Interracial Relationships What do you think of them?

[Bagelfather]

race and marriage

My sister is in an inter-racial marriage and things are fine. It definitely doesn't bother me or anyone in my direct family. Her husband is a really nice and funny guy.

In all honesty what bothered me more and is hard for me to get over is that she covnerted AWAY from Judism and became a Baptist. I still love her and respect her decision but I have more of an issue with that than the race of the person she married. In fact if she never converted and married someone of a different religion, it wouldn't bother me. It was the conversion that doesn't 100% settle with me.

Whe she told my mother that she was dating someone black (this covnersation was before the engagement) the conversation went like this:

Sis: "[Name], the man I'm dating is black."

Mom: "Does he beat you?"

Sis: "No."

Mom: "Does he have a job?"

Sis: "Yes."

Mom: "Do you like him?"

Sis: "Yes."

Mom: "Okay."

That was it, my parents didn't care what race he was, just that he treated her well. So that's all you should keep in mind for yourself. People will have an issue with it and it is something you should be ready to deal with but I wouldn't obsess over it.

 

[Angel_2]

I am just glad that some people can make Interracial Relationships work. And that most familys have no problem with it. BTW I am glad to say things are going great right now between me and my gf. 😎



P.S.
And no Tamia I did not tell my gf about my tickling fetish.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

i never dated outside my race. not that i had problems, but i could never find a girl i wanted to date. i always wanted to date a black girl or asian...but most of the girls in either race i met and knew well either didn't date white "boys" or were gay....bummer.

 

[Angel_2]

Thats the way I feel I have always wanted to date a black or hispanic girl. I did not have problems with other races but it was something about being with a black girl(mostly over all others) that I wanted to be with. I still feel this way. I like the mystery of Interracial Relationships. I don't know why but now I am very happy now then ever before with the girl I am with now. To be honest I think its part being with a black girl and the other is the fact we have so much fun when we are with each other.

 

[DonnieBrasco]

OK all posts b4 me are OFF-BASE!!!

My friend the way I see it is that you and your lovely girlfriend are not masters of body-language, ergo your misinterpretation. I have been in the same situation but since I went to the Don Le pre school of "No money down body language" I will correct you in your erroneous judgement. These people were not upset because you two are in an "too-hip for today" relationship. They are looking at you and then her and muttering "what is he doing with this gorgeous creature?" followed by "some guys just have all the luck!!!"

SO there you have it!! See how easy that was...............

They are just jealous!!!

Gotta go missing my rally at the "no money down how to tickle a woman who isnt ticklish event!!!"

DB

 

[Tamia78]

Thats the way I feel I have always wanted to date a black or hispanic girl. I did not have problems with other races but it was something about being with a black girl(mostly over all others) that I wanted to be with. I still feel this way. I like the mystery of Interracial Relationships. I don't know why but now I am very happy now then ever before with the girl I am with now. To be honest I think its part being with a black girl and the other is the fact we have so much fun when we are with each other.

Hang on.............you like the "mystery"? I thought you liked the girl? You're losing me fast, Angel. Are you telling me that you just like the attention you get? Geesh. Believe it or not, I've seen guys like that. There's no mystery about it. You SHOULD be in it because you like her as a person, no matter if she's black, purple or plaid/polka-dotted!

--T

 

[ElephantEye]

You don't "need to do" shit. Race ain't got nothing to do with it much, IMO; they're just jealous you're with a hottie. I mean, to paraphrase the great man, "It's 2006, nigga; is you dead broke?" Fuck skin color; green & pink are the only colors that matter now.

I've dated black girls that freaked out at everyone who even glanced at us. They was way better looking girls than I am a guy.

Just keep licking that pussy & tickling those feet and you'll be fine.

 

[kis123]

Hang on.............you like the "mystery"? I thought you liked the girl? You're losing me fast, Angel. Are you telling me that you just like the attention you get? Geesh. Believe it or not, I've seen guys like that. There's no mystery about it. You SHOULD be in it because you like her as a person, no matter if she's black, purple or plaid/polka-dotted!

--T

There are some people who are wired that way-they were practically born to date other races. I've met a few including the gentleman I'm dating now. These gentlemen simply prefer color in their lives and there's nothing wrong with that.

Every relationship, interracial or not, provides mystery. Until you get to know that special someone, there's always something behind his/her heart's door for you to discover right?

