why do most girls hate guys with foot fetishes

[jersey_tickler]

I have felt like a freak almost my whole life, because I was into feet. And I didn't know anyone else who was, and it made me think I was stupid. I mean I was little, and it was before the Internet ever existed.
The first girl I ever loved was kind of turned off by my fetish. She would let me massage her feet some times, and sometimes let me kiss them. But when she let have full access to them, I started doing it more often. Soon she thought that I didn't love her as much as I loved her feet, and that was all B.S. I always treated her with respect and waited almost a year for her to be ready to lose her virginity. My fetish wasn't the reason for our breakup but the way she reacted over it made her look at me different.

Christ, I'm starting to get emotional now, rehasing the past is very sad. Anyway, you're a bold man Blackmoon, and I stand behind what you said. Oh and you're very sweet, Miss Kitty.

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

jersey_tickler-

Tnanks man. I don't really see myself as bold or whatever the case maybe. I just like speaking and discussing about topics that make people actually think insted of just simply talking about the same old topics over and over again. Just to add something fresh





featherfeathers-

I'm the same as you are. I will tickle a girl where ever and need be to get any sort of laugh or giggle out of her. I'm not really to picky when it comes to that part. But the only spot where i won't tickle a girl out is (in her Private Area) Just because well i believe that to be for more intimate and seen only as a boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife type setting. Not a friends or close friends type of setting



Maria_Rose-

I'm not a foot fetish person either. As i already stated that when i made this thread. But i feel that some of you girls that i do see outside in the real world do have some cute little piggies. I will agree and admit to that. All though could i began to develop a little foot fetish? Sure most surely i could. But your right as well guys shouldn't just stick to one spot on a womans body to tickle (because i'm sure after awhile that gets deadly boring for you Ladys even if you are laughing your heads off and not being able to do anything about it) So it would be just nice for us guys to try to tickle on different spots here and there. Insted of just tickling the same one spot for how ever many minutes or hours (depending on how much you can take)

 

[featherfingers]

BlackmoonDoll, I just remembered something. Once, a long while ago, I asked this lady I just met if she likes to have her feet massaged. She said, "God, no! I hate for anyone to touch my feet!" I then asked, "What if it was Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise?" She said, "Oh, then I'd make an exception." I'm not a bad looking guy, but I sure didn't feel very attractive after she said that.

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

BlackmoonDoll, I just remembered something. Once, a long while ago, I asked this lady I just met if she likes to have her feet massaged. She said, "God, no! I hate for anyone to touch my feet!" I then asked, "What if it was Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise?" She said, "Oh, then I'd make an exception." I'm not a bad looking guy, but I sure didn't feel very attractive after she said that.

Thats stupid. Its almost like she was saying to you (all though she proble would not have had admitted it then to you) ''oh , well your kinda of an ugly guy so NOPE your never gonna touch or rub my feet'' ''but if you were a cuter guy and proble more hotter then i would proble let you glady''

that just goes to show how much different girls are from us guys.





I'm sorry man

 

[featherfingers]

Don't forget, BlackmoonDoll, that there are a lot of shallow guys out there as well. For example, suppose you became acquainted sight unseen with a lady interested in having you tickle her. When you finally meet her, she looks more like Broderick Crawford than Cindy Crawford. Would you still have a good time with her or would you call the whole thing off?

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

Don't forget, BlackmoonDoll, that there are a lot of shallow guys out there as well. For example, suppose you became acquainted sight unseen with a lady interested in having you tickle her. When you finally meet her, she looks more like Broderick Crawford than Cindy Crawford. Would you still have a good time with her or would you call the whole thing off?

Looks aren't that important to me. I mean sure looks DO matter. But i would much rather have a girl with a good personality thats fun and sweet and kind and some what cute looking. Rather then going after or wanting to find some super hot porn star type looking girl to tickle.


It just depends on each guy and what his shall i say ''needs'' are

 

[Iggy pop]

Many girls are biased against a guy that has a foot or another type of fetish. Many find such things creepy, and many foot fetish guys only reinforce that idea by being obsessive over a girl's feet. My advice get to know her as a person and let her get to know you as a person before you even think about her feet. Once you have established a bond and she knows you for more that just being a foot lover she may be more willing to accept your fetish. Even then you should never over indulge, and be sure to pay attention to other parts of her anatomy.

 

[steph]

from a girl's POV?

I think it's all the wacko reports of GUYS who steal women's shoes, break into their homes and kiss their feet as strangers, THAT'S the stuff that makes most girls associate it with a BAD/"freaky" thing~you notice you never hear girls doing that kind of thing, even if they like feet?

Now, if a girl's first encounter is amazing with a foot fetish guy, she associates it with a GOOD/fun thing!

XOXO

 

[Mitchell]

I have to agree with Steph. Criminals like the ones she described give us foot worshippers a bad name.
Steph, I think I told you about how when I lived up in New York in the 80s, I heard of a story which the news media deemed "bizzare" where a guy would tackle women on the street in Manhattan, pull their shoes off, tickle their feet, and then steal their shoes.
There was another article I had read a few years back about some indecent behavior. One guy in the article would call women up and ask them if they have sweaty and stinky feet, while another would break and enter into women's homes, and steal their socks. A third man would nonchalantly strike up conversations on the street with random women, and then suddenly bend down, pull at their shoes, pull the shoes off while they were standing, and fondle their feet.
It is guys like these who give us decent foot fetishists a bad name! I simply desire finding a good woman who will understand if I want to make paying attention to her feet, and tickling her and her feet, part of a greater sexual experience for us both. Hopefully, if presented that way, I can achieve what I want, and still have her satisfied that I'm not just some pervert who is into getting my own desires satisfied while ignoring hers. It is all in the presentation, I think, and if presented the right way, I believe one can make a partner understand about a body part of tickling preference, if made part of a greater sexual experience for both.

