cross racial or ethnic tickling a prefrence or no big deal?

[brianspencer66]

I have talked of this with people from this site and wondered if anyone finds the idea of being tickled or tickling anyone from another race or ethnic group at all exciting. I know lots of people will say well no tickling is simply tickling and it really makes no diffrence. But there is always a lingering curiosity I think people have of someone of another race or ethnic group. Take for example how ticklees are always pointed out to be asian in the clips section. Im not at all putting that down but it does indicate we are a race conscious society. And well Id like to see some honest discourse in your thoughts about this. For example there may be certain groups that may be seen as more dominate than others or more submissive etc. Anyway what are your feelings on this subject?

 

[Deadsea7777]

I have talked of this with people from this site and wondered if anyone finds the idea of being tickled or tickling anyone from another race or ethnic group at all exciting. I know lots of people will say well no tickling is simply tickling and it really makes no diffrence. But there is always a lingering curiosity I think people have of someone of another race or ethnic group. Take for example how ticklees are always pointed out to be asian in the clips section. Im not at all putting that down but it does indicate we are a race conscious society. And well Id like to see some honest discourse in your thoughts about this. For example there may be certain groups that may be seen as more dominate than others or more submissive etc. Anyway what are your feelings on this subject?

Hello Brian,

As long as I could tickle and is female, is where my boundaries would be. And Bella would be a very nice target if I could get her.

About being a race conscious society....well yes, you are probably right. Nevertheless, it may also indicate that your society is one where all races are available for this fetish game and trade. Look at some sites from Europe and all or almost from Japan or China, in clips4sale by example, many of them have none of other race or even nation. I would think that only means that like in Japan or China is very difficult to find somebody from other countries or races, not that they are race conscious.

About dominate or more submissive, well again, most of the time my impression is you see all races in all roles, but I do not have a cuantitation, like time in each role or something of the kind.
You could also ask which sex is more dominated or more submissive than the other. In any case you would need some quantitation to segment the tickling comunity meaningfully.

 

[crystlamb]

hi

no big deal

 

[RobAce]

Now let me be honest here and say first off that I have no racial preferences among friends or girlfriends.
However...I will say that tickling an ebony goddess is at the top of my list. No offense meant, but Ive tickled plenty of caucasian women but I have not tickled many african-american women. Ive tickled more asian and hispanic women than I have tickled african-american women. So to me....all tickling is an extreme pleasure, but an ebony goddess is like rarer to me so if I had the chance, I would prefer that. As for a common preference I have none....but I wanted to sound off a little.

Rob

 

[Mastertank1]

I've been undeservedly lucky;

Over my 58 years, I have been granted the honor and priviledge of tickling several each of Black women, Hispanic women, Asian women, and Native American women.

I have to admit, there was a certain psychological fillip to tickling a willing woman of another ethnicity.

That said, any woman who willingly submits to my tickling is a wonderful being and I enjoy her thoroughly.

The only ethnic difference I ever noticed was this; every Black woman who ever let me tickle her has been extremely, and I do mean EXTREMELY, ticklish on the bottoms of her feet, behind her knees and on her toes.

Bear in mind, I am talking about a 'sample' of only four individuals, which anyone who knows anything about statistics will tell you is meaningless, mere anecdotal evidence and useless for generalizations. But, that was my experience.

I will also state that all four expressed great enjoyment at having been brought to climax during tickling, and were eager to repeat the experience. Of course, I happily complied with their wishes in that matter.

 

[milagros317]

No big deal to me. I want my play partners to be female, adult, and consenting (and I hope they have pretty feet). 😀

 

[P[a]pi]

First off, brianspencer, this is a great topic. Anyways...

I'm all about cross-racial tickling. It's definately a preference for me.

I was already leaning toward that direction before I fell in love with Meka, but now that I have it really matters to me.

Black lees are my favorite, then white, then asian, then hispanic then Indian (from India).

If I was going to make a tickling company that put out pics, clips and videos, I'd really focus on the different races.

All the races have different kind of feet as well.

Also, I hope that Meka and I's work satisfy some people's desire to see cross-racial tickling material.

