Female "Problems" on TMF

[TickleGoddess06]

Here's my two cents, though probably not needed.
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I'm Young but legal, I like being tickled...scratch that, I love to be tickled. Sometimes, I want, wish someone would tie and tickle me but then you have to consider internet safety and I say this because I've been burned before.

I've met some interesting people here, I've read some sweet pms that are not pushy or aggressive sounding in anyway BUT i have not responded to most.

It's nothing personal, it's just my fears.

I met someone online before and it turned into something bad, something really bad and I just don't want to end up in that situation again. So yes, I speak about it and say I want it, but that doesn't mean I'm dropping hints for someone to make offers. I'm just expressing myself.

Now if that's leading guys on, then I'm sorry and I'll be more careful but I for one, personally have not tried to lead anyone on.

I like Cyber tickling but really only with females because the last few guys I tried it with, tried to cyber, cyber and that's not cool. If you want to cyber tickle with me and not bring something sexual, that's fine but if you're going to want to talk to me, so we can cyber tickle and then have Cyber sex, you have the wrong girl.

By the way, I'm all women and I lie about nothing. I'm 19, I'm black, I'm all female and I'm all real.

 

[2tickleU]

Thanks To ILuv2Btickled !!!

Thank you for your last couple of posts. It seems like we are
coming to an agreement on most things. However , the PM that
I sent was not a few minutes ago , it was yesterday. Thank you
for your reasonable reply. I like to write poems. If there are any
ladies on here who would like a sample of it , just PM me and give
me a topic for a personalized poem. If there are some guys who
would like a poem for there lady , I can help with that too.

 

[tklcouple]

Perspective

We must remember that this is an INERNET FORUM. You cannot see, shake hands with, hear the voices of, etc. the people on here. There is no substitute for real personal interaction. That is precisely one of the reasons for gatherings in the first place - to provide a safe, supervised environment where one can meet people with similar interests. You really wanna meet others into tickling, attend a gathering. If you cannot then you cannot, but stop whining.

Admittedly, there is a lot of smoke blown up a lot of peoples. . . well, let's say metaphoric skirts. Did I mention this is an internet (ie public) forum?

I am with kitten in that the golden rule should prevail and if anyone is socially retarded enough to disregard this ,then they have burned their own bridges. That said, in my opinion, even if some "lady" (I say that because there are more than a handful of men impersonating ticklish women for whatever reason) or a bona fide female is yanking your chain or even being a schmuck it is not worth sacrificing your dignity by responding in kind. This is not worth even getting upset over. My advice -save the blood pressure points for something else.

I must share my theory however that there are TONS of women in the vanilla world who would love tickling if they were properly introduced. I for one am tired of these guys who live in large cities wth millions of people griping "there's no women to tickle here" when I have (in my single days) found numerous women in the vanilla world who not only loved to be tickled but have since joined the tickling community - and I live in a relatively small town of less that 100,000. I am sure that there are other men out there who would agree with me - it's a numbers game and a matter of having a combination of patience, diligence, a gentile respect for women and some courage. Listen fellas: You are not gonna have some hottie email you out of the blue begging to be tickled - so if that's what you expect, you're dreaming - get your hand out of your pants!

Bottom line fellas: expect nothing because that is the most likely outcome; be a gentleman and learn that strengh is made perfect in gentleness; and get out there into the vanilla world - there are tons of women out there so stop whining! Ladies and gentleman, if you truly want to meet others in person with your interest - attend a gathering, otherwise if you are happy with solely cyberlife as regards tickling then good for you, but be honest - most importantly with yourself.

Just my $0.02,

Professor Tkl​

 

[2tickleU]

Hey there Professor Tkl

You say that if people are going to jerk us around , then we should just
stop worrying about it , get our hands out of our pants , and ignore them.

