F/M tickling

[metroguy2k4]

Okay, here's what I don't get. I know people on this board have asked this before, but it has to be said again: what is up with the lack of f/m tickling in the tickle community?

I've been perusing this and other tickle sites for years now and I've noticed the following:

1) F/M tickle clips are the least common --- we're lucky to get one a month, and even then it's usually in some kind of weird format where most people can't use it.

2) When ladies admit to enjoying the tickling of men, they are often harassed, insulted, etc. This is usually done by some of the males in the tickle fetish world who seem to get upset whenever the subject of women tickling men comes up. Also, ladies who enjoy tickling are seemingly expected to "switch" and be 'lees as well, but men are never expected to switch roles. What's wrong with women just enjoying the 'ler role?

3) The Tickling Personals section of this site is filled with posts by men who are practically begging for a woman to tickle them, and yet the big tickling video companies all say there's no demand for f/m stuff. This makes absolutely no sense! If I had the capital, I'd start my own f/m video company (with DeNiro or some of the other f/m fans on this site) and laugh all the way to the bank.

I can only conclude the following: even in the fetish world, f/m is the least "socially acceptable" form of tickling. Perhaps it's because so many men still can't stand the thought of the woman being in control. Perhaps guys are secretly afraid of their female companions finding out how ticklish they are for a change. Perhaps f/m fans are still in the closet, so to speak. Whatever the case, I'd like to hear anyone who agrees with me to speak out on the subject more often. The video companies are in business to make money, and if they know there's a huge demand for f/m stuff out there, they'll start producing such things.

I also think female 'lers should start being more aggressive with tickling in their day-to-day life. I've read hundreds of stories about the guys on this site tickling girls at the office, the pool, on the street, etc. Girls who like to tickle should follow suit. Ladies, I challenge each of you to tickle someone new today. Especially if you're in the DC Metro area, because then I might get lucky and run into you. 🙂

 

[natural tickler]

Maybe because for the majority of folks on this board, its either f/f, or m/f😀

 

[kis123]

Hey!

I'm a female who enjoys being the ler! I occassionally take one for the team and switch, but I love tickling folks. I'm an equal opportunity tickler-gender, race, politics (sometimes😉 ) have no bearing on me. Bring 'em all on!!!!!!

I don't mind watching f/f, f/m, or m/f. I've gotten fun and benefits out of each. I've even looked at m/m. As long as they don't do anything sexual, and I prefer them with some sort of clothing on. The nudity does nothing for me!

I can't wait to get done with school! I just may have to find someone to get between my fingers! Any volunteers????

 

[metroguy2k4]

Kis,

Ohio, eh? Well, if I ever find time to make it out to the Buckeye State, I would definitely take you up on that offer!

 

[featherfingers]

Hey!I can't wait to get done with school! I just may have to find someone to get between my fingers! Any volunteers????

Ah hah! The other day you got on my case because you weren't #1 on my list of tickle ladies! Yet, you ask for volunteers when you know all along I would gladly submit to your tickling ways! Kis, Kis, Kis. I thought I apologized and we "Kis'd" and made up. Well, one day I'll be in Ohio and you'll be asleep... (I know, here we go with the sleeping ladies again)... keep your door open for me. (I love to be tickled by women and 'control' is not an issue to me. I'll gladly be submissive to you).

 

[tklshchris]

kis123

kis123,

Where in Ohio are you from. I live in Indiana, but was raised a buckeye. My whole family still lives there.

I am a male in his early 30's that is extremely ticklish.

 

[Dutchess]

I am female ler and I enjoy men who ticklish and would love to see more females tickling males sites and videos.

 

[TickledToDeath]

I am into being on the receiving end of a merciless tickling as much as I love being on the Giving end.
Control is not an issue. Not even thought of really as far as being an issue itself. The tickler is in control yes but like I said, I am into both being the ler and the lee.
AS far as vids go, I and shygirl have been wanting to make one INTENSE, UNmerciful tickle torture vid of me as the victim for some time now and ONE gal has come forward showing interest but we just could not all get on the same page including the person taping the vid. Shygirl however wanted more than one other gal assisting her in my demise and torment but nobody else has come forward wanting to be caught on tape as it were. While that itself is understood. The stuff that IS out there in the F/M world is as LAME as it gets for the most part. Very little has any value whatsoever.
As for websites etc. from what I have seen and or heard of, the market is shallow for any success of any vid or website so most folks say "why the frig bother"?
Gals I guess just don't buy tickle vids I guess.

