Tickle seduction!

[Clm128]

Hi y'all
I'm just wondering how successful you guys are at finding ticklee's in every day life. From picking up a girl at a bar and bringing her home to tickle all night to that random best friend you convinced to let you tie them up I just wanna know how often your wildest dreams become a reality in everyday life, without paying a model or stripper, and not including a friend you met online who was seeking it! I'm looking forward to hearing wha everyone has to say about this 🙂

 

[rhiannon]

From picking up a girl at a bar and bringing her home to tickle all night

I really really doubt that has ever happened!

 

[Clm128]

Haha just asking, maybe once you got her home you conviced her you never know although I'm sure it dosnt happen often. I guess what Im asking is how do you go about getting a girl to let you tickle her 😉

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I've met girls online who haven't been seeking it and convinced them to try it. Does that count?

 

[Clm128]

Absolutly! How'd u do it?

 

[SpiffyTickler]

Absolutly! How'd u do it?

By being normal? By not having it be the one main singular focus of your interactions with her? By incorporating it naturally into your relationship with her as you get to know her?

 

[Comfort Eagle]

By being normal? By not having it be the one main singular focus of your interactions with her? By incorporating it naturally into your relationship with her as you get to know her?

Actually... by doing the exact opposite. I set up an Ok Cupid profile with the sole intention of finding women interested in tickling and just laid it all out there, wide net theory and all that. Mind you, I made a considerable effort to present myself as someone who wasn't going to tied them up in my trunk and keep them in a bunker, I did still need to present myself as a normal, well adjusted human being, just one that found tickling unnaturally awesome.

I'd imagine 97% of TMF will advise against it, and judging by the way a lot of people here act, for good reason, but if you can find the right balance between "I'm just your average guy" and "I have this unusual little hobby, it's pretty awesome though, why not try it?", it's worth trying.

 

[ticklehound]

The closest I ever got to convince a casual acquaintance to let me tickle her was back in college. Not surprisingly, I was drinking heavily & hanging out at a buddy's house, shooting the shit. He started talking about this girl in our BIO class & wanted to invite her & her roommate over to hang out. I actually knew the roommate from prior classes & actually liked her, so it sounded like a great idea.

He called them up & then put me on the phone with her. In a drunken stupor, I shamelessly flirted with her; surprisingly she didn't hang up. I told her what we were doing & invited them over. Fueled by liquid courage, I just flat out asked her if she was ticklish (she said 'yes') & told her how much I'd like to tickle her. She said something to the effect "Oooh, that might be fun!" - Sadly, when she asked her roommate, we were shut down [to her credit, it was ridiculously late]

Looking back, she may just have been humoring me during a really inappropriate late night call, but for that moment, I felt alive. But I felt the drunk dial burned that bridge; maybe that's why I never pursued it further with her.

So, in short, what was my strategy? Lots of Jim Beam.

 

[daddy]

I really really doubt that has ever happened!

Partially incorrect rhiannon!!! I use to work in nightclubs (musician) and had many females come back to my place for some tickle fun...but it usually lasted only for maybe 20-40 minutes, not all night...LOL

The "all night" part I will agree with you on...doubt anyone would go for that!!! ;-)

peace out,
daddy

 

[TicklingTips]

Yeah occasionally. I've convinced one girl in particular who's not really into it to be tied up and tickled a lot...

I don't think people view it as weirdly as we think they do. I find that when a woman's attracted to you, being tied up and tickled isn't that big a leap from whatever she already wants. For example one girl who I know was attracted to me didn't take much convincing at all to be tied up - and she suggested losing clothes to make herself more ticklish.

 

[rhiannon]

I use to work in nightclubs (musician)

That in itself gives you bonus points already which a 'regular' guy doesn't have! 😀

 

[Libertine]

That in itself gives you bonus points already which a 'regular' guy doesn't have! 😀

I used to be a bouncer in Goth bars and a Dungeon Monitor in various fetish clubs. Ditto, I suppose?

 

[GQguy]

I find that when a woman's attracted to you, being tied up and tickled isn't that big a leap from whatever she already wants. For example one girl who I know was attracted to me didn't take much convincing at all to be tied up - and she suggested losing clothes to make herself more ticklish.

This^^^^

When I was single I used to keep a pair of handcuffs out for people(chics) to find. And women...as snoopy as they are always found them. My one true threesome story this was the theme.

