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Tickle orgasm

Thank you Myriads!

Now then, I’m sure I’m not alone in wanting to understand a bit more on how this is accomplished. My wife may be just as capable of achieving orgasm from tickling as any of the ladies here, but perhaps I’m not doing something right.

Is there a particular method your partner uses that differs from “regular” tickling? How does mood enter into it? Does alcohol or other substances help/hinder the experience? Are you and your partner specifically looking for this result, or does it just happen unexpectedly?

I would love to get a few pointers in the right direction. It would be fun to try something new such as this in the bedroom.
 
Look, I'll say this one more time: I don't believe it is scientifically possible to achieve orgasm, for either sex, without pressure or friction of some kind. That's my only point.

I called no one a liar, or challenged anyone's intellect.

I don't have to prove to anyone that I may not be the brightest bulb in the drawer, but that's ok w/ me.
No harm done.

Sorry if I offended any of you who can/have cummed on command.

Now we're back on topic!

I just want some proof to the contrary, anything would be good.
Not random "observation" or "testimonies".

We're talking science here, let's not let our emotions rule our intellect.
 
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Cut the personal insults and cross talk.

Keep to the topic or this entire thread will be vanished, and I'll hand out section bans on every person who commited a GR in the thread.

Myriads


wow, my first mod warning. i am actually a little flattered. i didn't have a speech prepared. lol. but i get the point. i don't know who phoned the mods, and it doesn't matter. i was just stating my position forcefully and i might have crossed the line. if my posts offened anyone i am sorry from the bottom of my heart. I fly off the handle sometime in the midst of my zeal for world domination... i mean expressing my views.

but in all seriousness i am sorry if i offended anyone and i will make sure that in the future i will only comment on topic and go out of my wat to be more appreciative of others point of view and respuctful of their right to have a differeing oppinion. let us not all forget the importance of this venue as a medium of communication. there are those who lived there entire lives in isolation without the privilage of being able to communicate wtih likemined people. sometimes in the fog of personal ego that truth is lost. i for one, commit to show a higher level of respect for this football team, this site, this form, my team mates, and my sometimes opponents in the arena of ideas. i hope that everyone can continue this thread in the most discerning, robust, and respectful way. i look forward to engaging you all in the arena of ideas form the vector of love instead of my own personal vanity.

JJ.
 
wow, my first mod warning. i am actually a little flattered. i didn't have a speech prepared. lol. but i get the point. i don't know who phoned the mods, and it doesn't matter.

Silly.

One does not 'phone' the mod's..

They are.. EVERYWHERE


*omnious*


😉
 
Thank you Myriads!

Now then, I’m sure I’m not alone in wanting to understand a bit more on how this is accomplished. My wife may be just as capable of achieving orgasm from tickling as any of the ladies here, but perhaps I’m not doing something right.

Is there a particular method your partner uses that differs from “regular” tickling? How does mood enter into it? Does alcohol or other substances help/hinder the experience? Are you and your partner specifically looking for this result, or does it just happen unexpectedly?

I would love to get a few pointers in the right direction. It would be fun to try something new such as this in the bedroom.

just in general, most female lees will talk about certain areas where they feel the sensation actually mirrored in their genitals. the arousal is not general because of the act but pointed. the intensity (and ability to climax) varries, but there are still a lot of females with ticklish erogenous zones.

even outside of the tickling world, there is a cross section of women who from toe sucking, nipple play, anal stimulation, sphincter teasing, etc can achieve orgasm. now that climax probably won't be as intense as intercourse with two vibrators while you are pulling their hair, but it is still possible. if you talk to the lee and determine what tickles touches and sensations effect her in a general erotic way or actually produce a hightened sense of pressure, or tingling in the genitals as thouhg actually building to a climax then it may be possible to learn to do it regularly, or even if the orgasm needs a little HELP it is usually much much more intense.

this is shameful, but i had a pen pal once. sometimes, when we were on the phone she would use a vibrator when we were discussion the advantages of supply side economics (yes, that's a joke... when i was telling her all the evil things that i would do to her). anyway, after a while i started (as any young aspiring ler should) making her ask permission to cum. the funny thing is that the act of cumming on command after holding it for so long is not as easy as it sounds. i had to com up with an effective punishment from thousands of miles away.

this particular person had explained that she had an additionally perverse response to foot tickling. in other words fondling her feet produced a heightened sense of arousal and direct tingling on the clit and the lips. make a long story short, if she took too long to cum when given permission (unfortunately she became disciplined far too quickly) i would make her run the vibrator along her feet for about 10 seconds (note to lers, there is no rule that says you have to count in logical numerical order. check the book. its not in there. so you can take 2 minutes to count to ten backwards forwards and sideways but don't tell the lees.) it was really fun and we would both laugh. after the first dozen or so times that i did this (yes, i am a sadistic evil bastard, check my stories) i noticed something. even though there had been orgasm denial done before, the orgasms were two to three times more intense. she often thought it possible, if done correctly to actually orgasm from just having ehr feet tickled. she never had that happen to her, but understanding that her feet being tickled was something more than just arousing in general like being tickled on he under arms etc. but that it had a direct effect on her clit made her climaxes much more intense enjoyable etc.

