Forplay... whats the rush?

[SlaverTickler]

I don't understand why I hear about women who complain that guys don't take enough time with the prep work before the finnish. Whats the problem brothers, do you have something better to do then take the time to ensure your woman is happy in bed. Is that big Golf game you went to in the morning that wearing on you? They say that a woman needs at least 15 minuets of forplay before the main event. 15 minuets is nothing. I'm not even warmed up then. I don't see what the problem is with spending a few hours playing with each other before getting down to it.

I know some guys will agree, and some might not, what say ye, man or mouse?

 

[venray]

I must agree with you here.....

Some of the best times occur when the playing goes on all day.....😎

 

[Saeria]

foreplay is good, but fiveplay is always so overlooked 😀

 

[SlaverTickler]

I must agree with you here.....

Some of the best times occur when the playing goes on all day.....😎

And when it involves bondage and a remote controle vibraiting egg woo hoo.

But honestly I don't see what the big deal is. Of course I am posting this on a tickling fetish site, so I might be preaching to like minded people to begin with. I just don't understand why someone wouldn't want to take the time to caress and cuddle, I like to touch EVERYTHING, so I just don't get why my fellow males would want to rush.

Saeria: Baby I do 10 play, so go back to school.

 

[venray]

It drives my wife crazy when I touch her and tease her during the day, but don't allow her to touch back.....

Later it is like unleashing a tiger.....😀

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Erm. I guess this was a thread for the guys?

But I dun care. 😉


I HEART FOREPLAY.



The initial buildup ... it makes for one mindblowing fuck... Phew.. 😎

 

[venray]

The initial buildup ... it makes for one mindblowing fuck... Phew.. 😎

I must concur......

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Congrats on the new feather. 😉


.........Ok back to Foreplay.

Yes, I have had many good experiences with it, and have been with lovers who didn't really like it. Don't get me wrong, It's not always necessary sometimes people are fully capable of rushing into sex, and it being AMAZING.. but being able to play with a persons body and mind beforehand.. It's just.. Mind Blowing. 😉

 

[CurtWild]

why bother? it's not like the ladies don't already love the 10 seconds of ecstasy they already receive

 

[venray]

Maybe the ladies YOU hang with.....

 

[EBunbury]

That's a great thing about sex; however you do it, it can still be great. Sometimes it's fun to spend all day lounging and cuddling in bed, making love every so often. An elaborate few hours of teasing, on-the-edge foreplay is great. Then again, so is that fast fuck in the morning before work, or the quickie in the elevator when you just can't wait to get to the hotel room. As long as you're both on the same wavelength, it's all good.

🙂 E. Bunbury

 

[SlaverTickler]

...It's not always necessary sometimes people are fully capable of rushing into sex, and it being AMAZING...[/FONT]

If your looking for just a dirty fuck when you walk through the door a hard an fast one on the kitchen floor can be fun, but in general I would think women prefer a little time to be put it. I like to be teased, and I like to do the teasing as well, and I think I am pretty good at it.

 

[Strider]

I'm a pretty big fan of it for the most part.

 

[RobAce]

OK, so no one is going to take the opposite side here and "downplay" fore (five, six, seven) play. Ok.....leave it to me then.

First a disclaimer...
*I AM NOT SPEAKING OF ANY ONE IN GENERAL. MERELY STATING SOME FACTS ABOUT THE SUBJECT. I AM NOT ATTEMPTING TO "PUT DOWN" ANYONE, SO DO NOT LASH OUT AT ME IF YOU DO NOT LIKE WHAT I SAY*
second disclaimer
*SOME OF THE THINGS I SAY WILL BE A LITTLE NASTY! IF YOUR NOT USED TO ME TALKING LIKE THIS, PLEASE AVERT YOUR EYES OR AT LEAST TAKE A DEEP BREATH OR TWO BEFORE READING*

Alrighty then, let me continue.

