Reasons why a guy might not be motivated to tickle a girl

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Okay I am going to try to make this short and sweet. I first met this guy who is a member of this forum (I don't want to say his name) at NEST 2006. I was walking with a friend of mine who was also my roommate in hotel and heard laughing. I knocked on the door and went inside. Well at some point this guy is being playful with me and is holding my arms above my head while I am being gang tickled by a few other guys. That was cool but basically after that I thought he would tickle me later but he didn't.

Then later that year, I saw him again at The Motown Party in that same year. There was a moment when I was sitting on a bed upstairs with some other people. I do finally decide to ask him why he hasn't tickled me yet and then he holds my arms back and does it for a little bit. I do think that he only did that out of pity and only because I said something to him. I did see him tickle other girls at the party but I don't want to say their names. I did get tickled by other people though.

I saw him again at NEST 2007 and although I did have a very good time there. I tried to interact with this guy but he wasn't receptive to me and claimed that he wasn't himself and wasn't feeling well. Yet, I did see him tickle a few other girls. I was tickled by other people but the point is, I really want to be tickled by this guy and I am trying to understand the male mind.

The only reasons that I can think of that he won't tickle me are as follows:
1.) He's not attracted to me.

2.) He doesn't like me, thinks I am annoying or some other reason.


I'd like other thoughts on this because I am just curious about it. I am not upset or anything but I'd like some advice. Thanks.

 

[badreligion]

Okay I am going to try to make this short and sweet. I first met this guy who is a member of this forum (I don't want to say his name) at NEST 2006. I was walking with a friend of mine who was also my roommate in hotel and heard laughing. I knocked on the door and went inside. Well at some point this guy is being playful with me and is holding my arms above my head while I am being gang tickled by a few other guys. That was cool but basically after that I thought he would tickle me later but he didn't.

Then later that year, I saw him again at The Motown Party in that same year. There was a moment when I was sitting on a bed upstairs with some other people. I do finally decide to ask him why he hasn't tickled me yet and then he holds my arms back and does it for a little bit. I do think that he only did that out of pity and only because I said something to him. I did see him tickle other girls at the party but I don't want to say their names. I did get tickled by other people though.

I saw him again at NEST 2007 and although I did have a very good time there. I tried to interact with this guy but he wasn't receptive to me and claimed that he wasn't himself and wasn't feeling well. Yet, I did see him tickle a few other girls. I was tickled by other people but the point is, I really want to be tickled by this guy and I am trying to understand the male mind.

The only reasons that I can think of that he won't tickle me are as follows:
1.) He's not attracted to me.

2.) He doesn't like me, thinks I am annoying or some other reason.


I'd like other thoughts on this because I am just curious about it. I am not upset or anything but I'd like some advice. Thanks.

he sounds like an idiot to me if hes not attracted to you or doesnt like you

whats not to like

 

[TicklishHope]

Okay I am going to try to make this short and sweet. I first met this guy who is a member of this forum (I don't want to say his name) at NEST 2006. I was walking with a friend of mine who was also my roommate in hotel and heard laughing. I knocked on the door and went inside. Well at some point this guy is being playful with me and is holding my arms above my head while I am being gang tickled by a few other guys. That was cool but basically after that I thought he would tickle me later but he didn't.

Then later that year, I saw him again at The Motown Party in that same year. There was a moment when I was sitting on a bed upstairs with some other people. I do finally decide to ask him why he hasn't tickled me yet and then he holds my arms back and does it for a little bit. I do think that he only did that out of pity and only because I said something to him. I did see him tickle other girls at the party but I don't want to say their names. I did get tickled by other people though.

I saw him again at NEST 2007 and although I did have a very good time there. I tried to interact with this guy but he wasn't receptive to me and claimed that he wasn't himself and wasn't feeling well. Yet, I did see him tickle a few other girls. I was tickled by other people but the point is, I really want to be tickled by this guy and I am trying to understand the male mind.

The only reasons that I can think of that he won't tickle me are as follows:
1.) He's not attracted to me.

2.) He doesn't like me, thinks I am annoying or some other reason.


I'd like other thoughts on this because I am just curious about it. I am not upset or anything but I'd like some advice. Thanks.

Don't take this offensively.. and if u do I am sorry.. maybe he thinks ur a slut since u let all the other guys tickle u at the same time

 

[badreligion]

Don't take this offensively.. and if u do I am sorry.. maybe he thinks ur a slut since u let all the other guys tickle u at the same time

how would that make him think shes a slut ? and by your logic if it was the other way aroudn then the guy would be a slut right ?