 

[Soda Bobinski]

I have talked of this with people from this site and wondered if anyone finds the idea of being tickled or tickling anyone from another race or ethnic group at all exciting. I know lots of people will say well no tickling is simply tickling and it really makes no diffrence. But there is always a lingering curiosity I think people have of someone of another race or ethnic group ...

Actually , I'd honestly have to say that it makes no difference to me what color the skin is that I'm running my tickle-fingers over. As long as she's genuinely ticklish , then I'm going to be relishing in every spasm , twitch , wiggle , flex , squirm , writhe , twist , thrash , flinch , wriggle , & contortion her body makes. Not to mention getting myself lost in the music of her laughter .......

So , yeah ... no biggie.

 

[Tamia78]

I don't see it as a big deal. In fact, the Lers I have met were Caucasian, and they didn't see it as a big deal, either. Friendship is friendship, in my opinion.

--T

 

[kered]

No big deal to me. I want my play partners to be female, adult, and consenting (and I hope they have pretty feet). 😀

Whatever Milagros says goes double for me.

 

[brianspencer66]

ok and these are all good responses. I just sort of remember the whole thing as a kid of the forbidden fruit of lets say a black male and a white female or the old cliche of the latin lover or indians with that karma sutra. And there is the exotic factor of wanting to try somthing diffrent. or perhaps being repulsed by the very idea of all this. So does it really make no diffrence? I think of these things quite a bit though Id think overall a ticklish woman is a ticklish woman and yes I have had women of differing ethnic backrounds. Any more comments?

 

[Mostly Harmless]

It's only somewhat new, thats all. When you meet new girl with different appearance, it's quite an interesting experience. But when you'll get plenty of them... you got used. Effect's gone.

 

[Headsnap]

Also, I hope that Meka and I's work satisfy some people's desire to see cross-racial tickling material.

Hell yes 🙂

Personally speaking, as long as she's female and breathing (and pretty ^_^) it's all good.

 

[50greg]

I used to IM on AOL with a guy who said he was African-American (we never met) who said he was specifically interested in tickle torturing the feet of white men. This fellow presented himself as a college professor, and admitted to me he saw the exercise, at least partially, as a power thing, a kind of payback.

 

[brianspencer66]

I used to IM on AOL with a guy who said he was African-American (we never met) who said he was specifically interested in tickle torturing the feet of white men. This fellow presented himself as a college professor, and admitted to me he saw the exercise, at least partially, as a power thing, a kind of payback.

That is most intresting and its some of what Im getting at. There can be a political undercurrent in some cases. If this is healty or not I have no idea but your tapping into somthing here very telling.

 

[minerva]

For me it's not an issue at all. If I get along with the person, if there is like-mindedness and good chemistry, I honestly don't care what race or ethnic group they are from.

 

[dvnc]

I'm an equal opportunity tickler. I like tickling, and am more interested in behavior than ethnicity.

Been tickled by several people of different races than mine. Being a 'ler, can't say I enjoyed it much, but it was educational. The torment seemed equal, 'ler to 'ler.

 

[steph]

Ok, I'm going to try hard to answer this delicately as I can and hope to God I don't offend anyone here. Please let me get my typical no-holds-barred response out first and then let me explain before ya throw the tomatoes?

Now, I do make a big deal of my own heritage, here and everywhere else in my life. I can't help it. I was raised to be proud of my Sicilian roots by people who came here with nothing and made themselves into something. I wouldn't change that if I could and I can't so I won't. And, I love all my friends, no matter what their color. But. I do find the notion of an "opposing racial preference" a little bit off-putting. I don't know why, there's just a "creepy" factor to it that I can't put my finger on.

If some guy wanted me for play because he had a thing for Italian girls, it'd feel...I dunno, like the way breast men always made me feel, does that make any sense at all??? Like, I want to say, "But what about the rest? Would you still like me for me if I found out I was adopted and actually was German, if I was flat-chested???"

Another example: Someone mentioned bella. There's a bazillion guys here fantasizing about bella~and why shouldn't they? From all I know about her, she's an incredible lady! But if I were bella, and I certainly can't speak for her, I'd hope you want me for being bella first and foremost and not for being black.

