why do most girls hate being tickled

[BigJim]

Why does it have to go on until someone feels bad? I thought the purpose was to make your spouse/lover feel good. If you're talking about actual tickle torture, IMO that is the wrong way to induct someone into our world. Many vanillas already think we're twisted for the way we are; we don't need any help in that department.

Now, if I misunderstood you, I apologize in advance.

From the way they phrased their answer, I gather they meant the ler feeling bad.

 

[kis123]

From the way they phrased their answer, I gather they meant the ler feeling bad.

Well we both know that if the ler is feeling bad, something is terribly wrong.

Oh, and hey Big Jim; haven't heard from you in a very long time........

 

[TickleSharpay]

I've heard a lot of girls say that they hate being tickled. Well, I must be differnet from all them because I loooooove being tickled. Haha, I guess i'm just different. 🙂

 

[Em Es]

Someone may have already said this

I did not read through the many pages of this discussion, so I hope I am not unwittingly repeating what someone else said.

When a girl tells you "I hate being tickled," it means she hates it when YOU tickle her. A guy she likes and wants to please may very well get away with it.

It is possible if not probable that some girls so detest getting tickled that it is a deal-breaker no matter how much they otherwise want to make a man happy. But I'll bet 99.9% of the time, it depends on how much they like the guy who tries to tickle them.

 

[rhiannon]

I think I have said that in another thread, but the making-happy thing only works for the first few months of your relationship.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Because you're probably doing it wrong.

And, of course, this;

When a girl tells you "I hate being tickled," it means she hates it when YOU tickle her. A guy she likes and wants to please may very well get away with it.