>>> But what does that say about you ??? If it is so easy to brush-off
these situations when they happen to us , why do you feel the need to
come in here as a third party and spend your time writing hundreds of
words about it. If the conversation bothers you . . . just "Ignore It".

 

[Iggy pop]

We must remember that this is an INERNET FORUM. You cannot see, shake hands with, hear the voices of, etc. the people on here. There is no substitute for real personal interaction. That is precisely one of the reasons for gatherings in the first place - to provide a safe, supervised environment where one can meet people with similar interests. You really wanna meet others into tickling, attend a gathering. If you cannot then you cannot, but stop whining.

Admittedly, there is a lot of smoke blown up a lot of peoples. . . well, let's say metaphoric skirts. Did I mention this is an internet (ie public) forum?

I am with kitten in that the golden rule should prevail and if anyone is socially retarded enough to disregard this ,then they have burned their own bridges. That said, in my opinion, even if some "lady" (I say that because there are more than a handful of men impersonating ticklish women for whatever reason) or a bona fide female is yanking your chain or even being a schmuck it is not worth sacrificing your dignity by responding in kind. This is not worth even getting upset over. My advice -save the blood pressure points for something else.

I must share my theory however that there are TONS of women in the vanilla world who would love tickling if they were properly introduced. I for one am tired of these guys who live in large cities wth millions of people griping "there's no women to tickle here" when I have (in my single days) found numerous women in the vanilla world who not only loved to be tickled but have since joined the tickling community - and I live in a relatively small town of less that 100,000. I am sure that there are other men out there who would agree with me - it's a numbers game and a matter of having a combination of patience, diligence, a gentile respect for women and some courage. Listen fellas: You are not gonna have some hottie email you out of the blue begging to be tickled - so if that's what you expect, you're dreaming - get your hand out of your pants!

Bottom line fellas: expect nothing because that is the most likely outcome; be a gentleman and learn that strengh is made perfect in gentleness; and get out there into the vanilla world - there are tons of women out there so stop whining! Ladies and gentleman, if you truly want to meet others in person with your interest - attend a gathering, otherwise if you are happy with solely cyberlife as regards tickling then good for you, but be honest - most importantly with yourself.

Just my $0.02,

Professor Tkl​

I just want to say excellent post. I agree with everything you just said.

 

[2tickleU]

Ha Ha Ha for EVERY0NE

EVERYONE go back and read where Ticklkitten tells me that I am
wrong , and that Professor TK did not say what I said that he did .
Then go back to his post and see that he did say it.
Ticklkitten , everyone will respect you , unless you tell lies.
You either didn't know what you were talking about , or you lied.
Go back and read what was said by both parties and see that you
were wrong.

 

[2tickleU]

2nd to last paragraph

Ticklkitten ,
Read the 2nd to last paragraph and tell me . AGAIN , that professor did
not say "Get your hands out of your pants"
I know , I know , I know , everyone is gonna say , "so what , she made
a mistake , forget about it".
To that I say that I am not making any bigger deal about it than her when
she posted her false accusation in the first place.

We must remember that this is an INERNET FORUM. You cannot see, shake hands with, hear the voices of, etc. the people on here. There is no substitute for real personal interaction. That is precisely one of the reasons for gatherings in the first place - to provide a safe, supervised environment where one can meet people with similar interests. You really wanna meet others into tickling, attend a gathering. If you cannot then you cannot, but stop whining.

Admittedly, there is a lot of smoke blown up a lot of peoples. . . well, let's say metaphoric skirts. Did I mention this is an internet (ie public) forum?

I am with kitten in that the golden rule should prevail and if anyone is socially retarded enough to disregard this ,then they have burned their own bridges. That said, in my opinion, even if some "lady" (I say that because there are more than a handful of men impersonating ticklish women for whatever reason) or a bona fide female is yanking your chain or even being a schmuck it is not worth sacrificing your dignity by responding in kind. This is not worth even getting upset over. My advice -save the blood pressure points for something else.

