Thank you Myriads!
Now then, I’m sure I’m not alone in wanting to understand a bit more on how this is accomplished. My wife may be just as capable of achieving orgasm from tickling as any of the ladies here, but perhaps I’m not doing something right.
Is there a particular method your partner uses that differs from “regular” tickling? How does mood enter into it? Does alcohol or other substances help/hinder the experience? Are you and your partner specifically looking for this result, or does it just happen unexpectedly?
I would love to get a few pointers in the right direction. It would be fun to try something new such as this in the bedroom.
just in general, most female lees will talk about certain areas where they feel the sensation actually mirrored in their genitals. the arousal is not general because of the act but pointed. the intensity (and ability to climax) varries, but there are still a lot of females with ticklish erogenous zones.
even outside of the tickling world, there is a cross section of women who from toe sucking, nipple play, anal stimulation, sphincter teasing, etc can achieve orgasm. now that climax probably won't be as intense as intercourse with two vibrators while you are pulling their hair, but it is still possible. if you talk to the lee and determine what tickles touches and sensations effect her in a general erotic way or actually produce a hightened sense of pressure, or tingling in the genitals as thouhg actually building to a climax then it may be possible to learn to do it regularly, or even if the orgasm needs a little HELP it is usually much much more intense.
this is shameful, but i had a pen pal once. sometimes, when we were on the phone she would use a vibrator when we were discussion the advantages of supply side economics (yes, that's a joke... when i was telling her all the evil things that i would do to her). anyway, after a while i started (as any young aspiring ler should) making her ask permission to cum. the funny thing is that the act of cumming on command after holding it for so long is not as easy as it sounds. i had to com up with an effective punishment from thousands of miles away.
this particular person had explained that she had an additionally perverse response to foot tickling. in other words fondling her feet produced a heightened sense of arousal and direct tingling on the clit and the lips. make a long story short, if she took too long to cum when given permission (unfortunately she became disciplined far too quickly) i would make her run the vibrator along her feet for about 10 seconds (note to lers, there is no rule that says you have to count in logical numerical order. check the book. its not in there. so you can take 2 minutes to count to ten backwards forwards and sideways but don't tell the lees.) it was really fun and we would both laugh. after the first dozen or so times that i did this (yes, i am a sadistic evil bastard, check my stories) i noticed something. even though there had been orgasm denial done before, the orgasms were two to three times more intense. she often thought it possible, if done correctly to actually orgasm from just having ehr feet tickled. she never had that happen to her, but understanding that her feet being tickled was something more than just arousing in general like being tickled on he under arms etc. but that it had a direct effect on her clit made her climaxes much more intense enjoyable etc.
so in this discussion the biggest thing that we should be looking at is the fact that some women have ticklish erogenous zones that can cause orgasm to be not only spontaneous, but extrremely powerful if COUPLED with genital stimulation.
and the whole right brain thing... VERBAL TEASING the crueller it is, the more they like it (in general). it helps.
anyway.
PSA from the 23 year old virgin.