Mitch

 

[EvlJester]

All i know is that when smurfy first found out about my foot fetish she was not as open as she is now. now she is really happy about it and she REALLY likes when i use my gotee.

 

[TicklishSinner]

I was too open with it...I'm the one who made you comfortable enough to make you tell me about it goober! lol

 

[steph]

Most def Mitch! 😛

I always tell the guys who are into women's feet who ask me, "What the heck can I do to initiate as someone with the fetish?" It's sooooooooooooooo easy, IMHO...Most girls LOVE a foot massage~Tell them you're trying to "get practice", offer your "services" and take it from there. Maybe they'll enjoy the tickling, maybe not, you can always pretend it was an accident and at least you're partly getting your needs met. She's none the wiser. Sneaky I know, but you both benefit, hmmm?

XOXO

 

[featherfingers]

I was the only guy at an all ladies party last night. There were twenty ladies there. They were told to bring dollar bills to the party. They thought a male stripper would be there. Nope. Just me, providing foot massages to whoever wanted one. I was there from 8pm till 11:30pm giving 15 minutes samples for each lady. I had some drop dead gorgeous ladies with fantastic looking feet submitting themselves to me. Would they have been so willing if they knew I was a member of TMF? Makes you wonder, doesn't it. All they know is that I give a great foot massage. I didn't need to divulge any further information. Learn how to give a foot massage, like Steph said, and you'll have her eating out of the palm of your hand. You can talk tickling later as you become more comfortable with each other.

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

Re: from a girl's POV?

I think it's all the wacko reports of GUYS who steal women's shoes, break into their homes and kiss their feet as strangers, THAT'S the stuff that makes most girls associate it with a BAD/"freaky" thing~you notice you never hear girls doing that kind of thing, even if they like feet?

Now, if a girl's first encounter is amazing with a foot fetish guy, she associates it with a GOOD/fun thing!

XOXO

So true steph. thoses guys that do thoses kind of things must be very sick or desprate or something wrong with them in the head. I would never ever ever do that. But i have find that with even some girls no matter what type of fetish you have there still gonna think its wrong and gross and sick and that you need some type of help.

And i just don't like thoses types of girls. They annoy me and get me kinda mad to be honest. I like girls that are pretty open minded and easy to get along with. And that will like me for me. I don't sit back and tell girls with the things that turn them on or get them going that thier sick and gross for likeing ( whatever turns them on ). Show some respect! Which some girls DO NOT have i have found over the last couple of weeks when it comes to any type of fetish ( no matter if its a tickling fetish or not )


and here i thought this thread was Dead... but i guess its back up and running again for alittle while at least.

🙂

 

[Iggy pop]

I agree the foot massage idea is a good one, but just make sure you get to know the woman first and she gets to know you. Establishing a rapport is critical.

 

[steph]

absolutely Igg!

Black Moon~some people just aren't worth your time. I find that fun people tend to kind of radiate that~look for a girl who's smiling! 😛

XOXO

 

[dlsosetx]

why do most girls hate guys w/foot fetish

I've always wondered that myself,but idid keep mine secret for a long time.However,the girls I've serviced really enjoyed it!

 

[Sunday_10pm]

It's simple - Women like and dislike things about their bodies - problem is you are not allowed to like the bits they dislike and alot of women don't like their feet. It's the same thing as if you tell a girl she looks better without straightening her hair, or without as much make-up. They think you're lying or just wrong, and it's impossible to convince them otherwise. Some people are very frustrating but even the hardest nuts can be cracked with the right touch!....

 

[kis123]

Maybe its because its both unusual and it centers on a physical aspect of the women but not HER herself. Not that I believe that it is deliberate, but I think it may be similar to a man looking at a women's breasts while they speak to her. The fact that the feet are an odd part of the body to focus on, this may be part of the distaste.

My goodness parkcity, you have one post on this forum and it's the most intelligent post I've heard in a very long time! Congratulations because I don't compliment just anyone!

You guys want to really know what the problem is? Now listenly closely while kis lets you in on the secret:

NO WOMAN WANTS TO BE REDUCED TO BODY PARTS!!!!!!!! There, I've said it! Women want to be treated as a whole person, not just favored body parts. If I see that a man only has a physical interest in me, I get him to steppin' asap!! I'm too old for those types of games. Conversely, if we've established a connection and he has potential, I'd be willing to negotiate some things......

Seriously speaking, I'm about to say something that may offend some of you. I apologize in advance if I've hurt, offended or angered anyone-it's not my intention at all. Some of you guys (not all, but some) are very self-centered and self-gratifying and only look at a woman as a means of pleasing and gratifying yourselves. You should check your motives because one day you may have daughters and I really don't think you'd want your daughter treated that way by someone, would you?

 

[dlsosetx]

Personally,I can't show any sign of affection to a woman I dislike,no matter how preety she may be.My fondling a woman's feet means I have a good opinion of her.