I must share my theory however that there are TONS of women in the vanilla world who would love tickling if they were properly introduced. I for one am tired of these guys who live in large cities wth millions of people griping "there's no women to tickle here" when I have (in my single days) found numerous women in the vanilla world who not only loved to be tickled but have since joined the tickling community - and I live in a relatively small town of less that 100,000. I am sure that there are other men out there who would agree with me - it's a numbers game and a matter of having a combination of patience, diligence, a gentile respect for women and some courage. Listen fellas: You are not gonna have some hottie email you out of the blue begging to be tickled - so if that's what you expect, you're dreaming - get your hand out of your pants!

Bottom line fellas: expect nothing because that is the most likely outcome; be a gentleman and learn that strengh is made perfect in gentleness; and get out there into the vanilla world - there are tons of women out there so stop whining! Ladies and gentleman, if you truly want to meet others in person with your interest - attend a gathering, otherwise if you are happy with solely cyberlife as regards tickling then good for you, but be honest - most importantly with yourself.

Just my $0.02,

Professor Tkl​

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

Personally;

1. I'm not going to argue my viewpoints to you anymore. They have been stated plain and simple. If you have any questions/qualms/doubts take your own advice and RE-READ what I posted. Read and absorb. That is how I feel. No B.S. You cant accept it, well....oh well.

2. I dont think you started this thread as an open thread. I think you started it to draw in women you might have been rejected by on here, or to let off some steam as to why you aren't "getting any" in the tickling world. You only seem to argue everyone's opposing viewpoint who doesnt agree with you. Ok "Mr. Moral" where's the maturity in that? Not everyone is right, but not everyone who opposes you is wrong either.

3. You seem to get most of your "AHA!! You are wrong and I shall prove it to you right now!" theory from made up assumptions. More than once you have flipped or misconstrued someones words in order to prove some point that probably made sense in your head. I wont spend anytime pointing out the many flaws in your post that is in response to my last. I"ll jut let you believe what you want.

I will just say, what I have said, I meant wholeheartedly. I am not fake and I thank Ticklkitten for backing me up. She as well as a number of other members who've been here waay longer than I have know me well enough.

I dont know you, which brings me to the conclusion that you dont know me. And by the way you post, and how you've admitted to going up to strangers and asking them about their feet, I'd like to keep it that way. You are one of those people who give me the reason to be as cautious and as careful as I am. So I thank you for being you in all your honesty. 🙂


I hope you find the answers/help/advice you are looking for. Have fun!

 

[Stugots]

Dude...it's a good thing you're financially stable, because you're going to have to pay for a lot of quality female attention and stimulation.

 

[jaba]

We must remember that this is an INERNET FORUM. You cannot see, shake hands with, hear the voices of, etc. the people on here. There is no substitute for real personal interaction. That is precisely one of the reasons for gatherings in the first place - to provide a safe, supervised environment where one can meet people with similar interests. You really wanna meet others into tickling, attend a gathering. If you cannot then you cannot, but stop whining.

I am with kitten in that the golden rule should prevail and if anyone is socially retarded enough to disregard this ,then they have burned their own bridges. there are more than a handful of men impersonating ticklish women for whatever reason)

I must share my theory however that there are TONS of women in the vanilla world who would love tickling if they were properly introduced. I for one am tired of these guys who live in large cities wth millions of people griping "there's no women to tickle here" when I have (in my single days) found numerous women in the vanilla world who not only loved to be tickled but have since joined the tickling community - I am sure that there are other men out there who would agree with me - it's a numbers game and a matter of having a combination of patience, diligence, a gentile respect for women and some courage. Listen fellas: You are not gonna have some hottie email you out of the blue begging to be tickled - so if that's what you expect, you're dreaming - get your hand out of your pants!
and get out there into the vanilla world - there are tons of women out there so stop whining! Ladies and gentleman, if you truly want to meet others in person with your interest - attend a gathering, otherwise if you are happy with solely cyberlife as regards tickling then good for you, but be honest - most importantly with yourself.