 

[Lttg]

Sounds like the options you listed already are the most likely ones. The male mind isn't a very complex thing when it comes down to it. I could probably think up an elaborate story that would explain why he shunned you 3 times but at the end of the day I think it's better just to assume lack of interest and move on.

 

[TicklishHope]

how would that make him think shes a slut ? and by your logic if it was the other way aroudn then the guy would be a slut right ?

Hell IDK why do guys think anything? Anything like that could make them jealous and come up with untrue conclusions

 

[badreligion]

Hell IDK why do guys think anything? Anything like that could make them jealous and come up with untrue conclusions

well if he did then it shows that he isnt a rational thinker or a jealous ass


and yes its just guys who get jealous and come up with untrue conclusions right 🙄

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Don't take this offensively.. and if u do I am sorry.. maybe he thinks ur a slut since u let all the other guys tickle u at the same time

I just want to say that this response doesn't make much sense especially since I've been to three NESTS and one Motown Party and I've seen plenty of girls get gang tickled by more than one guy. Some girls I know like to be tickled ONLY by guys anyhow. I wouldn't call them a slut. A slut is a girl who sleeps around with a lot of different guys.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

he sounds like an idiot to me if hes not attracted to you or doesnt like you

whats not to like

Thanks that was a very sweet and nice thing to say .

 

[TicklishHope]

I just want to say that this response doesn't make much sense especially since I've been to three NESTS and one Motown Party and I've seen plenty of girls get gang tickled by more than one guy. Some girls I know like to be tickled ONLY by guys anyhow. I wouldn't call them a slut. A slut is a girl who sleeps around with a lot of different guys.

look.. I've never been to any.. and I'm sorry.. everybody sees things in a different perspective

 

[Speedbump]

he sounds like an idiot to me if hes not attracted to you or doesnt like you

whats not to like

You know, when someone asks a serious question, the last thing really needed is some ass-kisser that is blinded by his feelings for the person to throw out posts that really don't contribute to anything.

And to the OP, guys think in very black and white for the most part. Just assume he's not into you and move on.

 

[RobAce]

Jen that is a very good question actually and Ill do my part to explain how I think and perhaps this person falls into the same area.....but I dont know, anyways here I go....

I will be going to NEST this year (as long as the ex-wife can take care of my little ones for the summer as is the agreement) but one of my biggest fears of NEST is doing to someone exactly what you describe.
Being around lots of fellow TMF members is going to be great and Im sure the scenery will be to-die-for, but to me tickling is rooted in my sexuality. It is what gives the get up and go to being aroused sexually. In this case I most likely would not tickle anyone I was not sexually or physically attracted to. However there has been more than a few cases in my life where the ticklishness of a woman overcame the "type" I usually date.
What you describe is what I imagine some might say about me after NEST. Is Robace a snob, does he think he is too good for us. Did I come on too strong, am I not attractive..... all those things is one of the 2 reasons I had to back out of going to NEST last year (not to mention I did not want my kids to spend the week with my brother...they would have gladly done it and offered to watch them so I could go on my "vacation", but I did not feel right leaving my kids to go off so I could get off)
Perhaps he has the same mindset as me, perhaps not....but I thought Id answer and also get something off my chest which has been bugging me since last years NEST.
I do plan on going this year and I will do my best to convey my feelings openly so that I will not hurt the feelings of someone else. And in this instance hopefully being upfront about it will result in no hurt feelings and an understanding.....perhaps I might even learn more about myself.

Rob

 

[Excess]

I'll make it clear for you...

Either he wasn't really attracted to you, he was attracted to you and is shy, or was afraid he'd get too turned on. Judging by how he had no problem having your body close to his, it probably isn't #2. Whatever the case, you didn't do anything wrong, and you certainly don't sound like a slut.(which is a bit odd to hear from considering...)

 

[amkes]

idk what he might have been thinking. As most guys would have been the two reasons you gave but if he is anything like me it could be a number of reasons. Like maybe you were too ticklish and he got spoked, maybe you weren't ticklish enough, maybe he only tickles girls once (note i'm not this kind of person), or any thing. maybe your perfume or perspiration gave off something that told his body no, or anything. If it makes you feel better I would tickle you hell I let you tickle me back XD

 

[badreligion]

You know, when someone asks a serious question, the last thing really needed is some ass-kisser that is blinded by his feelings for the person to throw out posts that really don't contribute to anything.

And to the OP, guys think in very black and white for the most part. Just assume he's not into you and move on.

yes im blinded by my feelings for a person i dont even know and have never met before ... you have my number




jackass

 

[marcusb]

Jen, I can think of a couple of reasons.

