Which is better, experiance or newbie?

[sw633]

If you've never been tickled before, is it better to have your first tickle torture experiance with someone who is also new to tickling, or someone who has experiance in tickle torture?

 

[rhiannon]

How would anybody be able to answer the question? 🙂 It is impossible to do a comparison 🙂

 

[Sweed]

I agree with rhiannon, it all depends on the person. 🙂

I'd suggest you to meet someone you feel comfortable with and trust and also someone you can have fun with outside of the tickling. That makes it a lot more funny, trust me. 😀 No matter if they've had lots of tickling sessions before or no tickle session at all.

 

[rhiannon]

I can offer a personal preferrence, though - I would always go for experience! The dominance-factor is way, way, way more exciting!

 

[milagros317]

On the whole, I think you would be better off with an experienced partner. 😀

 

[brannyle1981]

Newbies can be exciting cuz they get to try out and find their comfort levels, but I might have to go with experience as well.

 

[sw633]

Newbies can be exciting cuz they get to try out and find their comfort levels, but I might have to go with experience as well.

I thought the same, because if your both newbies its a brand new experiance that you can both share. Thanks for the suggestions 🙂

 

[rhiannon]

Still there are risks if your ler is a newbie. A friend of mine who used to make tickling clips had one model that could be booked for tickling sessions. He always stayed in the next room, and it happened a couple of times that he had to come in and stop the ler because he hadn't reacted to the safeword - he got carried away with the new experience.

 

[Libertine]

This question reminds me of the story of the new cavalry recruit who told the troop sergeant that he'd never sat on a horse before.

'No problem', replied the sergeant, 'this horse has never been ridden before. You can learn together'.

Same goes for sex and tickling. Try to find someone with experience. It's safer and more fun.

 

[Sweed]

Okay sorry, I missed the word "torture" when I read this question. ^^

For me, the first 'ler I met was a session newbie just as me, and it worked out well. 🙂 But then again we didn't do any bondage or anything more rough, it was just innocent couch tickling.

But if you're planning on like doing tickle torture with bondage and everything, I'd agree with the others and say a more experienced 'ler.

But I still want to point out that the person 'lering you is very important too. 😉 I once met a 'ler that I didn't had especially fun with outside of tickling and trust me- it's not as fun that way!

 

[TickVix]

experienced all the way

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Rather than worry about how much experience they have tickling others, I'd be more concerned with how much experience they have with you - tickling or otherwise. I've been tickled by old pros who have been tickling girls for as long as I've been alive, and I've been someone's first "real" session - and the experiences were frighteningly comparable. I learned real quick not to underestimate someone based on their lack of experience.

What made the sessions so awesome wasn't how much experience the ler had or didn't have, but how well he knew me, the way our personalities matched, the way our senses of humor went together - that's the stuff that makes for an awesome session 😀 Not to mention, trust is a huge factor - and whether someone claims to have tickled one lee or a thousand lees, I'd never get into bondage with someone I didn't know and trust.

 

[april]

I think newbies can have mad skills in their imagination. If you think about it, newbie tickler, pent up frustrations to tickle...sounds like fun to me!

 

[rhiannon]

pent up frustrations to tickle...sounds like fun to me

Not if it's your first session yourself - you don't even know if you can take it, how long you can take it and how much you can take! Therefore an experienced tickler who takes it slow is way better!

 

[april]

Not if it's your first session yourself - you don't even know if you can take it, how long you can take it and how much you can take! Therefore an experienced tickler who takes it slow is way better!

True, true.

 

[-Hari-]

This question reminds me of the story of the new cavalry recruit who told the troop sergeant that he'd never sat on a horse before.

'No problem', replied the sergeant, 'this horse has never been ridden before. You can learn together'.

Same goes for sex and tickling. Try to find someone with experience. It's safer and more fun.

I like 😀

Anyway, ide usually say experienced, its almost always going to be more fun, I was recently tickled by someone with alot of dominant experience but never tickling and she gave me hell so I guess some people are naturals.