Fetish

[tttony]

I don't think anyone really quite understands what you're getting at. You seem to have gone from some issue you have with models to your incorrect theory of why people like tickling.

I'm not one to make assumptions but it could be said that you look like you're trying to get a reaction?

If not then... what ARE you doing because its a very strange conversation so far.

Incorrect theory of why people like tickling? strange conversation? Why do people like tickling in your opinion? Do you think it's normal and healthy to get aroused tying and tickling a person? or is that a fetish coming from a trauma in the childhood where they were abused with tickling by their parents, siblings, friends?

Then there are people who make money on other people who have this fetish by selling them videos and feeding their addiction to it, just like a drug.

Is maybe clearer my point now? I think most people already understood what I am talking about anyway.

 

[-Hari-]

Incorrect theory of why people like tickling? strange conversation? Why do people like tickling in your opinion? Do you think it's normal and healthy to get aroused tying and tickling a person? or is that a fetish coming from a trauma in the childhood where they were abused with tickling by their parents, siblings, friends?

Then there are people who make money on other people who have this fetish by selling them videos and feeding their addiction to it, just like a drug.

Is maybe clearer my point now? I think most people already understood what I am talking about anyway.

Yes incorrect, various people like tickling for various reasons, you cant put it all down to one thing, I can say categorically that my fetish has nothing to do with childhood traumas. As for normal well the word normal is very vague, if you mean normal as in does it fall in line with the majority then no but who cares? I think its normal to be different. Are you sure this isn't more about how you feel about it? because that's not necessarily how everyone's gonna feel about it, I'm very happy with my fetish and I don't feel like its a problem that's being fed by evil tickle media producers, I'm sure many would say the same.

As for your comments on tickling media... well yes isn't that the point? people want to see tickle fetish media and producers supply it, there has to be money involved, nothings free these days. If you don't like it then like... don't buy clips, its no biggy.

I do see what you're saying now thanks, however I totally disagree.

 

[BellybTickler]

Oh so for you sweets, videogames, gasoline and a sexually related fetish (mostly coming from a trauma in the childhood and would need to be treated by a psychiatrist) are all the same things? See what I mean by being in denial?

Thanks! I didn't know you knew all about my life! Btw .. go F*** yourself. I know, for a fact, my fetishes did not come from some childhood trauma. I love what I love, and I'm not going to make bullshit excuses like mommy hit me so I like BDSM. I find this whole thread incredibly offensive and insulting, I request that a mod either lock or remove it before Dr. Moron here makes any more baseless assumptions about things he clearly knows NOTHING about.

 

[tttony]

Thanks! I didn't know you knew all about my life! Btw .. go F*** yourself. I know, for a fact, my fetishes did not come from some childhood trauma. I love what I love, and I'm not going to make bullshit excuses like mommy hit me so I like BDSM. I find this whole thread incredibly offensive and insulting, I request that a mod either lock or remove it before Dr. Moron here makes any more baseless assumptions about things he clearly knows NOTHING about.

I dont think you need to be insulting me if you dont agree with what I am saying. I am sorry, but I think you are another one who is in denial. Getting aroused by tying up and tickling a woman or a man is a sexually related fetish, try search the net about it and you'll find that out. On the other hand if you dont want to hear about and you want to continue feeding it, go ahead. But again, for most people affected by this particular fetish, we are talking about childhood traumas that caused it, it has been studied. I have been talking to people into tickling for 15 years, and the majority of them confirmed their fetish comes from abuse when they were little. You may like it or not, and it may not be your case, but that's the truth.

 

[rhiannon]

or is that a fetish coming from a trauma in the childhood where they were abused with tickling by their parents, siblings, friends?

I honestly don't know where my - or any fetish - came from, but certainly not from a childhood trauma where I was "abused" from anybody. I was hardly tickled when I was a child, and actually first got aroused from seeing someone else being tickled without even being involved in it.

