will. Maybe that'll change once I get married. I dont know. Like you all are uncomfortable w/ hogties, as am I w. bondage. Its just my thing.

And besides, since I love to be tickled, what makes you think I need to be tied down in the first place? I dont fight back much. Just playful and feeble struggles, even if its just one person tickling me. I LET people tickle me so bondage is not needed anyway/

Oh no disrespect intended sweetie. Just that I have been accidentally kicked in the ribs and broke a rib before because restraint wasn't used. But I do realize that some people don't feel comfortable with it. But I like my lee to be totally helpless. But again, I understand how you feel, hun. 🙂

 

[Oddjob0226]

I might do a hogtie if I was a smaller guy - but I'm not a smaller guy, I'm me (the jerk!). M/M stuff doesn't interest me - sorry guys, you'll have to cope - and that hard digging in or pinching just hurts. And I've tried handuffs; a great image, but painful reality.

On the other hand, stuff I thought I'd never do (gag, for example) as I get older, and meet and trust more people, I get a little more curious about. Maybe someday I'll be comfortable enough to be gagged & doing a M/M hogtie session with handcuffs, but I kind of hope not.

Iluv2Btickled, getting married is called 'being tied down', so I think bondage will just go with the territory. In to win!

 

[ticklkitten]

Anything that hurts takes away from the interest for me. I might be able to edeal with hogtying if it wasn't too tight, I dunno, it's never been done. And a gag is a serious no-no! lol, anyone who knows me well enough knows that lack of conversation would probably kill me anyhow!

 

[toneus79]

I certainly wouldn't allow anyone to tickle me, whilst I was snorting water up my nostril with a straw. Kind of a hard limit for me!

 

[chrisheaven]

no blindfolds for me

 

[naveltkltr1350]

well, i recently just got into the bondage thing with tickling, and for it to be hell...which it was..it was also a lot of fun. I used these belts I had that you put the strap through and then kinda..weave it( forgive me i just woke up) and it tightens, mainly found on clothes from "preppier" stores. Well they held our wrists down and are feet together..It was very comfortable, and to think I was always afraid of being in bondage, but not afraid to use it. Id have to say I wouldnt be able to do the hogtie, cause, first of all im not that flexible anymore. Second of all, I have bad shoulders(one my dislocate itself if i strained too hard) and knees from football. Third, it just isnt my style..I am mostly an upperbody person..so feet arent that big a deal for me.

 

[ShadowTklr]

What About The Tops...?

We haven't really heard from tops in this thread. I'd be interested to know what the limits are for tops. In other words, what are some things that tops simply won't do to their lees?

I, for one, draw two hard lines: One at Breath-play, and the other at foot torture. I simply won't do either.

I can certainly get into gags, but mostly for their erotic asthetic value and their ability to open my lee up to express herself loudly without the same concern for the neighbors. Any gag that significantly restricts breathing, or her ability to communicate to the extent that she can't tell me if something is wrong, is unacceptable.

Foot Torture: Heat, needles, toe pinchers, bastinado, or anything that causes pain to my lee (even if she is willing to tolerate some for my benefit, is OUT).

Nothing (including my pleasure) is more important than her uncompromised belief that her trust in me will never be tested, let alone betrayed.

 

[tommytikl]

Well, I have been in the hog-tie and it is OK, it is pretty uncomfortable and it doesn't leave the lee as vulnerable as you might imagine.
I don't like the hot-tie while being a ler either because I like to see the lee's reactions and usually the lee's face is away from me when they are in the hog-tie.

I would say I also dont' like rag gags...ball gags are weird...you can still breath and you can still hear the laughter, though muffled, but they are gagged.
I have never been gagged myself and dont' think i would like it.

Bondage should never hurt but should be effective!

 

[steph]

Ugh~no torture for me either Shadow~Please educate me on the breath play thing. Is that like the strangling thing ~yikes. We get patients admitted for that a lot. As rough as it is, I have a hard time keeping a straightface during the screening process. I mean, how embarrassed are you if THAT's what landed you in the hopsital????
XOXO

We haven't really heard from tops in this thread. I'd be interested to know what the limits are for tops. In other words, what are some things that tops simply won't do to their lees?

I, for one, draw two hard lines: One at Breath-play, and the other at foot torture. I simply won't do either.

I can certainly get into gags, but mostly for their erotic asthetic value and their ability to open my lee up to express herself loudly without the same concern for the neighbors. Any gag that significantly restricts breathing, or her ability to communicate to the extent that she can't tell me if something is wrong, is unacceptable.

Foot Torture: Heat, needles, toe pinchers, bastinado, or anything that causes pain to my lee (even if she is willing to tolerate some for my benefit, is OUT).

Nothing (including my pleasure) is more important than her uncompromised belief that her trust in me will never be tested, let alone betrayed.

 

[Raya]

I struggle like mad!

Have lots of nice comfy leather cuffs!

You struggle like mad? No, dear.. anyone would be mad to try to tickle you without you being tied down.. and even then one doesn't feel totally safe!! LOL 😱

I have discovered that I can be tickled.. lightly, and not move so much that bondage is required. But I don't tend to feel free to totally enjoy myself that way, as a good part of my concentration is fighting the urge to thrash uncontrollably, possibly hurting myself or others..

The hogtie position, as recently demostrated at TTD's house, looks kind of neat, when done loosely. Unfortunately, due to a bum knee, I would not be able to tolerate the position for more than 5 seconds.

