Oh God! This is such a hot button for me. Not only does horrid spelling get under my skin, but so does bad grammar. When I see adults and even teenagers and children who should know better spelling words incorrectly, it gives me a little more of an insight as far as they go. Granted, everyone makes a typo here and there. That can be easily overlooked on my end as long as it is an obvious typo, but please don't try to pass something like "wrighter" off as a typo for "writer". When it comes to spelling and grammar, people who don't know when to use the proper form of "two", "to" or "too" or "your" and "you're", etc. is ridiculous. Or not knowing that you have to take the "e" out of "have" before turning it into "having". Grr!
Chris usually gets to hear my rants about people and their bad spelling and grammar. A few times a week he will hear me vent about the eye bleeding words I have to read when playing World of Warcraft or even reading this forum. I also recall that he "warned" me about some of the terrible spelling and grammar that goes on on here when I first joined. Even then he knew about my pet peeve.
I went to a public school, but I think you would have to try to not learn how to spell correctly. It never made sense to me. How could someone just not know how to spell when they are being taught how to every day? I've always been a strong speller. I've even been in spelling bees. I suppose it's just one of those enigmas that will never be discovered and figured out. I don't necessarily blame public schools, but more or less the environment around the child in their early years of education. At the same time, I can be a bit hypocritical. I correct my sister and mother's grammar quite often, but never their spelling. You will never hear me use the word "aint". What the hell is that anyways? An alternative for "isn't"? I digress.
I give some people the benefit of the doubt when I read posts. If I see an error I usually continue on to see what other errors there may be, if any at all. Sometimes when you're just on a good rant, punctuation, spelling and grammar aren't on your mind. I tend to re-read my posts before I post them to make sure I don't have any typos and that everything makes sense. I wish more people would give us that same courtesy. Also, please, if you are uncertain about how to spell something, take a minute of your time to look into it. If you don't, then how will you ever learn to spell correctly?
But, as I always say, Spell check is your friend! 😱