And you should not take this as an offense.

- you're not his type
- how you respond is not to his liking (laugh, whatever...)


People all have tastes, some very specific for whatever trait. I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[tickleshotel]

Jen,

I don;t know the reasons why this person you are referring to didn;t tickle you as you would have liked and since everyone is different and have different preferences in who they would like to tickle as well as the type of tickling. I would either try talking to the person privately and trying to communicate ,come to some understanding of the way he is feeling ,and why he may be distant from you,not as close as you;d like or wanting to engage in tickling with you.

I too have had alot of fun at the Nest gatherings I have attended and was looking forward to being tickled by certain people I have met that were nice and pleasant,friendly to me but not tickled by them which disappointed me a little also. I dont know why certain people weren;t interested or didn;t tickle me when given an opportunity but honestly if they or someone isn;t interested in tickling me,I wouldn;t want them to tickle me if it wasn;t going to be enjoyable to them for any reason.
Sometimes,the reason may not be personal reasons and may be that they were really busy, had other things planned whether public or private ,ect

Jen, your very pretty, a friendly lady and you have a wonderful laugh . Just go to gatherings hun and have a great time ,just be yourself and you;ll have tons of ticklers

 

[lk70]

who knows, Jen? people have funny tastes. There are men I don't want to tickle me at gatherings and it's not based on looks or attraction really, but just an overall vibe I get.

it's best to move on if you can.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

who knows, Jen? people have funny tastes. There are men I don't want to tickle me at gatherings and it's not based on looks or attraction really, but just an overall vibe I get.

it's best to move on if you can.

Oh I will move on and all. I know people have funny tastes and all Lynn. I don't know why it would be a certain vibe or anything. I am not even sure what a vibe is and I am quite sure it has more to do with looks or attraction. I mean we are talking about guys here.

 

[amkes]

Oh I will move on and all. I know people have funny tastes and all Lynn. I don't know why it would be a certain vibe or anything. I am not even sure what a vibe is and I am quite sure it has more to do with looks or attraction. I mean we are talking about guys here.

Hey not all us guy like girls or like tickling girls do to looks only. I'm a attitude/personality person myself.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Jen,

I don;t know the reasons why this person you are referring to didn;t tickle you as you would have liked and since everyone is different and have different preferences in who they would like to tickle as well as the type of tickling. I would either try talking to the person privately and trying to communicate ,come to some understanding of the way he is feeling ,and why he may be distant from you,not as close as you;d like or wanting to engage in tickling with you.

I too have had alot of fun at the Nest gatherings I have attended and was looking forward to being tickled by certain people I have met that were nice and pleasant,friendly to me but not tickled by them which disappointed me a little also. I dont know why certain people weren;t interested or didn;t tickle me when given an opportunity but honestly if they or someone isn;t interested in tickling me,I wouldn;t want them to tickle me if it wasn;t going to be enjoyable to them for any reason.
Sometimes,the reason may not be personal reasons and may be that they were really busy, had other things planned whether public or private ,ect

Jen, your very pretty, a friendly lady and you have a wonderful laugh . Just go to gatherings hun and have a great time ,just be yourself and you;ll have tons of ticklers

I am not really that worried about it Laurie. I have gotten tickled a lot at tickle gatherings and I am sure I will have a lot of ticklers again but it's just I am just disappointed why this one guy wasn't motivated to tickle me, that's all. I won't worry about it but if see him at at tickle gathering, I just won't talk to him or bother with him at all.

Thanks for your support Laurie. You are very sweet.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Jen, I can think of a couple of reasons.

And you should not take this as an offense.

- you're not his type
- how you respond is not to his liking (laugh, whatever...)


People all have tastes, some very specific for whatever trait. I wouldn't worry about it.

I am not offended by what you said. Everyone has different tastes. It's just when I see him at a tickle gathering I just won't talk to him or bother with him at all. If he doesn't want to tickle me, it's his loss.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Hey not all us guy like girls or like tickling girls do to looks only. I'm a attitude/personality person myself.

I understand what you are saying but when a guy meets a girl the first thing he notices is how she looks and then learns about her personality. Guys are very visual 🙄.

 

[Speedbump]

yes im blinded by my feelings for a person i dont even know and have never met before ... you have my number




jackass

Pot. Kettle. Have a good night.

 

[amkes]

I understand what you are saying but when a guy meets a girl the first thing he notices is how she looks and then learns about her personality. Guys are very visual 🙄.

wow am I a rarity? mmmmm *thinks*