tickld on dates

[ticklesarah89]

Hi!

I dont really date people all that much because for years its felt lie a waste of time lol. it gave me the idea though of trying to get tickled if i do go out with someoen though. the thing im worried about is what if i do find someone good, i dont want to scare him off lol. so how can someone go on a date and kinda quickly bring up tickling without really scaring people off?? thanks!

 

[portlandltd]

Hey,

I don't date neither, but I know what you mean and to me it's sounds kinda fun getting tickled when you're going out. I'm not sure though if you should do the tickling at one go on an evening when you're going out. I mean, maybe you can build it up time by time, you could start by poking him in his sides playfully and if he tickles you back, you have a little excuse to tickle him back and so on and on.

Hope this helps, if not please correct me if I'm wrong.

 

[rhiannon]

If you're a girl, you just smile at him and say: "You know, tickling makes me totally hot!". The guy who will be scared off by a girl who tells him what gets her going has yet to be born!

 

[TheTickleMonster]

If you're a girl, you just smile at him and say: "You know, tickling makes me totally hot!". The guy who will be scared off by a girl who tells him what gets her going has yet to be born!

She's got a point...

I think there are guys that might think its weird.. (However even if they think it's weird, doesn't mean they won't do it lol)

but most will be willing to do it because it involves touching your body...

or you can remember that I'm not that far away and single 😛 buuttt I probably sholdn't say that

But yeah, girls can get away with telling guys that, it's guys that have problems because if they say they like ticklig they're weird 😛 But girls can tell guys because guys are okay with it.. and i'm not going to finish my sentense lol

 

[rhiannon]

Plus, if you like to BE tickled it's not as bad as liking to tickle others, because it won't include any uncomfortable feelings for the other person. 🙂

 

[LadyNerd]

I agree with Rhiannon. Women can tell most men just about anything regarding whatever like for touching they have, and the men will most likely be more than happy to oblige. Unless, of course, you tell them you don't like their kink and won't do it or you don't want them touching somewhere they wish to touch, I imagine.

 

[TheTickleMonster]

I agree with Rhiannon. Women can tell most men just about anything regarding whatever like for touching they have, and the men will most likely be more than happy to oblige. Unless, of course, you tell them you don't like their kink and won't do it or you don't want them touching somewhere they wish to touch, I imagine.

yeah, we like to be fair, we do what you like, you need to do what we like or we won't do what you like... 😛

 

[texastickler]

If you're a girl, you just smile at him and say: "You know, tickling makes me totally hot!". The guy who will be scared off by a girl who tells him what gets her going has yet to be born!

LOL! So to the point there Rhiannon. So true. 😀

 

[me4o]

If you're a girl, you just smile at him and say: "You know, tickling makes me totally hot!". The guy who will be scared off by a girl who tells him what gets her going has yet to be born!

I dream of the day when a girl will tell me those exact words 😀

 

[TickVix]

Well when it comes to dating and tickling...bringing it up in the beginning may not be easy, but always stand strong in confidence in terms to tickling because its a part of you and whoever you wind up with is going to have to accept and understand that. So hey! If you want to bring it up gradually or even right off the bat to see what they think about it, go for it! It can't hurt. Nowadays when it comes to dating most people bypass the formalities anyway and jump straight into what really perks their interest.

 

[StevePerry4Ever]

Next time you're in San Luis Obispo, or I'm in Merced let's go on a date. I won't think you're weird for trying to get tickled 😉

 

[LadyNerd]

Next time you're in San Luis Obispo, or I'm in Merced let's go on a date. I won't think you're weird for trying to get tickled 😉

Around here, I can't say anyone would be, really.

 

[Maestro1874]

I agree with Rhiannon. Women can tell most men just about anything regarding whatever like for touching they have, and the men will most likely be more than happy to oblige. Unless, of course, you tell them you don't like their kink and won't do it or you don't want them touching somewhere they wish to touch, I imagine.

I'd fight for the male right to NOT be stereotyped, but this also happens to be completely true... 🙂

 

[LadyNerd]

I'd fight for the male right to NOT be stereotyped, but this also happens to be completely true... 🙂

These instances are exactly the reason I say "most men" rather than "all men" and "usually" and whatnot. Regardless, I'm glad you can admit to falling into the reasoning, darlin'.

 

[midnightlord619]

Hi!

I dont really date people all that much because for years its felt lie a waste of time lol. it gave me the idea though of trying to get tickled if i do go out with someoen though. the thing im worried about is what if i do find someone good, i dont want to scare him off lol. so how can someone go on a date and kinda quickly bring up tickling without really scaring people off?? thanks!

take it one thing at a time is all i can say. a guy should learn to accept everything about the girl he dates. he may not agree w/ everything but that just comes w/ time and communication and being open minded

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

so how can someone go on a date and kinda quickly bring up tickling without really scaring people off?? thanks!

Whatever you do, don't tell a first date that tickling makes you really hot. That's more of a fifth date revelation. If a girl told me that on our first date, I'd think, "Geez, what a slut!"

 

[TickleMeP1nK]

Never have been tickled on the first date nor would I tell the person i'm going out with it's an interest of mine. Thats something i'll bring up if I see the relationship moving foward lol.

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

You will promise to cuddle afterward, right? 😉 Rhiannon hit the nail on the head, at least in this galaxy.