Foreplay is fine. But honestly many women I have been with like it, but not more than 10 minutes worth. They would rather have 2 hours of actual sex, then 45 minutes of foreplay then a 15 minute romp. I mean why get them all worked up, only to be done with half the gusto used in foreplay.
Some men can not last more than the 2-5 minutes of sex, or some do not have the "instrument" to give orgasm after orgasm without the use of "pre-stimulation".
I for one do not use a lot of foreplay, 5 to 10 minutes tops. Why? Foreplay for me might lead to tickling and if it does....then I fall into that 2-5 minutes because I aroused myself during that foreplay period as well. If I do not have any tickling foreplay and I limit the length of regular foreplay, then I have no issue lasting the 2 hours necessary to make my lady never want long foreplay again. This has been my experience. The ladies I have been with have told me point blank, they would rather have the long sex than the long foreplay.
Don't get me wrong, some foreplay is NEEDED. After all its hurts an awful lot trying to insert into a woman that has not gotten a little hot and wet. I'm a little larger than normal (especially for my height) so without some foreplay I have injured myself more than once when the woman just wanted to "get at it" without any foreplay.
Now can I make a woman orgasm without having sex? Of course, I mean as long as know her, and her body anyone should be able to give a multiple orgasms everytime. In fact when I first had sex with my now ex-wife she told me I was the first to give her multiple orgasms...(fortunately for me I hear that a lot)...and even now that we have split up she has once or twice told me that is the part she does miss of me...the sex.
Basically, to me, when it comes to foreplay....there is only so long you can play nintendo with nipples, caress body hollows and play human lollipop. If you want to have great sex, have great sex. You want great foreplay, have great foreplay.
And please, lets not get into the "Well I can have 2 hours of foreplay and then 2 hours of sex."
Granted there have been times where I have been able to have foreplay, orgasm in the middle of it, continue foreplay for another 30 minutes until Im ready to go again...and then have a long 2 hours of sex...but come on, we need sleep and have other things to do (especially if you have children) you can not always devote 4 hours to sex. So I compromise and do what ever she feels like that evening. As long as I get some fun the next time.

Can someone say footjob!

I can.

Rob

 

[Deleted member 66627]

My meaningless post of the day.

Can someone say footjob!

Footjob! 😎

 

[venray]

I COULD say it...but I am not gonna....

 

[SlaverTickler]

OK, so no one is going to take the opposite side here and "downplay" fore (five, six, seven) play. Ok.....leave it to me then.

First a disclaimer...
*I AM NOT SPEAKING OF ANY ONE IN GENERAL. MERELY STATING SOME FACTS ABOUT THE SUBJECT. I AM NOT ATTEMPTING TO "PUT DOWN" ANYONE, SO DO NOT LASH OUT AT ME IF YOU DO NOT LIKE WHAT I SAY*
second disclaimer
*SOME OF THE THINGS I SAY WILL BE A LITTLE NASTY! IF YOUR NOT USED TO ME TALKING LIKE THIS, PLEASE AVERT YOUR EYES OR AT LEAST TAKE A DEEP BREATH OR TWO BEFORE READING*

Alrighty then, let me continue.

Foreplay is fine. But honestly many women I have been with like it, but not more than 10 minutes worth. They would rather have 2 hours of actual sex, then 45 minutes of foreplay then a 15 minute romp. I mean why get them all worked up, only to be done with half the gusto used in foreplay.
Some men can not last more than the 2-5 minutes of sex, or some do not have the "instrument" to give orgasm after orgasm without the use of "pre-stimulation".
I for one do not use a lot of foreplay, 5 to 10 minutes tops. Why? Foreplay for me might lead to tickling and if it does....then I fall into that 2-5 minutes because I aroused myself during that foreplay period as well. If I do not have any tickling foreplay and I limit the length of regular foreplay, then I have no issue lasting the 2 hours necessary to make my lady never want long foreplay again. This has been my experience. The ladies I have been with have told me point blank, they would rather have the long sex than the long foreplay.
Don't get me wrong, some foreplay is NEEDED. After all its hurts an awful lot trying to insert into a woman that has not gotten a little hot and wet. I'm a little larger than normal (especially for my height) so without some foreplay I have injured myself more than once when the woman just wanted to "get at it" without any foreplay.
Now can I make a woman orgasm without having sex? Of course, I mean as long as know her, and her body anyone should be able to give a multiple orgasms everytime. In fact when I first had sex with my now ex-wife she told me I was the first to give her multiple orgasms...(fortunately for me I hear that a lot)...and even now that we have split up she has once or twice told me that is the part she does miss of me...the sex.
Basically, to me, when it comes to foreplay....there is only so long you can play nintendo with nipples, caress body hollows and play human lollipop. If you want to have great sex, have great sex. You want great foreplay, have great foreplay.
And please, lets not get into the "Well I can have 2 hours of foreplay and then 2 hours of sex."
Granted there have been times where I have been able to have foreplay, orgasm in the middle of it, continue foreplay for another 30 minutes until Im ready to go again...and then have a long 2 hours of sex...but come on, we need sleep and have other things to do (especially if you have children) you can not always devote 4 hours to sex. So I compromise and do what ever she feels like that evening. As long as I get some fun the next time.

Can someone say footjob!

I can.

Rob

Well I'll just say a few things (with out trying to run you down Ace). First of all alot of women don't climax from intercores, some of them climax from clitoral stimulation. Secondly some women enjoy being made to feel special, and taking the time to stimulate all part of their body during sex is one of those things. Thridly, the sencitive parts of the vagina are all only 2 inches inside, so if a guy is physicaly fit, and has a penis that is longer then 2" his equipment is capable of making a woman climax that way, if she is climaxs from that sort of stimulation.