Just my $0.02,

Professor Tkl​

I agree with a lot of the sentiments here. I think if a guy is reasonably confident (not cocky) and uses common sense and courtesy with respect to interactions with ladies, its not too hard to find ladies outside our fetish who actually enjoy tickleplay if it is presented in a fun and non threatening manner.....but lets face it, if your normal demeanor is to act like a jerk, then its kinda hard to get from first base with any kind of interaction you are seeking.....

And ladies here WILL p m YOU, if they are interested in you.....

About the only thing I would probably disagree with is that I have found that I enjoy tickleplay much more with ladies that are into our fetish.....we both know what we are "seeking", so to speak.....but as prof said, there's really no shortage of "non fetish" ladies who are willing to tickleplay if you are having trouble finding someone in this enviornment.......you actually may be surprised......

 

[Bugman]

EVERYONE go back and read where Ticklkitten tells me that I am
wrong , and that Professor TK did not say what I said that he did .
Then go back to his post and see that he did say it.
Ticklkitten , everyone will respect you , unless you tell lies.
You either didn't know what you were talking about , or you lied.
Go back and read what was said by both parties and see that you
were wrong.

If all you are looking for is a tickling relantionship,this might not be the right place for you.The TMF is about much more then that,to many of us at least.I am not suggesting you leave the forum,you may find what you are looking for here.But dont be suprised if you don't.Just some friendly impartial advice.

 

[2tickleU]

Thank You for the post

You sound reasonable and you took the time to check out
what I said.
You seem like a good person.
Michael Jay

 

[simulated]

Okay Miss Smarty-Pants (the virgin) , and you know who you are. Why does it always , always , always fall on the Ler's to be all politically-correct and well-mannered ???

Because there's a lot more trust involved in being a submissive in a situation like this than being the tickler. If I met someone who I didn't really click with, sure I'd tickle them if they wanted, but I wouldn't let them tie me up.

>>> ILuv2Btickled loves to play the victim and Miss goody goody virgin. If what we say is so offensive to her "Morals" then why does she keep hanging out here ???

You. Not we.

>>> And one more point !!! She says that you don't just walk up to a stranger in the market and start talking about tickling , but she couldn't be any more wrong. I have done it for almost 20 years. If I see a pretty female in public , I ask them if they have really high arches , or if they are a dancer (ballet) , etc. Then I bend down to look at there feet. I can often massage their feet , or give them a little tickle , but I am almost NEVER rejected !!! BUTTTT . . . when I come in here , A FREAKIN' TICKLE SITE , I can't do SQUAT without being labled a pervert if I talk about feet or tickling. So to most of you Lees who are going to argue with me , these are facts that I can prove to you 365 days a year , if you have the courage to come to Seattle and see for yourself. You can even ask a TMF member who lives around here to witness it for you and confirm my story .
>>> THAT IS WHY I SAY THAT MY POINT IS A SLAM DUNK , BECAUSE I CAN BACK IT UP !!!

You're a liar 🙄.

And hey, I talk about tickling on this site and I've never been labelled a pervert, even when I talk about tickling in pm's with (*gasp*) women. Just from what I've seen here, though, I'd say you have a problem with your delivery (putting it lightly)

 

[Libertine]

A Perspective From A Battered Old Veteran Of The Erotic Wars

Women are different from men. They do not produce the same quantity of testosterone which provokes male lust and risk-taking behaviour, although there are exceptions. As far as the mating game goes, this is not necessary for women anyway. Generally, men are always available to women. Men will even pay for the privilege. Women have the option of being choosier.

Sometimes the simple knowledge that she can sleep with a man is sufficient satisfaction, and nothing further is needed for her. That's life.

For a man to whine about this difference, as so many do, is tantamount to a sailor criticising the sea.

