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Can you outgrow a tickling fetish?

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DisBadBo1

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I realized I was into tickling and lurked the usual sites but then stopped for about 3 or 4 years and just recently started again. I was just wondering if you guys think it's possible to outgrow a tickling fetish or if it's something that stays with you.
 
I don't think so. You can repress it, I know that much.

But if you are born with a fetish, I don't think it's possible to just... let it go.
 
I remember liking being tickled all the way back when i was little. It was to the point that as a child, my parents thought i hated being tickled. Because i always reacted in disgust and anger when they tickled me.

If it goes back to as far as you can remember, i don't think you can outgrow it.

But think of other sexual things... everyone goes through phases. You could go through a year when you want a woman on top desperately. Then the next year, you're not so into it. -BUT YOU STILL LIKE IT. Then... ten years later, you want it just as bad once again.

I wouldn't say you outgrew it. You just went through your sexual phases.
 
People have fetishes for such different reasons that I think whether you can outgrow it varies. For most people, it seems to have about the same steadfastness as sexual desire in general.
 
Im not crazy obsessed with it to the point where it revolves around my life so I can control it but I doubt i'll ever just stop with the fetish all together. The whole tickling thing and being tied up. Won't happen lol
 
For me this fetish has...evolved. Never gone away, but it has waxed and waned many a time.
 
Interesting answers, I reckon it was probably a phase then but the whole concept if it won't go away.
 
I'm sure if you have a traumatic situation involving tickling, you'll get turned off from it real quick. Or if you're a 'lee and you suddenly become un-ticklish. Dear Jesus, that is a big fear of mine.
 
Like anything you like, your desire for it can wax and wane over time based on a lot of things.

Look at it this way, perhaps there is a sort of food you love.... oh say Turkey Club Triple Deckers. So you eat a ton of them over a month or so, because you can. After a bit you start to not feel like another Turkey club. It not that you have stopped liking them, or dislike them now, its that you have had enough. So you take a break for a bit. A few months later the idea pops into your head *I'd like a Turkey Club!*

Much the same here. A fetish is simply a enjoyment of a non standard sexual activity, and like any sexual activity you don't NEED it to live. If life gets busy, or you have other outlets, or even been able to indulge as much as you like for a period, and so on, your interest may dip, as its being covered by other things. It will return after some time.

Now one fetish CAN be eaten by another fetish. Where a new like surfaces that is stronger then the old one, and you start to focus on the new one. You still like the first, but now there is a stronger pull in another direction.

Myriads
 
Myriads said:
Like anything you like, your desire for it can wax and wane over time based on a lot of things.

Look at it this way, perhaps there is a sort of food you love.... oh say Turkey Club Triple Deckers. So you eat a ton of them over a month or so, because you can. After a bit you start to not feel like another Turkey club. It not that you have stopped liking them, or dislike them now, its that you have had enough. So you take a break for a bit. A few months later the idea pops into your head *I'd like a Turkey Club!*

Much the same here. A fetish is simply a enjoyment of a non standard sexual activity, and like any sexual activity you don't NEED it to live. If life gets busy, or you have other outlets, or even been able to indulge as much as you like for a period, and so on, your interest may dip, as its being covered by other things. It will return after some time.

Now one fetish CAN be eaten by another fetish. Where a new like surfaces that is stronger then the old one, and you start to focus on the new one. You still like the first, but now there is a stronger pull in another direction.

Myriads
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Yeah, I've noticed if I get tickled super often (like every day for an extended period of time) my level of sensitivity seems to decrease a bit and it's not as fun. Then, I get all whiney, which I imagine can be kind of annoying.
 
If you're trying to get rid of it, I would think not. I bet it could happen organically.
 
DisBadBo1 said:
I realized I was into tickling and lurked the usual sites but then stopped for about 3 or 4 years and just recently started again. I was just wondering if you guys think it's possible to outgrow a tickling fetish or if it's something that stays with you.
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I've been into tickling for as long as I can remember. I found the forum in 2000... Lurked for many years and refused to let myself come to terms with the fetish and repressed it for many years....

Then I started going to some gatherings.... Wow, what a mistake it was to repress it ....

Then some time later, I went to NEST knowing 2 people in person and had the most AWESOME time meeting everyone and having an acceptance inside with it. I tell people I'm like a big kid.... ;-)

The feeling is always there the same as wanting to have sex first thing in the morning a lot of the time. (soo good...lol)





What is not healthy is repressing it so much because before you know it, you will start fixating on it. Naturally we all want what we can't have. That is when people start doing creepy or dumb things online or to other people. You can just enjoy it by accepting it rather than repressing it.


Hope my personal story helped!
 
I think that it depends on how sexual the fetish is for you. If it is just mildly stimulating then you can probably walk away from it. But, if it is THE big sexual turn on for you, then it will never go away. You can suppress it, but that doesn't make it go away. You just become sexually frustrated. For me, the worst thing about having a foot/tickle fetish is the sexual frustration. You can pretty much get laid whenever you want it, but it is more difficult to find a woman who will let you tickle her feet while you masturbate or who will give you a footjob.
 
I Hope Not!

I hope I never outgrow my tickling fetish & my foot fetish. I hope it is something that stays with me forever. I will say this, there are and have been clip stores & tickling web site I have stop going to. So maybe you can outgrow a tickling web site.

Thank You,
LBFT
 
I dont think you can outgrow it as such if it started at an early enough age, its probably hard wired into your psyche. But Im finding that with increased exposure to tickle related material and also with the simple process of ageing that its not as intense as it once was. I wouldnt be as bothered about losing it as i was when younger because I feel it would make 'normal ' relatioships easier and more fulfilling .So what I lose on the swings I would regain on the roundabout.
 
If you outgrow it, it ws never a fetish for you in the first place.
A real fetish is something you can't control. It will be there untill the day you die.



Edit: ah..old thread...already awnsered to this one 😛
 
Well, I agree with Cavum. It is a fetish and it is not going anywhere I guess. I do not need it every day but I wish I could engage in the activity more often.
 
If you like it, you like it. Its not something I would seek help about. Nothing is wrong with it anyways lol.
 
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