i guess i want to vent a little i have posted personnels on TC AND TT AND ALSO HERE looking for some tickling fun with a woman in the chicago area and i guess my question is why would a woman reply with come tickle me or please lets talk i love being tickled and then when you respond to there message you never get a reply back are they just playing games with people if so better for them to not reply at all unless they are serious it just gets nerve racking sometimes.
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why do women reply to someone and never follow it thru
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There are so many potential answers to this question. Sometimes you run into the issue of men who are pretending to be women, responding just so they can get a rise out of watching horny males fall all over each other, vying for their affection. As far as legitimate females go, nerves probably play a big issue. It can be pretty easy to sit behind a keyboard and tell someone how badly you'd like to play, but following through and making it a reality can be a scary concept. The men of the forum also need to remember that, sometimes, their own overzealousness can create an uncomfortable situation for a potential partner. In other words, be careful what it is you say in your follow-up messages. Even an unintentional spooking can kill what previously looked like a good connection.
I've had this happen to me with private messages. I think what it is that every girl on here gets so bombarded with messages, including both private messages, pen pals, and personals, that they get bogged down, and don't get back to a person if they reply to them at first.
I dont know if others have experienced this, but this has been my experience.
Mitch
I dont know if others have experienced this, but this has been my experience.
Mitch
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I would venture that some women get scared off or weirded out or just simply change their mind.
I could not imagine making plans to get together for a tickle session with a complete stranger who I had just met on the internet.
Maybe some of them want to have a bit of online fun, but it ends up being not quite what they imagined or too intense for their liking.
When you respond to them, either take it slow with the tickle talk, or be upfront from the start about how intense you want the chat to be.
But all you can really do is just keep trying until you find someone on the same wave length as you. I can understand that it may be frustrating, but it is as much their right to stop as it is for you to continue to fish.
Funny, I am female and have had a few similar instances. I was pm ing with a few people, and once the talk started getting sexy, they stopped messaging me! 🙁 lol
I could not imagine making plans to get together for a tickle session with a complete stranger who I had just met on the internet.
Maybe some of them want to have a bit of online fun, but it ends up being not quite what they imagined or too intense for their liking.
When you respond to them, either take it slow with the tickle talk, or be upfront from the start about how intense you want the chat to be.
But all you can really do is just keep trying until you find someone on the same wave length as you. I can understand that it may be frustrating, but it is as much their right to stop as it is for you to continue to fish.
Funny, I am female and have had a few similar instances. I was pm ing with a few people, and once the talk started getting sexy, they stopped messaging me! 🙁 lol
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Simple answer....most of them are fakes!
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That they are fakes never occured to me. I am, however, new to internet forums. What would someone get out of faking something like that, assuming the interaction is very brief, and stopped almost before it started? That is the impression I got from tkltease.
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Youll learn over time. ive been online and dealt with this crap for 13 years. if i had a nickel for every guy that pretended to be a woman that ive encountered online, id be wealthy right now.
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Some of them might get cold feet, or just be teasing bitchs. Others may not be women at all and are just messing with you.
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I can totally relate to that one! Don't worry I'm not a guy. I met with a guy on here and it was great, but he tried to get to know me first. We had long conversations on aim. We asked each other questions and didn't always talk about tickling. Those are the guys I like on here. I like the guys that try to talk to me and get to know me first. The guys I don't like are the ones that are extremely forward to me right at the start. Their first message goes along these lines, "You're hot I want to tie you down and tickle you for hours." "Lets meet up baby and I'll have you howling with laughter." I'm just not a fan of that. Here are the messages I like, "Hey there I think you're beautiful and you seem like a wonderful person." "I would like to get to know more about you." "Do you use aim or yahoo?" When a guy writes me like this I feel more comfortable talking to him. He doesn't sound like a desperate horny ler that hasn't had a female lee in a very long time. I hope this helps.
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If they are real women, free to play without a husband/lover that cracks coconuts with his biceps, then it all boil down to your seducing skills.
Seducing a woman is an art. To master it like to play the violin takes not only talent but lot of practice. At the beginning when a man try to seduce a woman into let him play a melody with her body (like a laughing melody from tickling) it looks like an orangutan trying to play a violin.