Accept the difference, study the species, and get on with the job rather than complaining about the inevitable.

I've played with upwards of 300 before I found the one I finally married. I know whereof I speak.

 

[kis123]

Women are different from men. They do not produce the same quantity of testosterone which provokes male lust and risk-taking behaviour, although there are exceptions. As far as the mating game goes, this is not necessary for women anyway. Generally, men are always available to women. Men will even pay for the privilege. Women have the option of being choosier.

Sometimes the simple knowledge that she can sleep with a man is sufficient satisfaction, and nothing further is needed for her. That's life.

For a man to whine about this difference, as so many do, is tantamount to a sailor criticising the sea.

Accept the difference, study the species, and get on with the job rather than complaining about the inevitable.

I've played with upwards of 300 before I found the one I finally married. I know whereof I speak.

Now I can get on board with this!

I've read this entire thread and only one thing comes to my mind; that's the risk-taking issue. Men (most anyway) are natural risk-takers; they normally pursue what they want. You have more risk-taking women now more than ever, but it's still a relatively new concept to women. We were conditioned to wait for the right man to come to you, not the opposite. I happen to like it that way; overbearing and pushy women are not attractive IMO.

Several men have PM'd me looking for all sorts of things; some were either educated or excited about a post. Some had me on their radar and decided to strike up a friendship. I've talked to a couple of folks on the phone and regardless to those who have stated that luv2btickled's approach is too lengthy, I've pretty much been on her schedule as far as letting people near me are concerned. I can tell by initial PMs if this is someone I'm going to pursue friendship with; if someone starts out with the "what do your feet look like" stuff, I can just about guarantee I won't be going far with him. It makes me feel like he's trying to gratify himself at my expense. Maybe I'm wrong to think/feel this way, but I can't help it.

As far as risk-taking is concerned, I decided to throw caution to the wind with someone on this forum. He came into my city for a conference and asked was anyone avaialble to meet. Dtrell (bless his heart) 😉 sorta' volunteered that I was in the area. I initially wasn't happy about that, but sometimes things happen for a reason and in the end there were no regrets. I met the gentleman, went to dinner, talked, and since he knew how nervous I was, slowly introduced tickling to me. I was scared to death, but once things started happening and he was being such a gentleman, I was glad I stepped out because I'm NOT a risk taker by any means. Three months later, I went to Dallas for my very first gathering; I was a deer in the headlights that day! He stood by me the entire time (or should I say I joined him at the hip the entire time). I was an observer and didn't play except when he was the lee. By the last day of the gathering I took another risk and became the lee with him and another gentleman as lers. It was friggin' awesome and I still keep in touch with them both.

As someone said earlier, this is my fantasy world at TMF; I'm not looking for a relationship-it's simply not realistic to me. I've met some great folks; I even had a couple of them help me with some real-life issues as well. But my level of expectation is low; I expect to post to threads, have fun, maybe meet a few new people, and yes, I do occasionally flirt (but not to excess). Sometimes someone will post something that gets my heart pumping so I'll throw something out there to acknowledge it; we'll have a little fun and go about our business. Anyone with higher expectations than that may be just deluding themselves; this is cyberspace and that's pretty much the way it is.

And luv2b, in all my years on this forum, I don't think I've ever seen you in a disagreement with anyone-I'm usually the one locking horns with someone ! Interesting side to you; you're a sweetheart but you're certainly not a pushover.

Yes, you have fakes and posers; I can spot them the minute they start those "look at me" posts! I have no idea why a woman would expose herself that way; I find it totally void of self respect! I'm sorry guys have to go through that, but that's the way of the internet. You can pull down a pic of anyone and create your own identity; it's sad that some women have to do that in order to get attention. They're eventually caught, and I do believe that their in the minority of women around here. Maybe it wouldn't happen so much if so many guys would stop flocking to them like moths to a flame; if I can spot a fake, you should know them even better.

