Girls who hate being tickled!

[primetime]

this "incident" is probably a fantasy, but for the sake of argument, let's pretend it's true. after reading goodtickler's initial post, what he done might have been okay.

before you all throw stones at me, read what i have to say first. the first thing he mentioned is that these girls are his "closest" friends. which means, they have a good relationship. good enough to allow him to sleep over their house. now, let's say goodtickler's friends are in the BDSM scene and they know all about his foot fetish. it is quite possible they let him kiss their feet, suck their toes, etc. i dont think he means ANYTHING he wants, but he is allowed to indulge in his foot fetish with them.

now, if he is telling the truth, and they let him kiss their feet when they are sleep as long as he doesnt wake them, what he did isnt wrong if he licks and kisses their feet. again, IF HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH, then kissing their feet is okay because they gave him consent to indulge in his fetish.

the problem is the tickling part. he says they hate to be tickled. but nowhere did he say they will end their friendship with him if he tickles them. he has tickled them before, briefly, but he has and he is still close with these friends. it is not like he ties them down, grabs a bunch of feathers and tickles them for hours at a time. judging from his post, he is tickling them to get a reaction, not an all out torture tickling, but probably a stroke here and there to get a reaction.

what we all should think about is, just how much do they hate tickling? i mean, do they hate it to the point they will rip his nuts off? or they just dont like to be tickled, but they will still be his friends. they know he likes to tickle and they still allow this guy to hang around them. nowhere in his posts did he say they told him that if he tickles them again, he can no longer be their friend. to me, it sounds like these girls do not like to be tickled, but they dont hate the guy for trying. that is the BIG DIFFERENCE.

i have a friend that i am real close to. she isnt a big fan of tickling and is extremely ticklish. she knows i like to tickle and when she has slept over, i have tickled her feet as well as kiss her feet or suck her toes while she slept. she likes the worshipping part, but the tickling she can do without. she has told me she doesnt like tickling, but yet, allows me to tickle her quickly. am i violating her? will she press charges against me? no. i tickle her for reactionary purposes, but i "make up" for it by kissing her feet. this has been going on for almost 3 years.

so, this scenario is entirely possible. it is entirely possible that this guy is doing nothing to violate them. it all depends on what he means by they "hate" tickling. is it a traumatic hate or is it a "we rather not be tickled" hate? that is what needs to be determined before you criticize the guy for doing what he does. we dont know all the specific details. but if they repeatedly warned the guy to never tickle them again, or their friendship is over, then what he did is wrong.

just another point of view....

 

[Duane2k]

dude... dude... dude.

no.

tickling is ok, i mean i think anything nonconsentual is more or less sexual harrassment in a sense, but kissing and licking?

maybe you should just find someone else out there who's down with that... i'd hate to be you if they woke up...

But as primetime said...

this "incident" is probably a fantasy, but for the sake of argument, let's pretend it's true.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

I agree with what Primetime said basically. I think that if they don't want to be tickled, then don't tickle their feet even in their sleep! If they like the kissing and licking of their feet then that's okay. Since one of them seemed to speak for both of them and said don't tickle them, then just respect that.


Maybe you should find another friend who's a girl who actually enjoys being tickled. Just a suggestion.

 

[maniactickler]

I personally have no interest in tickling women who hate it. if you really need to get the tickling out of your system, my advice is somehow get then tied up, tickle the shit out of them for hours, then if need be, find some new friends.

 

[LD_Tickler]

You know what shocks me more than this bogus story (which I don't believe at all)?

How many people have replied saying "Woah man... tickling their feet is ok... but licking them? Too far!"

That's absurd. They're asleep. Doing anything to them while they're asleep is perverted. Tickling their feet while they're asleep is perverted. Perhaps if you're 12 years old and are doing it just to bother your sister and her friends as a little joke, that's another story.

Sexually gratifying yourself on unknowing, sleeping girls is perverted and wrong, whether you're doing it with your fingers or your tongue.

Furthermore, let's just assume this story is true. They know about your fetish and let you kiss and tickle their feet. Did they say you could do it when they're sleeping, when they're unaware and unconscious? No, they bloody well didn't.

I don't care what you think about, I don't care what you secretly desire. Anyone who advocates thought control is a fool in my mind. However, for crying out loud, show some damn restraint. NO part of this story is acceptable, not even the "just tickling" part.