so in this discussion the biggest thing that we should be looking at is the fact that some women have ticklish erogenous zones that can cause orgasm to be not only spontaneous, but extrremely powerful if COUPLED with genital stimulation.

and the whole right brain thing... VERBAL TEASING the crueller it is, the more they like it (in general). it helps.

anyway.

PSA from the 23 year old virgin.
 
for the record i am not a RAMBLER, i am just longwinded. there is a difference. that is all.

No sir, jj. You're not a rambler, inane or otherwise. But that's what Drew called me.

Poor Drew. Can't admit when he's wrong, so he puffs himself up like a toad trying to scare away his enemies.
 
nostradamas & Sleepy Jean

I made a statement about what should not happen in this thread. Both of you have chosen to ignore it.

I'm giving one more chance because I know some folks simply don't think I mean what I say.

I'd suggest self editing your recent posts of violations before I check back on them tomorrow morning.

STAY on TOPIC. Cut the personal insults, and cross talk. It's not hard.

Myriads
 
I wanted to apologize if I have upset anyone with my post the other day.. I was only trying to point out how this topic has gotten to be off course and mean to eachother... I ment no disrespect to anyone... everyone is entitled to your opnion.. forgive me..

SOrry Myraid if I upset you.. forgive me.. hugssssssssssssss
 
Wow!

I left for about 24 hrs and this has turned into a hot mess!

I will tell you via personal experience, don't make Myriads "go there" because he will!

Now, let's try to get this train wreck back on track!

Orgasm by any method of stimulation is a very personal thing. I need stimulation in addittion to tickling, but that doesn't negate what the other ladies have said. They may be more sensitive and more open in their sexuality which can create some serious sexual experiences with the right person.

I had to be "opened up" in the sexual arena because of my upbringing and lack of open conversation about what it means to be a woman. But baby, I know what it's about now; I know what I like, love, desire, and demand! It helps a gentleman know what to do because sometimes they need some guidance (notice I said guidance and not "help). Once he knows what'll please a woman, he'll be right there doing it (unless you get stuck with my ex). Most men take great pleasure in pleasuring his woman; she just has to let him know what that is because a man wasn't born with a "crystal ball". Talk to him and tell him all your dirty stuff, because he's all ears and willing to do what it takes for your both to enjoy yourselves (within his limititations as well).
 
Wow!

I left for about 24 hrs and this has turned into a hot mess!

I will tell you via personal experience, don't make Myriads "go there" because he will!

Now, let's try to get this train wreck back on track!

Orgasm by any method of stimulation is a very personal thing. I need stimulation in addittion to tickling, but that doesn't negate what the other ladies have said. They may be more sensitive and more open in their sexuality which can create some serious sexual experiences with the right person.

I had to be "opened up" in the sexual arena because of my upbringing and lack of open conversation about what it means to be a woman. But baby, I know what it's about now; I know what I like, love, desire, and demand! It helps a gentleman know what to do because sometimes they need some guidance (notice I said guidance and not "help). Once he knows what'll please a woman, he'll be right there doing it (unless you get stuck with my ex). Most men take great pleasure in pleasuring his woman; she just has to let him know what that is because a man wasn't born with a "crystal ball". Talk to him and tell him all your dirty stuff, because he's all ears and willing to do what it takes for your both to enjoy yourselves (within his limititations as well).

perfect
very good post
 
Interesting

Dear friends,

I was moved to reply because of the subject matter. As I read this post, I was amazed at the personal ranker that erupted. I know, I know, it was their fault not mine...but, I just want to remind all of you, that we share a fetish that affects our lives. In some cases tickling is an intense sexual experience and in others it is a game of domination. And, for some an eternal symbol of comfort and love.

Just as tickling is different to each and every one of us based on our perception, so it is that many people have sexual expression such as orgasm that derives from many different events and perceptions. As an example, in the BDSM culture some women find it easier to orgasm when they are bound, in physical pain, spanked, etc. The same goes for men.

I find it completely plausible that a woman could have an orgasm with no physical stimulation. The reason I believe this is because when I was in college doing my undergraduate work, I had a psychology class and a whole chapter was dedicated to human sexuality – and in that chapter, it was detailed how a woman (does not apply to men) were able to achieve an orgasm by just imagining a sexual experience. In this way the anticipation of tickling, if related to a sexual event could trigger an orgasm.