 

[Angel_2]

Hang on.............you like the "mystery"? I thought you liked the girl? You're losing me fast, Angel. Are you telling me that you just like the attention you get? Geesh. Believe it or not, I've seen guys like that. There's no mystery about it. You SHOULD be in it because you like her as a person, no matter if she's black, purple or plaid/polka-dotted!

--T

I think you miss understood me. I really do like my gf a lot. She is the best. She makes me feel so happy and I make her feel the same way. Do I like the attention I get when I am with her? No Way! I notice when we walk down the street I can't tell you the number of guys I see look at her like all they want to do is Fuck her. Thats just not right and not what I am about. I really care for my gf a lot and if things don't work out I will still care for her. Thats why I am in this relationship to begin with. I don't care what color she is and maybe mystery was the wrong choice of word. I am sorry about that, did not mean to get you mad.

Race and color have never mattered to me before and won't matter now. I will say however I do tend to like to date black girls more. Is that so wrong?

Look I did not mean to get you upset or angry at me so if I did I am sorry.

 

[Aragon]

Well, you know, as many beauties of all races as there are, I do not understand why there is a problem. Personally, I would love to have a girl that looked like Tamia on my arm. Let someone make a comment and I would show them a Marine's response.

 

[Tamia78]

I think you miss understood me. I really do like my gf a lot. She is the best. She makes me feel so happy and I make her feel the same way. Do I like the attention I get when I am with her? No Way! I notice when we walk down the street I can't tell you the number of guys I see look at her like all they want to do is Fuck her. Thats just not right and not what I am about. I really care for my gf a lot and if things don't work out I will still care for her. Thats why I am in this relationship to begin with. I don't care what color she is and maybe mystery was the wrong choice of word. I am sorry about that, did not mean to get you mad.

Race and color have never mattered to me before and won't matter now. I will say however I do tend to like to date black girls more. Is that so wrong?

Look I did not mean to get you upset or angry at me so if I did I am sorry.

Nah...don't worry about it, I misunderstood. I do that alot, trust me.
You have nothing to be sorry for. If anything I'm sorry for sounding like I was mad, that wasn't my intentions. I just wondered about your use of the word "mystery"

I really do wish you and your gf the best! I just know you guys will make it!

 

[Angel_2]

Nah...don't worry about it, I misunderstood. I do that alot, trust me.
You have nothing to be sorry for. If anything I'm sorry for sounding like I was mad, that wasn't my intentions. I just wondered about your use of the word "mystery"

I really do wish you and your gf the best! I just know you guys will make it!

Don't worry about it, it happens all the time. Thanks for the well wishes. All I can say is I hope we make it. And right now things are going great, but I do have one tiny problem I could use some help on how do I tell my gf about my tickling fetish? Any ideas?

Thanks in Advance for any ideas anyone can give

Angel

 

[cpr1815]

My girlfriend is Asian (I'm white). Ironically, the only looks we've ever gotten was when we've gone into Asian restaurants, and it was white people just sort of staring, but not making rude looks. I see nothing wrong with mixed relationships. If someone has a problem with it, then screw 'em. What it comes down to is if the two human beings that are with each other care about one another on an emotional level, not on a color level.

One day way down the road, people will look back to our time and say "wow, people back then were so shallow that some of them were really offended to see inter-racial couples???" 😉

 

[Angel_2]

After doing some thinking for a few days I think I am in love with my gf. But I have a question do you think I am rushing into this too fast? I am young(21) so I don't know. I really love and care for her deeply. What should I do? Tell her? Also I don't know if she feels the same way about me.
Thanks for any advice you can give

Angel

 

[Italian_Touch]

After doing some thinking for a few days I think I am in love with my gf. But I have a question do you think I am rushing into this too fast? I am young(21) so I don't know. I really love and care for her deeply. What should I do? Tell her?
Thanks for any advice you can give

Angel

Oh man... why making easy things complicated?... There is only one thing that will work: the TRUTH!

The initial sarcasm is pretty interesting, though. 🙂 By the way, I assume that y'all became bf adn gf just to fuck so far...

 

[Angel_2]

Na we have not Fucked yet, what kind of relationship would that be? We go to the movies, walk around the city, talk a lot, and most importanly we have a good time no matter what we are doing. 😎

 

[Italian_Touch]

Oh well.. it wanted to be ironic. I wrote that to affirm that expressing what you feel cannot be wrong.

