There's a huge difference between talking tickling with friends -- which is perfectly acceptable, often practiced, and very much enjoyed -- and saying to every member of the preferred sex, "O hai! Where are you ticklish? Can we cyber? WHAT?!? You don't want me to cyber chain you to my e-bed so we can have an awesome virtual tickling session? What do you mean you like books? Movies? What is all this!? Where's the tickles? I want to cootchie-coo your ass RIGHT NOW DAMMIT!!"I think some people who are new to the forum and don't know any better usually think it's a place to talk tickling. That is not true after looking around and getting to know the forum.
But still there is no sign on the front or when you sign up that say THIS FORUM IS NOT JUST ABOUT TICKLING.
I believe it's up to us as members to show people it's not. When I first joined I thought that's what I thought. Until i got a very rude response or two. But once I started talking to some people I figured out for myself it's not.
Yes there are some weirdos, but I think some people are generally just confused.

There's a huge difference between talking tickling with friends -- which is perfectly acceptable, often practiced, and very much enjoyed -- and saying to every member of the preferred sex, "O hai! Where are you ticklish? Can we cyber? WHAT?!? You don't want me to cyber chain you to my e-bed so we can have an awesome virtual tickling session? What do you mean you like books? Movies? What is all this!? Where's the tickles? I want to cootchie-coo your ass RIGHT NOW DAMMIT!!"
Or is it just the incessant drama we seem to fall into every once in awhile? -- Has the novelty of the tickling aspects of this forum worn off, or are you still enjoying discussing all there is to discuss about tickling?

That's all fine and dandy. But if you didn't know about this forum and didn't know how it was and just ran up on it. Would you know exactly what it was about. I know my crystal ball broke. So I can't tell everything about anything.
I'm just saying some people may not know. When you say the tickling media forum. People sometimes get the wrong idea. Same goes for people who have never been to nest. They have to see it to understand. Or do you expect for them to know what that is about right off the bat?
Of course not. I expect that here, or at a gathering, as in any social situation, people would take the time to try to notice the dynamic and integrate themselves accordingly. Basic social skills, my friend.That's all fine and dandy. But if you didn't know about this forum and didn't know how it was and just ran up on it. Would you know exactly what it was about. I know my crystal ball broke. So I can't tell everything about anything.
I'm just saying some people may not know. When you say the tickling media forum. People sometimes get the wrong idea. Same goes for people who have never been to nest. They have to see it to understand. Or do you expect for them to know what that is about right off the bat?

I used to come here to see the live videos, but now that I have found my way around You Tube I am often posting in The Silly Forum. I have come to interact with both sexes now, when I first came here I had an interest in the Stories Section.😀
So not anymore?
^There's drama everywhere - here, the real world. I come here for friends.
Mostly to see what my friends are up to, to laugh at stuff, and participate in the community. Tickling-related stuff is maybe 15% of my TMF activity.
I do feel disconnected from the group.