Shygirl and I would LOVE to produce the most ruthlessly unmerciful tickle torture of a male vid imaginable but personally, I don't think you gals can handle it!😛 😛 😛 😛 😛

Seriously, I am questioning the market for it.

TTD

 

[steph]

(taking notes on frankie...)

XOXO

(I love to be tickled by women and 'control' is not an issue to me. I'll gladly be submissive to you).

 

[Belly Button]

Male 'lee chiming in to say:

Women and their wonderful tickling fingers, what would this world be without them?

 

[lergirl69]

2) When ladies admit to enjoying the tickling of men, they are often harassed, insulted, etc. This is usually done by some of the males in the tickle fetish world who seem to get upset whenever the subject of women tickling men comes up. Also, ladies who enjoy tickling are seemingly expected to "switch" and be 'lees as well, but men are never expected to switch roles. What's wrong with women just enjoying the 'ler role?

This is something I've been wodnering for some time now. I'm a ler because I love making people laugh (through tickling or non). It gives me a bigger high than ME laughing. I've never had a problem with any of the lovely men on this board but I do get harassed on IM a bit. Which is why there is an ignore button. 😉

 

[lergirl69]

As far as the lack of F/M tickling videos, I just don't think as many women buy tickling videos as men do. As much as I love tickling, I don't have any. And men, though there are many who love F/M might be reluctant to buy a f/m video (and truth be told, a lot of them seem crappy).

 

[kis123]

As far as the lack of F/M tickling videos, I just don't think as many women buy tickling videos as men do. As much as I love tickling, I don't have any. And men, though there are many who love F/M might be reluctant to buy a f/m video (and truth be told, a lot of them seem crappy).

Hey lergirl! Long time, no hear! Where the heck have you been?

Getting back to the thread:

I've bought my share of videos, mostly because I'm still relatively new to the scene and am always looking for pointers and tips to make my victims....uh lees happy!😉 The m/f and m/m do tend to look a little unpolished.....well actually crappy! Maybe if the quality gets improved, they'd sell better.

I did see one good m/m clip where the ler had his lee laughing like a hyena on crack! I would've loved to hear him in a full clip. He was totally helpless and his ler totally unmerciful! It was great!!

 

[lergirl69]

Hey kis....I've been travelling the last few months, spreading my tickles wherever I go. 😉

I've taken a liking to m/m tickling. m/m, f/m, octopus/male....they're all good to me! 🙂

 

[magic fingers]

I agree w/all of this. As a fan of F/M tickling, I can't understand why 90% of the tickling stories, and discussions are M/F. It's been my experience that most women simply aren't into being tickled, so they're not going to be interested in tickling somebody else. I think women who aren't ticklish will more likely engage in some f/m tickling, because they don't have to worry about retribution. Maybe it's because, Men are "expected" to be the aggressors when it comes to any kind of sexual flirting. I mean face it - if a man pursues a woman then thats ok, but if a woman aggressively pursues a man, then she's not being "ladylike" or too pushy or too easy. It's definitely a double standard. Regardless I'd like to see more F/M tickling

 

[kurchatovium]

Me too Me too. 😀 😀 😛

 

[lergirl69]

Kurch....I KNOW you're on board with this concept *nudge nudge wink wink* 😉

 

[kis123]

Kurch....I KNOW you're on board with this concept *nudge nudge wink wink* 😉

more like *nudge, nudge, wink, wink, tickle, tickle*

Hello kurch! Have 'ya missed me, my little lamb chop?????

 

[lergirl69]

Well, you'll have to read between the ticklish lines of *nudge nudge* 😀

 

[kis123]

Well, you'll have to read between the ticklish lines of *nudge nudge* 😀

A little slow on the uptake, but I catch on eventually!😉 😀

 

[kurchatovium]

Well I see two of my favorite lers are back. You ready to reek more tickling havoc on the male community. 😀 😀 wink wink. Hehehehe

 

[kis123]

Well I see two of my favorite lers are back. You ready to reek more tickling havoc on the male community. 😀 😀 wink wink. Hehehehe

I don't know, kurch. Now that lergirl is back, you can be tickled while I'm at school. We could either tickle you in shifts, or tag-team or double-team tickle you straight into insanity!!

 

[kurchatovium]

Lets try all of the above. Woooooohooooooooooo. 😀 😀 😛

 

[kis123]

Lets try all of the above. Woooooohooooooooooo. 😀 😀 😛

attaboy, my little ticklish lambchop!!!😉 😉

 

[Psycho]

Im a dude and I love to be tickled by women.

Psycho