 

[Mitchell]

Goodtickler, when I replied to this thread, I was replying to the version you had posted at first, not what you really were trying to say, and clarified later in the thread. Now that I know all the facts, let me post my full and modified view of this situation.
Honestly, you dont have it half bad. I love tickling, of course, however, if I had female friends who would willingly let me do things to their feet when they were awake, even if not tickling, I would do so, and would never engage in the acts when they were assleep. Additionally, you mentioned about them hating to be tickled. I get that. Apparently, they are mainstream girls who dont like tickling. My advice in this situation is to stay within the limits that make them comfortable, engage in the foot worship when they are awake, dont tickle, and find another girl, like a serious girlfriend, to do the tickling, and or foot things to when they are assleep. You are hardly in a bad situation here.
So, have fun with them with whatever you can get out of it, and Good Luck finding a willing lee. As a guy who loves foot worship, I'd trade places with you in a minute, and if the girl in question was just a friend who didnt like to be tickled, I would simply seek another female friend, or try to find a willing girlfriend, who did.

Mitch

 

[BellaRisa]

You know what shocks me more than this bogus story (which I don't believe at all)?

How many people have replied saying "Woah man... tickling their feet is ok... but licking them? Too far!"

That's absurd. They're asleep. Doing anything to them while they're asleep is perverted. Tickling their feet while they're asleep is perverted. Perhaps if you're 12 years old and are doing it just to bother your sister and her friends as a little joke, that's another story.

Sexually gratifying yourself on unknowing, sleeping girls is perverted and wrong, whether you're doing it with your fingers or your tongue.

Furthermore, let's just assume this story is true. They know about your fetish and let you kiss and tickle their feet. Did they say you could do it when they're sleeping, when they're unaware and unconscious? No, they bloody well didn't.

I don't care what you think about, I don't care what you secretly desire. Anyone who advocates thought control is a fool in my mind. However, for crying out loud, show some damn restraint. NO part of this story is acceptable, not even the "just tickling" part.

I quoted this entire post because I agree with it so strongly. Why are there so many folks around here who have no home training?? Stop touching people just 'cause you feel like it, will ya? Geez. When did mothers stop teaching respect for other people?

I absolutely adore having my hair brushed, it even turns me on a little because it feels so sensual. Anybody I find brushing my hair while I'm SLEEPING is looking for a fat lip unless I'm wearing their ring or their collar, and even then we'd have a serious talk. And if you'll lick or kiss my feet-or ANY of me-while I'm unconscious, what the hell else might you want to try while I'm out of it?? I promise you, that's what your average vanilla girl would think. And good for her.

I'm assuming the story is baloney, but I also know how many thoughtless little footpests are reading this and thinking about it. Fellas, don't. Even the nicest girl will feel violated, and probably kick your teeth up into your eyeballs out of sheer reflex due to the very ticklishness you love so much. I repeat, DON'T.

Bella

 

[asutickler]

Bella and LD are both right.

The actions described in the initial post are creepy, pathetic and flat-out wrong. Violating someone without their knowledge does not make it right. Violating someone in a way which YOU think is harmless does not make it right. I would have thought such things were patently obvious...

 

[SlaverTickler]

Let me say this...

I love women, I love to kiss them, I love to Caress them, I love to tickle them. But I would never think to cop a feel off of any female (specialy not a close friend) when she was asleep. It is wrong, I don't care what any of you say about storys this, or fetish that, taking advantage of someone sexualy while they are asleep is wrong. How would you feel if you crashed at a buddies place, and woke up face down with a sore ass. Your "friend" is having a smoke and ask's "Was it good for you?", I don't think you'd like that very much. Anybody who would do this type of thing is nothing but a coward.

Eddie Guerrero would not aprove!

 

[steph]

I quoted this entire post because I agree with it so strongly. Why are there so many folks around here who have no home training?? Stop touching people just 'cause you feel like it, will ya? Geez. When did mothers stop teaching respect for other people?

I absolutely adore having my hair brushed, it even turns me on a little because it feels so sensual. Anybody I find brushing my hair while I'm SLEEPING is looking for a fat lip unless I'm wearing their ring or their collar, and even then we'd have a serious talk. And if you'll lick or kiss my feet-or ANY of me-while I'm unconscious, what the hell else might you want to try while I'm out of it?? I promise you, that's what your average vanilla girl would think. And good for her.

I'm assuming the story is baloney, but I also know how many thoughtless little footpests are reading this and thinking about it. Fellas, don't. Even the nicest girl will feel violated, and probably kick your teeth up into your eyeballs out of sheer reflex due to the very ticklishness you love so much. I repeat, DON'T.

Bella

 

[darkscar]

Never take advanage of a women when they are sleeping. I may like feet and i may like tickling them, but I respect women more, and i dont let any fetish stand in the way of respect.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

If you so much as touch me while I'm sleeping, you will get hurt...