I don't know where you got the weird idea that fetishes come from any kind of trauma. I sure know that even psychologists have no idea how and when a sexual wiring takes place, be it a fetish for tickling, pain or simply being homo- or heterosexual. We are just not far enough in research to be able to tell how it works, and here you come claiming you have the solution? Very interesting! 🙂

 

[rhiannon]

we are talking about childhood traumas that caused it, it has been studied

Where? Show me resources on that, please! Studies, numbers, written evidence.

 

[tttony]

Yes incorrect, various people like tickling for various reasons, you cant put it all down to one thing, I can say categorically that my fetish has nothing to do with childhood traumas. As for normal well the word normal is very vague, if you mean normal as in does it fall in line with the majority then no but who cares? I think its normal to be different. Are you sure this isn't more about how you feel about it? because that's not necessarily how everyone's gonna feel about it, I'm very happy with my fetish and I don't feel like its a problem that's being fed by evil tickle media producers, I'm sure many would say the same.

for your comments on tickling media... well yes isn't that the point? people want to see tickle fetish media and producers supply it, there has to be money involved, nothings free these days. If you don't like it then like... don't buy clips, its no biggy.

I do see what you're saying now thanks, however I totally disagree.

Do you think it's healthy having a fetish? Do you think it's good to be obsessed with tickling like most people who are into it? Do you think it didnt ruin the lives of many people who are into it? Do you think it's right to sell drugs because there is people who are addicted to it?

 

[rhiannon]

Do you think it's healthy having a fetish?

If nobody suffers from it - why should it be unhealthy? It might not be "normal" as in "most people do it", but unhealthy? I don't see how it would be unhealthy. Explain, please.

 

[tttony]

I honestly don't know where my - or any fetish - came from, but certainly not from a childhood trauma where I was "abused" from anybody. I was hardly tickled when I was a child, and actually first got aroused from seeing someone else being tickled without even being involved in it.

I don't know where you got the weird idea that fetishes come from any kind of trauma. I sure know that even psychologists have no idea how and when a sexual wiring takes place, be it a fetish for tickling, pain or simply being homo- or heterosexual. We are just not far enough in research to be able to tell how it works, and here you come claiming you have the solution? Very interesting! 🙂

How do you explain then that most people into tickling I talked to in the past 15 years told me they were tickled as a child, and abused with it, by their parents, uncles, aunts, siblings, friends? I am sure you must have heard similar stories too.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

How do you explain then that most people into tickling I talked to in the past 15 years told me they were tickled as a child, and abused with it, by their parents, uncles, aunts, siblings, friends? I am sure you must have heard similar stories too.

Were you?

 

[rhiannon]

I am sure you must have heard similar stories too.

No, not at all. Not on here, and that's where I meet all the people who are into tickling. Honestly, most people here don't know how they got into it, and most did not get tickled extensively when they were young. I sure didn't.

When I hear stories like that, they are usually fake stories by people who have those kind of fantasies, but they didn't really happen. In the contrary, I hear more stories of people who were abused with tickling when they were young and now hate everything that has to do with tickling.

 

[tttony]

If nobody suffers from it - why should it be unhealthy? It might not be "normal" as in "most people do it", but unhealthy? I don't see how it would be unhealthy. Explain, please.

Do you think it's healthy and normal being obsessed with a fetish such as tickling and spend hours and hours each day thinking about it, watching clips, reading stories about it and chatting about it?

 

[rhiannon]

Do you think it's healthy and normal being obsessed with a fetish such as tickling and spend hours and hours each day thinking about it, watching clips, reading stories about it and chatting about it?

Who does that? I sure don't. Yes, if you actually can't think about something else, it is unhealthy and not normal, but I really don't think a lot of people are affected by it that badly.

 

[tttony]

Were you?

yes I was, and like me many others, and it ruined mine and their lives.

 

[tttony]

Who does that? I sure don't. Yes, if you actually can't think about something else, it is unhealthy and not normal, but I really don't think a lot of people are affected by it that badly.