(opens her umbrella and ducks) You can commence the tomato throwing now, thanks for letting me get it out friends.

XOXO

 

[RobAce]

(opens her umbrella and ducks)

Question my dearest Steph......


How do you open a duck? Let alone ducks?

Hee Hee.

Seriously...I agree with you. The person should matter first.
great post.

Rob

 

[kis123]

Since goddess put it out there, I guess I'll jump in the stew a bit myself.

First of all, I was raised in an era to be proud of my black heritage. I use the term "black" because we were taught to be "black and proud." I guess the term "african-american" sounds more politically correct and I'll use the term when needed. Otherwise, I'm a black woman who is very proud of being that way.

Having said that, I was in a multiracial marriage and raised a multiracial family. When it comes to dating, sex, or marriage, I have a United Nations approach; if he treats me well, almost all races is fair game. I have two racial exceptions and I won't be mentioning them because I don't want to offend.

When it comes to tickling, I'll tickle just about anyone with one exception (and here's where the tomato-fest kicks in high gear). If one is asian, I will NOT be tickling them and here is my reason. The majority of Asians I've seen getting tickled scream as if they're being stabbed to death!!! I cannot stand screamers in any race, but my experience has been I hear more of it from Asian women! Instead of me trying to figure out if she laughs or screams when tickled, I'd rather just pass and let someone else do the discovering.

I know many of the men around here love Asian lees; great for you! There are some guys who wouldn't touch a black woman with a 10-foot pole much less tickle one. And let's not get on the subject of fat folks; we'd be there forever! Everyone has their preferences and I don't have a problem with it as long as they are respectful about it and I feel I have been here.

*runs to hide under Steph's umbrella*

 

[steph]

Whew! (Whips out her checklist...) There's 2 beloved forum members I don't have to worry about murdering me in my sleep! 😀
XOXO

 

[Mastertank1]

Don't have'ta worry about me either, babe!

Whew! (Whips out her checklist...) There's 2 beloved forum members I don't have to worry about murdering me in my sleep! 😀
XOXO

I'm an equal opportunity 'ler, and pleasure giver.
And for the record, I love you and Kis and would absolutely adore the chance to tickle either or both of you sweet, lovely ladies.
Mitch
aka

 

[kis123]

I'm an equal opportunity 'ler, and pleasure giver.
And for the record, I love you and Kis and would absolutely adore the chance to tickle either or both of you sweet, lovely ladies.
Mitch
aka

Aren't you the sweet one?

On that note, I bid you all good night!

Oh, a quick on-topic note:

Everyone has their preferences; we all might like tickling, but each of us is wired differently and have different needs. I'll listen to just about any preference as long as it's done respectfully. Just because someone might not find a particular race interesting doesn't give them the right to be insulting.

Peace and see ya' tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!

 

[steph]

Yay!

I'm getting ready to turn in for the night too sweet sexies ~We'll see how the rest of the gang receives all this in the morning and over the weekend, but I think we did pretty good at keeping cool heads!
Pleasant dreams!
XOXO

 

[tkl-pen]

For me, I still think I prefer young Asian women because I find them quite attractive - they are feminine, petite, ticklish and usually have very pretty, small feet. Having said that, though, I met a Canadian girl named Katie from one of the Maritime provinces about two weeks ago who I immediately fantasized about as a guest on my tickling table - she was dark-haired, small (5ft4in) with pretty size 7/8 feet. Then, there was a black girl on television last week who inspired one of my stories - her name was Monique and she was about the same size as Katie. When I see a cute Latina, she also plays a part in my tickling table fantasies. So what is it with me?

I think that I have a preference for Asian girls but will entertain any other race as well. I probably see twenty different women every day that I would be delighted to strap to the tickling table for a few hours. What turns me off, though, is young women who are more like men in their behavior, who allow their feet to grow callouses and don't keep them properly clean, who are taller than 5ft6in (I think of that as a masculine trait).

And please forgive me Steph, or Stephanie, but I have wondered ever since I joined if you look anything like your signature pic.