 

[sarahgetswet]

Uh, yeah. If I was one of these girls and if I found out someone was doing this to me, it'd take every ounce of willpower to not punch him in the mouth. Just because the part is there doesn't mean anyone has free right to touch it and just because I'm unconscious, that doesn't give you free right either. This is also just my opinion and my opinion is that you really shouldn't fucking violate people, no matter how you're touching them or if they're sleeping or not. Goddamn.

I dont think you should even try to resist puching him. Lots of us FANTASISE about nc tickling or even NC sex but in the REAL world NO MEANS NO.

 

[Edge]

My friend the foot pimp (huge foot fetish, no tickling fetish) does stuff to girls feet when they are asleep...or passed out from being drunk etc...
I know it's "wrong" but I guess it's a temptation situation. He loses to temptation.

 

[sole seeker]

Sheeee-it! I must be in the wrong place...

I thought this was the "flame-free forum"

 

[Mona Liza]

If they hate being tickled then you need to respect that and to leave them alone. It is rude and unpolite to them. I am absolutely shore that you can find someone who enjoy that.

My boyfriend, for example, can stand being tickled and I am really trying not to do that. I think if someone is very close to you (you say that they are your best friends) than his/her happiness is much more important than yours.

 

[Mastertank1]

Bottom line for me...

If SHE does not enjoy HAVING IT DONE to her, then I do not enjoy doing it to her!!
There's no pleasure for me if there's no pleasure for her.
Asleep, drunk, drugged, all eliminate the possibility of meaningful consent, and therefore one must behave as though one asked and was told no, and respect that, unless one is a total, unredeemed creepazoid.

If your gonna do someone whose so asleep they don't wake up when you tickle them, go buy an inflatadoll with a heating element and leave real live women alone!

I will fantasize and roleplay NC scenes, and write them, but for real NC? NO WAY IN HELL!!!!!!! 😎

Mastertank1

We who play and dance are thought mad by they who hear no music.

 

[TicklishSinner]

this whole thread seems like one made purposly to get people riles up

 

[2ticklish4eva]

theres no point

people people people !!!!!!!!!!!!!

theres no point in this thread AT ALL!
can you really see goodtickler stopping this horrible disgusting habit
NO!
then why the fuck are we wasteing are time on this low life
he obviously doesnt respect his mates and it also seems like he doesnt respect women to
GET THIS THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULL GOODTICKLER!!!
US WOMEN ARENT HERE FOR YOU MEN JUST TO PLAY WITH WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE IT
espically in are sleep
FOR GODS SAKE!!!!!!!!
if i was your friend and i found out
well youd have to put on a lot of foundation to get rid of that black eye

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

 

[drew70]

this whole thread seems like one made purposly to get people riles up

And boy is it ever working.

 

[Oddjob0226]

On the other hand, if they are his freinds, maybe they'd be a little more understanding than a cyber room full of strangers if he gets caught. What do you people do when you guys draw musatches on people when they sleep, or put ketchup in their hair - amputation? Apprently, my friends are much nicer people that I realized. I should realy take them out to dinner.

 

[CurtWild]

On the other hand, if they are his freinds, maybe they'd be a little more understanding than a cyber room full of strangers if he gets caught. What do you people do when you guys draw musatches on people when they sleep, or put ketchup in their hair - amputation? Apprently, my friends are much nicer people that I realized. I should realy take them out to dinner.

unless said person is getting off on putting ketchup in peoples hair or drawing mustaches we`re talking apples and oranges.

 

[RoamingSoul]

I have to agree that doing anything like that to a girl in her sleep is wrong. Sure ignorance is bliss, but that doesn't make it right. As for tickling girls who hate being tickled, well that depends a bit...

I have a friend who doesn't like being tickled because she thinks it's annoying and a lame way to flirt. But she's fine with me tickling her because I've actually told her that I find her sexy when she gets tickled. 😉

 

[leafstk]

I've had gf's that hated to be tickled.... boy, did that ever suck for them!

 

[Oddjob0226]

unless said person is getting off on putting ketchup in peoples hair or drawing mustaches we`re talking apples and oranges.

Talk about fruit salad all you want but it'll be off topic; I'm talking pragmatic reality and keeping minor stupidness that people in perspective of bigger things. Your concept: Slumber-derived fleeting micro pleaure is wrong.... slumber-derived petty torments is a serious scholary study desrving of sober consideration. My conclusion: Justice is blind, and mildly retarded, apparently.