Bella, I had the opportunity to partake of your wonderful ticklishness some years back at Jan’s in San Jose. I don’t know if you remember, but your enjoyment of the intense tickling is a treasure in my mind to this day!

To all of you, please remember that you are brothers and sisters of tickling, and that it is often best to be civil rather than critical. Constructive criticism welcome – vicious attacks – please find another place to vent such anger.

Warm regards,
Law900
 
I know what I like, love, desire, and demand!
Interesting. I personally would never make sexual demands. Nobody has ever demanded anything from me with regards to sex either. I think I would find it a real buzz killer. This is just my personal opinion, but for me, sex is about giving and receiving, not demanding.
 
Interesting. I personally would never make sexual demands. Nobody has ever demanded anything from me with regards to sex either. I think I would find it a real buzz killer. This is just my personal opinion, but for me, sex is about giving and receiving, not demanding.

Well, for you, maybe demand is a strong word. Let's change it to........require. Yes, there are certain things I require in a sexual relationship and if the requirement isn't met, then it doesn't work for me. I don't require much but I need what I need and it's a very simple thing that the vast majority of men don't mind in a sexual relationship.

It's becoming painfully obvious that there are a a remnant of men around here that still feel that they are the ones in charge in the bedroom. How pre-seventies and/or prehistoric of a mindset is that? Then again, there are probably some women who think it's okay to let the man lead and hope she gets hers in the process. From personal experience, that doesn't work for me anymore and open discussion is paramount to a healthy, successful, and fun sexual relationship.

Oh, and thanks again for taking several paragraphs and picking them apart until you could find something to attempt to hit me with. Good thing that I'm a big girl and can pretty much handle anything anyone around here throws at me.:hipoke:
 
Interesting. I personally would never make sexual demands. Nobody has ever demanded anything from me with regards to sex either. I think I would find it a real buzz killer. This is just my personal opinion, but for me, sex is about giving and receiving, not demanding.

Well, for you, maybe demand is a strong word. Let's change it to........require. Yes, there are certain things I require in a sexual relationship and if the requirement isn't met, then it doesn't work for me. I don't require much but I need what I need and it's a very simple thing that the vast majority of men don't mind in a sexual relationship.

It's becoming painfully obvious that there are a a remnant of men around here that still feel that they are the ones in charge in the bedroom. How pre-seventies and/or prehistoric of a mindset is that? Then again, there are probably some women who think it's okay to let the man lead and hope she gets hers in the process. From personal experience, that doesn't work for me anymore and open discussion is paramount to a healthy, successful, and fun sexual relationship.

Oh, and thanks again for taking several paragraphs and picking them apart until you could find something to attempt to hit me with. Good thing that I'm a big girl and can pretty much handle anything anyone around here throws at me.:hipoke:
 
Damn this thread got heated 😱 I am going to tread carefully so that the Mighty Mighty Myriads doesn't lay the goon hand down...again.

It seems that the issue is several women have experienced an orgasm from tickling and several men don't believe that was possible. How can we reconcile this? We can't. What we can do is proceed forward and find common ground. I for one believe the ladies here have in fact experienced orgasms from tickling. For those that can't even entertain the possibility, let's examine this.

What do we know about tickling? If you're reading this, then you are a member of this forum; therefore you must like tickling. Ok, tickling has a fan base, check. Tickling causes laughter, check. But beyond these two things... What we don't know is why we laugh when tickled. We don't know why some folks are ticklish and some aren't. And we don't why some like being tickled as opposed to most disliking the experience. With all these unknowns, you can't assert with certainty that tickling can't bring orgasms. I mean, that doesn't pass the sniff test. You can't explain why A, B or C happens, but there is no way in Hell D is true :ermm: Come on, that doesn't even sound right.

I take these ladies at their word. It seems sensible to me. The ladies aren't claiming something totally outrageous like "tickling cures AIDS" or "tickling lowers gas prices." Since we don't fully understand why tickling does what it does, it is completely in the realm of possibility that tickling can lead to sexual climax.

Remember my brothas and sistas we are all in the same boat, so be good to each other.

peace and hairgrease
 
Well, for you, maybe demand is a strong word. Let's change it to........require. Yes, there are certain things I require in a sexual relationship and if the requirement isn't met, then it doesn't work for me. I don't require much but I need what I need and it's a very simple thing that the vast majority of men don't mind in a sexual relationship.

It's becoming painfully obvious that there are a a remnant of men around here that still feel that they are the ones in charge in the bedroom. How pre-seventies and/or prehistoric of a mindset is that? Then again, there are probably some women who think it's okay to let the man lead and hope she gets hers in the process. From personal experience, that doesn't work for me anymore and open discussion is paramount to a healthy, successful, and fun sexual relationship.