 

[Morpheus72]

Good Replies Here -- Look At Them!!

Hi All,

Jonmath, tklcouple and others have provided excellent replies in this thread. I'll add in my own thoughts and expand a bit.

First, my history: I've been in the chat for a bit over three weeks, and I have had nice private conversations with no less than five women on the forum. Note, I say conversations! Not, "Jzs, I wuld lv 2 tkl ur hott feet". Rather, I started talking to them in the main room about normal, mundane, everyday-life things. I let my personality show, without being skeevy OR being a whiny kiss-ass (more on that later). Whoever said that the approach should be grocery store-like has it right on. The result has been nice interactions with many of the women on the forum. I've not asked to be cyber-tickled, phone-tickled, phone-sexed, or offered to meet any of them. Why? Because I've known them less than three freakin' weeks, that's why! Guess what, guys, that's one of the main reasons you're not going to get the immediate action many of you seek.

As far as impressions go, I realize I've only been here a short time, but creepiness here abounds! On the one end, many here expect to tell someone they want to tickle them or see their feet and have them comply right away. Maybe that works in the movies and on TV, but it certainly doesn't work that often in real life. Yes, people here want to tickle/get tickled, but that doesn't mean they're going to engage in that with every drooling chunk of flesh who utters "I wnt 2 tikl U!!" Well, duh, we know. Everyone knows.

On the other hand, I also see so much ass-kissing here, it amazes me. If I had a nickel for everytime I've seen "Oh, how are you, you lovely, so-and-so, on this lovely, lovely day", well, I wouldn't be rich, but I'd have a few bucks. Here's a news flash: many women find THIS creepy as well. Some live on the attention, but that's fodder for another post. Again, it's like real life. I learned long ago that showering a woman with too much attention and compliments all the time turns them off as well.

What am I trying to say here, in this long-winded post? To the men having trouble, just chill and be cool!! To many of you: stop objectifying the women here. Yes, we know you want to see their feet, and we know why you want to see their feet, and this is really no different than walking up to a woman in a store and asking to see her breasts, get it? Would you do that? I would hope not. I've had fun chatting with many women here. As people. And guess what, I'm happy with the results.

Morph

 

[OnnaOtaku]

This doesn't seem like a new argument here. Someone bitching about girls not responding to their PMs and refusing to meet for "casual" tickling and this argument will never solve anything here. Although most women here are here to talk about tickling rather than meet, there are a select few who would meet you just for tickling and no strings attached. You just have to choose the right people. Not to mention, it's all in the approach of how you PM someone asking them to meet. Asking a total stranger right off the bat probably isn't going to work. Starting a conversation, getting to know them a little and becoming friends might work in your favor. I tend to ignore most, if not all PMs from males unless I get one from an avid poster or someone that I feel is being sincere, which is a rare thing to get a sincere PM and even then you're only going to usually get small talk from me and a thank you for the compliment, etc. since I am definitely not here to meet anyone. You also can't expect every single person on the forum to be here for the exact same thing. If that was the case, this place would be extremely boring and just a huge personals site.

(This is one reason why the Ladies Only Forum has been created)

As for there being a lot of fakes on the site... sadly enough, it is true. Some people with multiple names, multiple personalities, some people posting fake pictures, some people posting with alter-egos, etc. I've even been accused of being a fake myself as a lame attempt for me to "prove it" to some pathetic moron. It pains me to see half the site and especially the males fall for it when myself and a few other friends of mine can spot it like a ***** in church. Like my mother says, "if it's too good to be true, it probably is".

All in all, there are fakes here and there are some women willing to meet for casual tickling, just choose wisely. Complaining about it publicly doesn't make you or anyone look any better and definitely doesn't help yours or anyones case.