The gag is out.. I like to scream, curse, and occasionally spit out a safe word (or SAM word) LOL.. Of course I've tried many things over time that I would have said were definite no-no's, so this too may change..

Blind-folds are a little infuriating but kind of fun, as you never know where the next tickle is coming from.. I've only tried it once one on one, and threatened to kill the 'ler at the time.. but it was still fun. I recently blindfolded my hubby, again at TTD's, and he rather enjoyed it.. At least I think he did.. LOL

I have tried a little bit of the heat / cold etc on the feet (as a lee) and found that in the right setting it was kind of interesting.. but not a daily kind of play for me at all... I would never feel comfortable or even desire being the 'ler in this case... It gives me no pleasure to even think of it..

Oh well, my 2 cents..

 

[maniactickler]

tickling without bondage is like peanut butter without jelly. very average. but i agree that the bondage must be comfortable.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Really, I always though that tickling with restraints was WAY too kinky and bizzare to do, but look at what I have become now. So anything I WILL NOT do.... I've found through the years that it might change.

 

[ShadowTklr]

Ugh~no torture for me either Shadow~Please educate me on the breath play thing. Is that like the strangling thing ~yikes. We get patients admitted for that a lot. As rough as it is, I have a hard time keeping a straightface during the screening process. I mean, how embarrassed are you if THAT's what landed you in the hopsital????
XOXO

Well, erotica asphyxia is the technical name for the practice of “Breath-Play” or withholding oxygen allowed to the restrained person. Some extreme practices of Autoerotic Asphyxiation (masturbation during oxygen deprivation) do involve masturbating during strangulation. Some bondage equipment is made for the practice of erotica asphyxia as well. Some full-head bondage masks contain small breathing tubes with valves on them that allow the dominant play partner to control the airflow to the restrained partner from full-open, to full-shut and everywhere in-between.

The lack of oxygen to the brain during sexual excitement is said to create a euphoric sensation that enhances sexual arousal and increases the dynamics of orgasm. The danger, however, is that you just might cum and GO if you know what I mean.

Although requiring medical personnel to dislodge a Chicken from your Johnson might be regarded as an embarrassing episode of sexual misadventure, nearly hanging yourself in the process would probably make it worse.

 

[Raya]

Okay.. there's one thing I would not do... I like to breath 😱

 

[ShadowTklr]

Okay.. there's one thing I would not do... I like to breath 😱

Yeah Kethry. Air gets two thumbs waaaaay up for me too! 🙂

 

[Mitchell]

I havent been to a gathering or tickled when bound yet, but, from reading the post, I'd have to agree with the posters on here, being a ler and lee, I wouldnt want to be either gagged where my laughter would be muffled, or hogtied, sounds very uncomfortable. Spread eagled and no gag if bound would be enough for me!

Mitch

 

[steph]

Ya, that's what I thought you meant, just checking...
XOXO

Well, erotica asphyxia is the technical name for the practice of “Breath-Play” or withholding oxygen allowed to the restrained person. Some extreme practices of Autoerotic Asphyxiation (masturbation during oxygen deprivation) do involve masturbating during strangulation. Some bondage equipment is made for the practice of erotica asphyxia as well. Some full-head bondage masks contain small breathing tubes with valves on them that allow the dominant play partner to control the airflow to the restrained partner from full-open, to full-shut and everywhere in-between.

The lack of oxygen to the brain during sexual excitement is said to create a euphoric sensation that enhances sexual arousal and increases the dynamics of orgasm. The danger, however, is that you just might cum and GO if you know what I mean.

Although requiring medical personnel to dislodge a Chicken from your Johnson might be regarded as an embarrassing episode of sexual misadventure, nearly hanging yourself in the process would probably make it worse.

 

[Mephistopheles]

anything involving ME being tied up

 

[tickledorange]

I hate the sexual side of tickling, the playful side too. Something about it makes me gag inside. Also, having to tickle other people doesn't fly well either.

 

[marlin400]

...Being suspended by my genitals, ever since that freak accident involving a pogo stick and an ice-cream truck, but that's another story.

hahahahaha

 

[Ticklee1973]

Wow, I'm seriously in the minority here. I don't want pain or anything really uncomfortable but I think the hogtie position would be great and I'm very flexible, lol.

As far as the gag is concerned, it would have to be with someone I truly trusted and someone who knew my spots and how I responded. There is really only one person that the gag has come up with.

Rope/Metal cuffs. I've used metal cuffs with washcloths underneath but it still can be somewhat painful. Same with rope, it can burn or even on washcloths it can get too tight and cut off circulation.

Also anything who digs in too hard, I'm more of a soft tickle gal except for a few places. No pain, and no anal (I can't believe that came up, LOL).

Other than that I'm pretty open. Again most of these things though that are more extreme have to be with someone I was very close with and who knows me very well. So far I've only met one guy thus far that fits the bill. But you never know what the future holds.

Sandee

 

[SlaverTickler]

Beyond tears...

Even though I write stories about women being tickled until they pee, I would never actualy take it this far. If a woman told me she was going to pee or started to tear up I would stop. Also, beleave it or not, I am not comfortable watching gang tickling. In a video it is cool, because it's a show, but right infront of me it would make me feel pretty bad.

 

[Em Es]

Steph, for me, it's M/M

Good question, Steph. For me, it's M/M tickling. I don't want to tickle another man nor do I want one tickling me.

 

[1golfer]

for me....

....it's large women. Never. Nada. No thanks. Couldn't do it. Can't watch it. Won't think about it.