On the other hand I misunderstood the meaning of being a gf. So, basically you are still dating, right?
Well, it seems that everything is proceeding in the right direction.

My humble opinion: expressing your feelings is never deleterious. Make overstatements is. If you feel in your guts that it is not what you should do because (1) you are still unsure about your feelings (ehich might be honest but still not stable) and/or (2) are unsure of her reaction, then FOLLOW your guts. It is probably too early. Keep being honest with yourself in the more difficult way: thinking hard is quite easy, feeling hard is not: but the latter is the key.

Best luck!

 

[Angel_2]

I am sorry Italian_Touch that part in your quote where it says its not all about sex and we do more then just fuck. That is wrong I misstyped that by mistake. We have no fucked as of yet. So I did not want you to get confused. Thanks for the advice

 

[Italian_Touch]

fixed 😉

btw, as you saw, that was not the point 😉

 

[Angel_2]

Right I know what your point was. Thanks buddy

 

[isabeau]

Angel.. good luck and you already know what i think.. i say go for it. and 21 isn't too young to know how you feel.. if you are in love, then you are. pm me anytime.

isabeau

 

[Tamia78]

Na we have not Fucked yet, what kind of relationship would that be? We go to the movies, walk around the city, talk a lot, and most importanly we have a good time no matter what we are doing. 😎

Man, don't be so crude, guys!

Angel, if you feel it, I guess you feel it. From personal experience, it really sux to hear your bf say that early into the relationship, and then it not work out because that really wasn't his feelings for me. There was an article I read asking if it was "Love" or "Infatuation"? If I can find it, I'll PM you with it.
It's like IT said, if you really aren't sure how you feel, then DON'T say it. Just enjoy each other's company and continue to get to know one another. Trust me, it'll come.

--T

 

[Deadsea7777]

Hi Everyone! I just have a question that I have been wondering and wanting to get an idea as to what you think of Interracial Relationships. Me and my Girlfriend get along great, we love doing things togther and we have fun all the time. Yet we both can't get over the fact that most people(some we know and others we don't know at all) don't like that fact that we date each other. Now myself being white and my girlfriend being black have no problem with it at all in fact we love it. Its just sometimes I get mad at some of the dirty looks people tend to give us when we walk down the street or just sitting doing nothing at all. For example I was walking my girlfriend home one day after a movie and along the way at least 3 people gave us a mean and dirty looks. At the time we did not think much of it at all but after some time we started to wonder why they do it. I just want to know what you think of Interracial Relationships and why people don't like it. Some of my friends have told me that it is better to stay within a certain group and I could not disagree more with them. I just need some advice on what to do. I know I should not care what other people think of it but I can't help but wonder. Thanks for any and all advice you can give and please do give your take on the issue and tell if you like it or not. BTW just so everyone is clear I am NOT trying to start anything. I just want you to be truthful and open but please show Respect while posting. Hope you enjoy this and I look forward to your replys.

As a matter of fact race is not a problem, however whatever set of rules you need to fulfill in order to belong to a group (race, nation, religion, have a taste for the little fetish of tickling etc.), could be a problem.
It is up to the lovers to brake the rules is their love is more important than belonging to a particular group.
You can follow the rules, you can be against the rules, which is just the opposite, or you can be free and made your own rules.

 

[ViperGTS]

I'm not racist, in fact I am as far from it as one can get. However, I would not date a black or hispanic woman. An asian woman, maybe. Yes, it is about the color of her skin to me. I don't know why, but I do know it's not because I'm racist...other skin colors just aren't appealing to me as far as relationships go.

I don't think others should be told not to do it, though. To each their own.

 

[MrPartickler]

I'm not racist, in fact I am as far from it as one can get. However, I would not date a black or hispanic woman. An asian woman, maybe. Yes, it is about the color of her skin to me. I don't know why, but I do know it's not because I'm racist...other skin colors just aren't appealing to me as far as relationships go.

I don't think others should be told not to do it, though. To each their own.

Just a clarification: the skin colors or tones of both Hispanic and Af-Am women can and do vary pretty <i>widely</i>. This is especially true of Hispanic/Latin women since that heading generally includes European women from Spain alongside with women from Mexico, Cuba, South & Central America, etc. I've personally met many from both groups who'd probably not be easily identified as such if they didn't tell everyone themselves up front.

So it's probably better to just say you're more attracted to very light-colored skin tones than darker ones--if that's the case. That way no one mistakes your statements for "racist" ones.