Is it more fun for you too???

[new2sceenbob]

Some time ago I actually had the experience of meeting someone from this website and tickling her. I can't say that it wasn't fun and exciting, it certainly was! However, I find that tickling vanilla women is much more fun, and much more exciting, because I know in my mind that they are not enjoying it, that they are feeling uncomfortable, and that they truly want me to stop! I am curious, what are your thoughts and feelings about this?

 

[chicago]

I guess that's understandable.

As a 'lee, though, it's quite the opposite. Vanilla people trying to be 'lers, bless their hearts, they just don't get it.

 

[Aimee]

I guess that's understandable.

As a 'lee, though, it's quite the opposite. Vanilla people trying to be 'lers, bless their hearts, they just don't get it.

100% agree.

 

[rhiannon]

I guess that's understandable.

As a 'lee, though, it's quite the opposite. Vanilla people trying to be 'lers, bless their hearts, they just don't get it.

Word.

I also know a lot of lers who prefer it if the lee enjoys it as well, because that naturally leads to much longer sessions.

 

[new2sceenbob]

I guess that's understandable.

As a 'lee, though, it's quite the opposite. Vanilla people trying to be 'lers, bless their hearts, they just don't get it.

Yes, and I can certainly understand that! A ticklish vanilla woman can be tickled, but only a 'ler can tickle and enjoy doing it! Thank you for posting in the thread.

 

[new2sceenbob]

Word.

I also know a lot of lers who prefer it if the lee enjoys it as well, because that naturally leads to much longer sessions.

Yes, that makes a lot sense! I certainly didn't expect everyone to feel the same way that I do. It's nice to hear the perspective of other people in this wonderful scene!

 

[Em Es]

That's a big reason tickling is so hot

new2sceenbob, tickling a girl who would not want you to tickle her but puts up with it in order to please you is striking gold!

 

[new2sceenbob]

new2sceenbob, tickling a girl who would not want you to tickle her but puts up with it in order to please you is striking gold!

Yes, my thoughts exactly! It's nice to know that someone else feels the same way!

 

[milagros317]

When I am acting as a 'ler, I want the 'lee to enjoy it. 😀

 

[socktickler86]

Word.

I also know a lot of lers who prefer it if the lee enjoys it as well, because that naturally leads to much longer sessions.

I agree completely! If I were to ever tickle a friend or someone whos "vanilla", it would have to be something like tickling their side or maaaaaybe their feet and only for a minute or two. Same for one tickling me. Of course, many people also like being tied while tickled, which is certainly out of the question with a vanilla person.

 

[ticklechambers]

hahahah what about a lee who likes it- but convincingly acts like she doesn't want it??? I do this aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time. I've had to tell people to ignore me in the next session because they think i want them to stop hahaha 😛

 

[new2sceenbob]

I agree completely! If I were to ever tickle a friend or someone whos "vanilla", it would have to be something like tickling their side or maaaaaybe their feet and only for a minute or two. Same for one tickling me. Of course, many people also like being tied while tickled, which is certainly out of the question with a vanilla person.

That just isn't true! I have met more then one vanilla woman who was willing to be tied and tickled! Of course I could not tickle her for very long, but while it did last, man what incredible exciting fun!

 

[new2sceenbob]

hahahah what about a lee who likes it- but convincingly acts like she doesn't want it??? I do this aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time. I've had to tell people to ignore me in the next session because they think i want them to stop hahaha 😛

Yes, you are doing such a wonderful thing for your lers, and I doubt that any of them ever asked you to do differently! That was my point exactly; it is much more fun and exciting for me if I think that the woman that I am tickling really wants me to stop!

 

[new2sceenbob]

I want to thank everyone for their posts! I so very much enjoy talking about this wonderful fun fetish with those who understand! The TMF rocks!

 

[Libertine]

Great knowledge of women, guys.

new2sceenbob, tickling a girl who would not want you to tickle her but puts up with it in order to please you is striking gold!

Yes, my thoughts exactly! It's nice to know that someone else feels the same way!

Striking lead, more like. It's as if you're wishing for a wife or girlfriend who 'puts up' with sex just to shut you up or so you'll finally clean the garage.

 

[Morpheus72]

Some time ago I actually had the experience of meeting someone from this website and tickling her. I can't say that it wasn't fun and exciting, it certainly was! However, I find that tickling vanilla women is much more fun, and much more exciting, because I know in my mind that they are not enjoying it, that they are feeling uncomfortable, and that they truly want me to stop! I am curious, what are your thoughts and feelings about this?

I would hate that; I want them to enjoy it. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.

 

[Flatfoot]

Striking lead, more like. It's as if you're wishing for a wife or girlfriend who 'puts up' with sex just to shut you up or so you'll finally clean the garage.

^What he said. Also, someone who doesn't like it will eventually cut you off when they decided they're sick of it. TRUST me!

 

[darkscar]

When i get in to a tickling session i want it to be more than just a min or 2, its like I just getting stated and you want me to really stop already?!?! I would not be to happy

 

[love feet]

hahahah what about a lee who likes it- but convincingly acts like she doesn't want it??? I do this aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time. I've had to tell people to ignore me in the next session because they think i want them to stop hahaha 😛

Do not forget to agree on/use a safe word to!!!

 

[rhiannon]

Totally agree with Libertine and Flatfood here. A relationship with someone who just puts up with it will not last long!

 

[new2sceenbob]

Please keep all the posts coming; I'm enjoying hearing all of the different opinions!

 

[Em Es]

Libertine

Libertine , your knowledge of women just isn't as good as mine, it seems, as I can think of no fewer than four fantastic girls I've known who put up with getting tickled because it pleased me.

However, please do not assume (remember Felix on The Odd Couple!) I am saying the scenario I describe is a must. It's more like found money, something I'll take but not the only means to a payday. A girl who likes being tickled is a compromise I can live with!

 

[rhiannon]

as I can think of no fewer than four fantastic girls I've known who put up with getting tickled because it pleased me.

The question is, how long did they do it or how long would they have done it? I can't see anybody in a long-term relationship putting up with something just to please the partner.

 

[Em Es]

Which is why I often say

Rhiannon, that's why I often say life might be easier for us (that is, members of this great on-line community) if we saved sex for our significant others and tickle play for a tickle buddy on the side. Not everyone has been as lucky as me to find girls willing to put up with getting tickled to satisfy little old me.

Beyond that, I recommend the book Sex at Dawn, which raises good questions about people's quest for an exclusive partner.

 

[rhiannon]

Rhiannon, that's why I often say life might be easier for us (that is, members of this great on-line community) if we saved sex for our significant others and tickle play for a tickle buddy on the side. Not everyone has been as lucky as me to find girls willing to put up with getting tickled to satisfy little old me.

I just doubt that a lot of significant others would agree with that. Some do, but I believe they are in the minority.