2TickleU, If all else fails, use your so-called "financial stability" and go to a dungeon and pay these women to let them tickle you or vice versa.... no strings attached and you can probably even choose who you do it with. And, although you have NEVER been rejected when approaching a complete stranger in a supermarket, talking about their feet and tickling them, then why must you come to the forum and seek out females here if you have such easy access to them in your local supermarket? (I'm kind of thinking that was a huge lie) Personally, if a guy approached me such as the way you described, I wouldn't give him the time of day and I know a lot of people who would think along the same lines as me.

True story, yesterday, I was going through a drive thru and a guy parked in the parking lot started howling and calling at me. What? Like that's supposed to get me to stop and bow down to him? It just made the guy look extremely stupid.

Like I said and will always say, it's all in the approach. A person will always have a better chance with me if they just take a few minutes of their time to ask my name or something before howling at me like a fucking moron. I have a feeling it might work for a lot of other people too!

 

[TaraToes25]

Of course people tease....

Hey now... I see some people treading on Golden Rule territory here.

While I do understand that there ARE teasers on here and I don't move as slowly as Iluv2Btickled does I also understand where she is coming from. She's not some goody-goody bragging about her virginity. She's just someone who doesn't want to be thrown into the category of being "a tease" just because she has beliefs that she makes very well known. She's not playing the "victim", she's been here longer than I and has never ever pretended to be any other than what she is. And she's never come across as anything other than totally herself or has acted offended by the content of this site.

I'm with her in the fact that I do NOT respond to someone who pm's me with a question such as "how ticklish are your feet" or "on a scale of 1-10 how ticklish are you". I mean, I'm not going to bitch if someone does it but I'm not going to reply either. I've discovered that if you aren't someone that I would have a great conversation with regardless of tickling, than you aren't someone I want touching me.

I would love to be tickled more. But not just by anyone.

Yes, so much on this thread makes sense, and I am sure many of us are teasing guys, or exploring what men really like, but please do not assume that many of us do not love sensual tickling, toe sucking, nibbling; and yes, the Domme comment is true too... part of my fun is to tickle a guy as he is tickling me... i love the sensation and to see a man's reaction; and i like to tickle my gf's too... but again, do not believe that most of us here do not love being tickled (not a weird torture thing) but sweetly and erotically... and i love to tickle a guy, and i may be weird but i really like mens feet! (some are cuter than others!)

with giggles and moans,sincerely Tara

 

[TaraToes25]

Darling boys; get real!

I agree with a lot of the sentiments here. I think if a guy is reasonably confident (not cocky) and uses common sense and courtesy with respect to interactions with ladies, its not too hard to find ladies outside our fetish who actually enjoy tickleplay if it is presented in a fun and non threatening manner.....but lets face it, if your normal demeanor is to act like a jerk, then its kinda hard to get from first base with any kind of interaction you are seeking.....

And ladies here WILL p m YOU, if they are interested in you.....

About the only thing I would probably disagree with is that I have found that I enjoy tickleplay much more with ladies that are into our fetish.....we both know what we are "seeking", so to speak.....but as prof said, there's really no shortage of "non fetish" ladies who are willing to tickleplay if you are having trouble finding someone in this enviornment.......you actually may be surprised......

Seriously, stop focusing on the "fetish thing" and asking yourself if it is too weird, adn will women reject it... i personally attest that my firends and i, not all of us, but most love to have out toes sucked and nibbled, or even to have our sides tickles gently while making love...it's ecstacy.

As for feet, i knw only one woman who hates having her feet touched; and we argue with her; it's her hang-up! I love a foot massage, and i love my feet gently tickled... and dont bother asking a woman if she likes it, just try ir next timeyou find yourself in a romantic situation... my room mate just old me that her feet have always been insanely ticklish, and now she dates a guy that suckes her toes and even tickles her arches with his tongue... in passionate moments, she loves it... it's not ticklish in a bad way...in an awesome way... multiple sensations are really nice... tickling provides that gentlemen, and most women i know (especially me) love it!