Excellent! I couldn't have said it better myself. Sex has to be totally fulfilling for both parties or marriage is nothing more than a business deal. I too have requirements and I'm so happy they have (almost) always been met.

Love,
Jean
 
Well, for you, maybe demand is a strong word. Let's change it to........require. Yes, there are certain things I require in a sexual relationship and if the requirement isn't met, then it doesn't work for me. I don't require much but I need what I need and it's a very simple thing that the vast majority of men don't mind in a sexual relationship.
Oh, okay. "Requirements" sounds much more reasonable at least to me than "demands." Thanks for the clarification.

It's becoming painfully obvious that there are a a remnant of men around here that still feel that they are the ones in charge in the bedroom. How pre-seventies and/or prehistoric of a mindset is that? Then again, there are probably some women who think it's okay to let the man lead and hope she gets hers in the process. From personal experience, that doesn't work for me anymore and open discussion is paramount to a healthy, successful, and fun sexual relationship.
I would tend to agree. And to add to to that I dare say there is a remnant of women who believe that their needs supercede those of the men. I'm convinced that healthy relationships are 50/50. The fantastic relationships are those in which both the man and the woman are each more concerned with satisfying their partner than establishing their own requirements.

Oh, and thanks again for taking several paragraphs and picking them apart until you could find something to attempt to hit me with. Good thing that I'm a big girl and can pretty much handle anything anyone around here throws at me.:hipoke:
I confess I've no idea what's meant by "taking several paragraphs and picking them apart". Persecution complex comes easily to some, it seems. But such is not the case at least with my response. I simply quoted that to which I was compelled to respond, same as always. Besides, didn't somebody recently complain about people who quote entire responses instead of honing in on whatever point to they wish to address?
 
Without naming names, there is the usual problem on this thread that goes across the TMF. Namely people decide that their own experience works as a generalisation for everyone elses life, and thus rather than listen and accept other peoples variation of experience, instead they try to beat them down as liars or people who don't know what they are talking about.

So my variation/difference is this. I am male. In any prolonged bout of tickling (with the genitals not being touched, or having friction against anything else) I WILL orgasm. That isn't some schoolboy boast, as I am someone who is into Chastity/Orgasm Denial as a sub-fetish, and prolonged tickling defeats that every time. In my case not good, as unlike (again) the general experience here, I go from very ticklish to immediately totally non-ticklish for a few days afterwards. No doubt some of the more vocal members on this thread will tell me I am mistaken about all this 😎

Hmmm if only our bodies did what we wanted them too. :idontwann
 
. I am male. In any prolonged bout of tickling (with the genitals not being touched, or having friction against anything else) I WILL orgasm.

Interesting. Now we can add another, this time a male, to the "Cum-On-Command" roster.

So how do you do it? Any advice? 😕

I would never leave the house!!!
 
Oh, okay. "Requirements" sounds much more reasonable at least to me than "demands." Thanks for the clarification.

I would tend to agree. And to add to to that I dare say there is a remnant of women who believe that their needs supercede those of the men. I'm convinced that healthy relationships are 50/50. The fantastic relationships are those in which both the man and the woman are each more concerned with satisfying their partner than establishing their own requirements.

I confess I've no idea what's meant by "taking several paragraphs and picking them apart". Persecution complex comes easily to some, it seems. But such is not the case at least with my response. I simply quoted that to which I was compelled to respond, same as always. Besides, didn't somebody recently complain about people who quote entire responses instead of honing in on whatever point to they wish to address?

I'm not a woman who thinks her needs supercede her man; I also don't believe his needs supercede mine either. If we can't create a happy medium, I won't be controlled in a relationship ever again and I'll just as soon live my life alone than to have a man manipulating me in the bedroom.

Persecution complex huh? Well you must be reading Redmage's and Lindyhopppers commentaries lately. No, I have no persecution complex, I just know when someone's trying to get over on me without me catching it. Some actually think I'm void of intelligence because they have PhD's and I don't. A doctorate makes someone more educated, not necessarily smarter! I'm well versed in the language of inbetween-the-lines speak and it looks like you are too!😉

There is a difference between honing in on an ENTIRE point and picking, choosing, and twisting it. And yes, that is what I thought you were attempting. Please excuse me if I misunderstood; must be that terrible thing I have with a persecution complex. Maybe I'll call my therapist..........NOT!:evilha:
 
Without naming names, there is the usual problem on this thread that goes across the TMF. Namely people decide that their own experience works as a generalisation for everyone elses life, and thus rather than listen and accept other peoples variation of experience, instead they try to beat them down as liars or people who don't know what they are talking about.

:bowing::bowing::bowing::bowing:

You, my friend, deserve the gold star! Here is one for you..........:smilestar
 
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