We didn't tickle allnight but the girls were sophomores and best friends and I was a senior....so the tickling and the handcuffs did a great job in easing the tension that both of them were in bed at the same time with one guy. Fun night. My buddies wouldn't believe me the next day till one of the girls handed me the keys to the handcuffs at the football game the next morning in front of all of my fraternity brothers.

I digress....if a woman is attracted to you....taking her home to tickle her isn't all that crazy...now if you left her "hangin" though with no sexual release..well you'd be in trouble then. Women want sex too..

GQ

 

[rhiannon]

Ditto, I suppose?

You bet!

 

[Phineas]

By being normal? By not having it be the one main singular focus of your interactions with her? By incorporating it naturally into your relationship with her as you get to know her?

Actually... by doing the exact opposite. I'd imagine 97% of TMF will advise against it, and judging by the way a lot of people here act, for good reason, but if you can find the right balance between "I'm just your average guy" and "I have this unusual little hobby, it's pretty awesome though, why not try it?", it's worth trying.

There's a time and a place for everything. I've had success with both approaches, TBH. Getting a girl to come back to your place for anything - be it tickling, "coffee" (read: sex) or what-not is all about you making them comfortable and presenting what you'd like to do as desirable and fun. The reason why most people here can't seem to accomplish that is that they either don't treat the woman like a person, or overly fixate on what they want. The first is insulting - the second is creepy.

Want some more concrete hints? Look at how you present yourself. Do you come here and say things like "I encountered a pair of female feet on the subway?" If so, congratulations - you're seeing her as an object, and using creepy terminology to boot. (Boot! That's funny!) Do you get pissy when people suggest that women have boundaries? If so, congratulations - you feel entitled to things that aren't yours. That's creepy.

Tickling is not the problem, if you have a hard time convincing people to do it with you. How you treat them as people is the problem, and you may need to examine that.

And for God's sake, don't come here asking for advice.

 

[BlackestLily]

Actually... by doing the exact opposite. I set up an Ok Cupid profile with the sole intention of finding women interested in tickling and just laid it all out there, wide net theory and all that.

I had to check this out so I logged into Okcupid and typed "Tickle" in the search engine. I'm pretty sure about 1/2 of the TMF showed up.

 

[Wolf]

Oh man, countless amount of girls lol. I've been meaning to post some stories in the true tickling stories section but havnt gotten around to it yet. I was a popular kid I'm high school, girls always came easy to me, especially the slutty ones lol and it was definitely easy hang out and tickle them. Sometimes I'd use the 'massage' trick, or sometimes I'd just be drunk after a party and just basically have her put my feet in my lap. Some of the stories I can share sound so ridiculously outrageous of how easy it was, but it's quite simple. Attractive, in shape, popular: girls love you and I was always able to get my way >🙂

Dude, don't be so down on yourself.
I'm sure you'd have a lot better luck with just a little self-confidence.

 

[Wolf]

lol, was just sayin. Oh and wearing the marine corp uniform, always a plus.

Yeah, I have no doubt of that. Especially the Dress Blues. Probably the sharpest out there.

Anyway, I think the point the rest are trying to make to the OP is that you don't have to be superfantasticallyawesome to get what you're looking for, and that a LOT of so-called "vanilla" girls are a lot more receptive to tickling than is probably realized.

 

[Clm128]

haha i love it. im always so nervous around new girls that i dont know how to bring it up. i hate just acting like i dont want it and tickling them every now and then in a tickle fight or what not cuz then im worried ill just become the wierd guy thats always trying to tickle them but at the same time im always worried if i tell them straight up they'll be creeped out. i just recently opened up to my g/f and she was actually receptive to it although she hates being tickled. we worked it out so that ill do things for her, like buy her smokes or take her dogs out (we live in a four story appartment) in exchange for alittle tickle time and it works out great. the best part is i would have done these things before but now i get alittle something out of it 🙂

one of the reasons why i started this thread though is because every time i go out to a club or anything im looking at girls wanting to be tickling them, cant help it. not saying i dont wanna do anything else but i cant help but wonder so i wanted to know what kind of succsess others have had. sounds like its not as bad as i thought 🙂

 

[TicklingTips]

I normally just tell girls I'm attracted to that I want to tickle them, or that they'd be fun to tickle, or similar...they usually think its cute.

 

[rhiannon]

Especially the Dress Blues

They work on everybody!

 

[GQguy]

lol, was just sayin. Oh and wearing the marine corp uniform, always a plus.

All about the flight suit. Just sayyin ;o)

GQ