We all dream sometimes of women that could be like CD players, plug the CD and perfect music come out the machine. Unfortunately women are more like musical instruments, unless you are a master, no music.
It can be argued that hookers are a bit like CD players....but that for another thread.
So keep practicing. And be patient.
I mean besides peoples schedules probably being a factor with replying, I really don't know. I DO know however that some people can be a bit "over the top" with their msgs. I should know since I receive quite a few that are rather uncalled for. And what gets me is that I'm not really advocating that type of attention, especially not for myself. So usually if I receive a msg from someone that I think has stepped over the line, I just won't reply. I'm being honest simply because it doesn't hurt to be respectful you know.
Yes for the most part we are all here on tmf with the same or similar interests, and I adore making friends and meeting new people, however once again, if I receive PM's from ppl who just go overboard in their thought process and express that to me in a non appropriate manner, then yep! you probably won't hear back from me.
Yes for the most part we are all here on tmf with the same or similar interests, and I adore making friends and meeting new people, however once again, if I receive PM's from ppl who just go overboard in their thought process and express that to me in a non appropriate manner, then yep! you probably won't hear back from me.
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Why do some people say they will come look at a room in my apartment after seeing a Craigslist ad, then never show? The internet's anonymity enables people who are flaky to have little to no guilt about it.
That, combined with what others said. And there's no law saying once you PM someone once, you have to continue to explore the relationship.
That, combined with what others said. And there's no law saying once you PM someone once, you have to continue to explore the relationship.
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Because they are all actually men.
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Exactly...
Exactly. In general, I assume any "woman" I'm talking to online is an 81-year-old horny dude high on a cocktail of Cialis and Viagra...until I know differently, of course. 🙂
Exactly. In general, I assume any "woman" I'm talking to online is an 81-year-old horny dude high on a cocktail of Cialis and Viagra...until I know differently, of course. 🙂
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While it may be a generalisation that men are visual and women are verbal, there's a certain validity to the observation. The way you present yourself online is extremely important because this is a woman's initial view of you. In the days when I'd respond to personal ads I always made sure I wrote a sufficiently interesting, well-presented reply to indicate I'd genuinely made an effort to appeal. Sometimes it worked, and a good time was had by all concerned...
If, upon opening her inbox, a girl's confronted with poor spelling and grammar, lack of punctuation and rambling, run-on sentences, she may well assume that your lack of expertise in the English language will also be equalled by lack of expertise in the bedroom.
And if a "woman's" initial reply contains the phrase, "Come over and tickle me", before you've even spoken on the phone, the two of you share a Y-chromosome.
Mind the beard rash.
While it may be a generalisation that men are visual and women are verbal, there's a certain validity to the observation. The way you present yourself online is extremely important because this is a woman's initial view of you. In the days when I'd respond to personal ads I always made sure I wrote a sufficiently interesting, well-presented reply to indicate I'd genuinely made an effort to appeal. Sometimes it worked, and a good time was had by all concerned...
If, upon opening her inbox, a girl's confronted with poor spelling and grammar, lack of punctuation and rambling, run-on sentences, she may well assume that your lack of expertise in the English language will also be equalled by lack of expertise in the bedroom.
And if a "woman's" initial reply contains the phrase, "Come over and tickle me", before you've even spoken on the phone, the two of you share a Y-chromosome.
Mind the beard rash.
very well said and wisely put.
behave yourself and try to find to about someone before you go all apeshit over then. ladies like to be treated like LADIES. not your personal toys. get to know them. take them out to dinner, maybe buy them flowers. tell them a joke and make them smile and feel special.
well my replies have always been very nice just asking to chat and find out more about eachother and still no replies back
yes i am in my 40's and only try to chat with more mature women close to my age not into teenie boppers.
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i've had that happen, i think it's because they get attacked with 100's of messages they just give up
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Basically treat the lady like you would anyone else and don't act like a sex crazed teen. Yes we know mom's basement is lonely, but still no reason to act that way.
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holy shit, this. QFfuckingT.
