I started here, and prefer the people here. I've visited TT every now and again, but I don't really like the layout. It's difficult for me to navigate, and anytime I've gone there, I feel like this --->

as if I simply don't belong. The forum just "makes sense". The only thing that sucks is that it seems like a lot of the people I used to talk to on a regular basis migrated elsewhere, whether TT, Yahoo Chat, AIM, Skype, or Facebook (I simply can't incorporate the fetish into Facebook. There's just too much family, coworkers, and old friends present, and I don't want a whole separate account, because I have a feeling it would somehow lead back to people familiar with me in life. Facebook's weird, like that.).
Even I'm not here as often, anymore. Having a three-year old walk up next to you, staring over your shoulder at whatever site you're looking at can
really make ya feel weird! He's at the stage where he's obsessed with numbers and the alphabet, so the other day, he happened to walk up right as the index page loaded, and gleefully shouted and pointed at the letters, "'T', 'M', 'F'!" I felt like a horrible parent, and the red 'X' for closing out a tab on Firefox never seemed so small, and hard to find as it did, right then.