Tara

 

[Tamia78]

This actually is a very good thread, I'm enjoying the dissusion....

In my opinion, the guys that whine about lack of ticklish women in their area or anywhere else are looking for a CERTAIN type of women (i.e blonde, 18, tight body). It's not that there are no ticklish women, its that there aren't any hot, blonde 18 year old ticklish women. Just look at the responses to some of the introductory threads with pics. (fake pics apparently, but that doesn't stop anyone).

As GDIT said, there are plenty of women on here who would like nothing more than just a tickle session and that's it. Me, I'm looking for friends. Of course I love to be tickled, I wouldn't be here if I didn't. But I think many of the responses hit the nail on the head when they said when you meet someone from the TMF, tickling is assumed, and as women, we want to get to know the person. It really is a safety issue. Basically the more I get to know you, the more I want you to tickle me. I've had a few visits from TMFers and they've been awesome! Because they are friends, I will DEFINITELY be willing to be tied and tickled sensless again by these Lers.

To the Lers who complain of the lack of lees: Take some time out and get to know some of us on the forum. It's all in your approach, and many of us would be more than willing to talk tickling with you, if you'll just be patient with us and let US get to know YOU. We may not all be 18 and blonde, but there are still tons of beautiful ticklish women on this site, and they're all real.

--T

 

[WheresThe Clip?]

Yes, so much on this thread makes sense, and I am sure many of us are teasing guys, or exploring what men really like

One point kind of missed here, is that some of us guys like to be teased.

So tease away

 

[Soda Bobinski]

... this is really no different than walking up to a woman in a store and asking to see her breasts, get it? Would you do that? I would hope not.

Might be worth a shot , though.

 

[Dailyfan]

"...I realize I've only been here a short time, but creepiness here abounds!"

you took the words right out of my mouth.

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

And luv2b, in all my years on this forum, I don't think I've ever seen you in a disagreement with anyone-I'm usually the one locking horns with someone ! Interesting side to you; you're a sweetheart but you're certainly not a pushover.

Thanks luv! 🙂 I appreciate that. Just one more peron to back me up on my sincerity. And everyone know's kis. *hugs kis*

 

[tklcouple]

clarification and response

You say that if people are going to jerk us around , then we should just
stop worrying about it , get our hands out of our pants , and ignore them.

>>> But what does that say about you ??? If it is so easy to brush-off
these situations when they happen to us , why do you feel the need to
come in here as a third party and spend your time writing hundreds of
words about it. If the conversation bothers you . . . just "Ignore It".

2tickleU:

Allow me to clarify that I was not pointing to you or anyone in particular having their hands in their pants but rather that if one expects to have some bombshell email you out of the blue with a burning lust to fulfill your tickling desires that one has a better chance of hitting the lottery- twice! That said I do NOT think that is what you implied that you expect when you made your post and in fact I think that there are a number of people who share your feelings in some form. I do also think that sometimes (perhaps not you, but frankly I do not know you) we guys can be very naive and socially retarded as regards the fairer sex. The comment was a satire, so please do not take it either literally or personally.

Secondly, my point about not giving time or response to people jerking you around has to do with a response to when people deliberately act with deceit and manipulation - the very thing you complained about! What I am responding to here is an idea you posted, not an attempt on your part to be manipulative and deceitful. In fact, I would venture to say you were being very honest and seeking an open clarification. Had you been posting just to be a selfish, malignant boor I would have likely disregarded you. If in fact that was what you were doing and I missed it then was in error and decent discussion took root anyway. If anybody is jerking you around, they are not worth your time or aggravation, no matter whether you are here or anywhere else. That is all I meant by that - plain and simple.

So don't take to personal heart any satirical comments, fellow ticklephile, as they were not directed at you personally nor any one individual. As to the time spent on this - this is a subject worth a little time if it helps us understand one another a bit better.

Sincerely,

Professor Tkl​