I'd rather have a Blow Job then a foot job.

 

[OmahaLerLee]

seriously folks,

rushed love making is rude unless it's in a public place you need to take as little time as possible (i.e.-museums, zoos, bar restrooms, church, etc.).

 

[Lord Doctor]

A lot of it depends on the woman you're with. Some, for whatever reason, hate foreplay and just want sex.

Some love foreplay, and can't - or won't - have sex without it. Certainly not comfortably. Natural lubrication takes a little time, you know.

I suppose jumping right into sex is for drunken one night stands or casual sex...

Foreplay is for lovers, people with a serious, real connection between them (other than being attached to the 11 dimensional membrane!)

 

[RobAce]

First of all alot of women don't climax from intercores, some of them climax from clitoral stimulation.

I would of course prefer women's input on this, but of the many women (yes Ill say it...I'm Robace and I used to be a male slut. NO COMMENTS VENRAY!) I have been with there were maybe 2 or 3 that were that way. And even those after a while were able to, but I will agree liked the stimulation as much as or more than sex.

Secondly some women enjoy being made to feel special, and taking the time to stimulate all part of their body during sex is one of those things.

Yes some women. Some women also think that sex is more important than the foreplay. Some women enjoy the time and lovemaking during sex. When I speak of sex the entire time is not spent "humping". It is spent changing positions, caressing, exploring the body all while having sex. On the whole the women I have been with seem to enjoy that more. Not saying all women are that way or that other's experiences are similar to mine. Everyone has their own niche...when you find something that works I say stick with it. (Pun intended)

Thridly, the sencitive parts of the vagina are all only 2 inches inside, so if a guy is physicaly fit, and has a penis that is longer then 2" his equipment is capable of making a woman climax that way, if she is climaxs from that sort of stimulation.

Yes and some women do, and some women don't. In my experiences most (with a very few exceptions) women climax from that form of stimulation.
Basically all I am saying is that while foreplay is important, to me it is only a pre-text to the actual lovemaking. I am not saying that its a slam-bam-thank you-maam kind of thing with me...but while I enjoy a good foreplay and cuddle session, by the time 5 to 10 minutes have lapsed in my experiences the women were ready for sex. And then in other encounters, they almost want to pass up the foreplay altogether and get right to it. Men are not alone in just wanting the sex. Women are as sexually demanding and know what they want just as much as us guys do. After all who knows their bodies more than they do.

I'd rather have a Blow Job then a foot job.

To each their own.

Rob

 

[venray]

(yes Ill say it...I'm Robace and I used to be a male slut. NO COMMENTS VENRAY!)

Rob

No comment..............😛

 

[spicytickler]

If your looking for just a dirty fuck when you walk through the door a hard an fast one on the kitchen floor can be fun, but in general I would think women prefer a little time to be put it. I like to be teased, and I like to do the teasing as well, and I think I am pretty good at it.

bingo, tease me baby tease me....all day all night, it is all in the tease.

 

[LindyHopper]

Basically all I am saying is that while foreplay is important, to me it is only a pre-text to the actual lovemaking.

It's that way for me sometimes, especially when I know I'm really going to enjoy the lovemaking. But many times, I've found that having a session of foreplay alone, which is required to stop short of sex, creates a very different and uniquely fulfilling experience.*

If you know that sex isn't on the table (or on the floor, or on the bed 😉 ), you focus more on your partner's enjoyment, rather than being distracted by your own. You don't rush to the finish, because there's no "goal." Instead, you enjoy all the kissing, cuddling, fondling, and caressing for its own sake.

I even had a recent experience that was quite unusual for me, when a paid foot session turned into a gentle and sensual caress of my entire body... intimate areas excluded. Crossing that line would have been... well, probably illegal, and certainly inappropriate, so I knew it wasn't going to happen. That made absorbing the pleasure of those caresses, grazing ever-so-gradually closer to places they could not stray, all the more torturously arousing. I know it sounds absurd, but it became almost meditative for me, as a became more aware of my breath, and his, and my connection to him through touch. I'm generally a big fan of orgasms, but I can still appreciate how not being able to have one made for a very cool experience.

*This is, of course, my opinion. Naturally, the "he" in question might feel quite differently.

 

[asutickler]

Foreplay... That's where she gets a drink for me first, right?


(KIDDING!!!)

(Sort of.) 😛 😉

 

[Tickleslave83]

Ideal foreplay is to tie her up and tickle her teasingly over every inch of her body for 15-20 minutes then allow her to do the same to me for an hour or more then when I'm exhausted from overtickle she has her way with me as long as she likes!