Try asking around

 

[rhiannon]

yes I was, and like me many others, and it ruined mine and their lives.

Well....actually you are the first one I hear that from. Usually people who get abused by tickling hate it. It's not like people who get sexually abused as children are sexmaniacs afterwars - usually the total opposite happens.

 

[rhiannon]

Try asking around

Well, people on here are usually not here 24/7! 🙂 I think you are getting a wrong idea....or projecting yourself on others, who knows.

 

[tttony]

No, not at all. Not on here, and that's where I meet all the people who are into tickling. Honestly, most people here don't know how they got into it, and most did not get tickled extensively when they were young. I sure didn't.

When I hear stories like that, they are usually fake stories by people who have those kind of fantasies, but they didn't really happen. In the contrary, I hear more stories of people who were abused with tickling when they were young and now hate everything that has to do with tickling.

many people removed it mentally, it is typical of abuse that happened in the childhood. They dont remember it, especially if they were like 4,5,6 years old, but that's where it comes from.

Yes they either hate it, or are obsessed with it as a sexually related fetish.

 

[rhiannon]

but that's where it comes from

Dude...I definitely was never abused in my childhood. A was turned on by seing someone being tickled already when I wa four years old, and I even remember the scenes. There was hardly any tickling going on in my family at all. I don't know if you are trolling here, and where you got your ideas from, but they are definitely wrong!

 

[Korastus]

Bahahahaha. What a sad excuse for a troll. XD

 

[tttony]

Well....actually you are the first one I hear that from. Usually people who get abused by tickling hate it. It's not like people who get sexually abused as children are sexmaniacs afterwars - usually the total opposite happens.

Well, actually you are the first one who says tickling has nothing to do with being tickled when they were a child. There are people who were not and like tickling anyway ok, but the most severe cases come from abuse in the childhood, and I think it's the majority.

Just like spanking for example, people into spanking were often spanked as a child by their parents, it's quite obvious.

 

[rhiannon]

actually you are the first one who says tickling has nothing to do with being tickled when they were a child

Ask around here and you will find many, many more!

and I think it's the majority

I don't. 🙂 Please, check out any article about fetishism you wish, and in every article they will say that we do not know yet how fetishes develop! The only theory there is right now is this one:

Though the cause is unknown, experts theorize that an experience with masturbation as a young child - often one that has been long forgotten - could develop into a fetish for an object that serves as a subconscious reminder.

 

[tttony]

Bahahahaha. What a sad excuse for a troll. XD

Why would I be a troll? I am just saying what I think about the whole tickling thing, as I feel a victim of it.

 

[-Hari-]

Do you think it's healthy having a fetish? Do you think it's good to be obsessed with tickling like most people who are into it? Do you think it didnt ruin the lives of many people who are into it? Do you think it's right to sell drugs because there is people who are addicted to it?

Yes, I think its very healthy to embrace your fetish, its not good to get obsessed with anything but that's got nothing to do with a fetish, its to do with having an obsessive personality and if an obsessive personaility causes problems then you sort that out by itself, the fetish isn't the problem. If people can't control their desires for things, be it fetishes or drugs etc then they clearly have an issue with self control and its their responcibility to get help for it.

I don't blame the supplier of media that encourages it, drugs are illegal and damage your body so its not that comparable to fetish material, a fetish is perfectly normal and common and the majority of people manage themselves perfectly fine.

Do you realize that what you are effectively doing is telling an entire public forum that their fetish is harmful and caused by trauma etc.... Assumtions and opinions only, not fact, you don't know you're right, in most cases you're probably wrong and you are very likely offending many members of this community.

Whilst you're entitled to your opinion do you really feel ok offending people like that?

 

[rhiannon]

I am just saying what I think about the whole tickling thing, as I feel a victim of it.

Maybe you do, maybe you even ARE a victim. Most of us others don't feel that way, so maybe you should start discussing a little bit in an opinionated way instead of presenting your opinion as a rule for everybody. It's not!