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Has anyone been asked to never tickle someone?

Yes, a girlfriend in my teenage years asked me never to tickle her under those circumstances. My reaction was to break up with her a few weeks later.
 
marzbarz said:
It's not a fetish. I made it clear to her too, that I don't like using that word, because it sends the wrong message. The way I like it isn't sexual or abusive. Just to get that out of the way.
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Whether or not it's abusive is something that's more up to the person experiencing it than the person administering it. It's kinda like when you have one of those friends who insists on punching you or smacking you on the ass all the time, just because "that's just them" or "that's just their thing," it's still irritating. Though your intentions are affection, they aren't being received that way. I wouldn't get my hopes up on her changing her mind, because if it were me, I know I wouldn't eventually acquire a taste for letting my best friend do something to me that pissed me off. Sexual or not, I'm sure it's tough to keep the compulsion in check, like seeing a bowl of potato chips and not being able to grab one, because they're not yours. That's what you gotta do, though. :shrug:
 
Well, yes. Last girlfriend I had, tickling was fine, but the condition was I could never tickle her feet. Massage and worship was fine, but no tickling the feet. I asked about this once, and she looked far away, as if to a distant memory, and said in an angery tone that she had been held down and tickled against her will twice in her life. I started to get excited and wanted to ask for more details, but as it was a sore spot for her, decided against it. However, that image in my head, it started to impact the sex life.
One friend hearing I was into tickling said "I hate being tickled." I can respect that, but then she thought me asking to photograph her fet was too intimate. We're still friends, just those topics don't come up. I can live with that. She's fun to hang around with.
 
Flatfoot said:
It's kinda like when you have one of those friends who insists on punching you or smacking you on the ass all the time, just because "that's just them" or "that's just their thing," it's still irritating.
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Ah so I'm not the only one with an irritating friend like that!

Oh and the punching, not ass smacking 😛
 
I told one of my friends about it..and she abruptly told me to never even think about tickling her feet! Which was totally ok, because, as its been said previously, she is not my significant other. We still talk very frequently!
 
rhiannon said:
Marzbarz, I am also wondering, what exactly is it that you would expect from your best friend? How would you like it to be?
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I wanted it to be like, for future reference, if I ever decided to tickle her for fun, that she wouldn't get upset over it.
 
marzbarz said:
I wanted it to be like, for future reference, if I ever decided to tickle her for fun, that she wouldn't get upset over it.
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Well...can't do much about it if she is aggravated about it, unfortunately. She can't really control her reaction to it.
 
marzbarz said:
I wanted it to be like, for future reference, if I ever decided to tickle her for fun, that she wouldn't get upset over it.
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Ah, chances are if she doesn't like it then it is flat out irritating to her. It would be something akin to having a friend who loves to jump out and scare people. It would get REALLY old after a while, and while they would think it is hilarious and a general playful banter type thing that I really shouldn't get upset over, I would probably get to the point that I would want to punch them in the face.

Unfortunately, if she really doesn't like it then if you keep pressing you could lose the whole friendship over it. Tickling is only fun if the other person enjoys it at all, or at least just doesn't care. But if they flat out hate it, they'll eventually flat out hate YOU if you don't quit.

If you get to pushing too hard, with her knowing its a fetish for you and then knowing you want to tickle her (especially if you don't tickle guys, too, which most straight guys do not. That basically changes the view of intention from "this is just something Im doing friendly with friends!" to "this is just something I do to girls!"), you might start to creep her out a little which REALLY wouldn't bode well for the friendship.
 
I've had many girls who were friends tell me they hated to be tickled. I can't really have a "reaction", because that is their peroggative.

I've never had a female best friend, only male best friends, and I'm straight. If I told a female platonic friend about my tickling fetish, or tickled her, and she told me not to, I would stop.

If it was a girlfriend with whom I was romantically involved with, I would likely confess to her about my foot and tickle fetish very early in the relationship. While I know respect in a relationship is key, if I started becoming romantically involved with someone who said "You can never, ever touch or play with my feet.. or tickle me.. ever". That type of person I would be apt to break up with, as she would be depriving me of my fetish.

One example of how a friendship is more important to me than feet/tickling. I may have posted about this before. My friend Barney's sister is a writer. I've only met her a few times. Years ago, he agreed to tell me if he sees her barefoot. However, last year I asked him if he would be okay with asking her if I could send her questions about tickling and her feet. Barney said no, feeling it is inappropriate, since his sister is not my gf, and I dont know her well. I immediately dropped the subject, and, except for discussing whether he sees her feet, I never brought up the topic of asking her foot or tickle questions again. His friendship is far more valuable to me, to risk losing it, by pushing about asking his sister questions about her feet.

Mitch
 
Had a boyfriend that said he was cool with my tickling kink. Then he wasn't. Really wasn't! Said he hated being tickled and told me I couldn't go to NEST. I did stop tickling him, but damn him- I hopped right in my car and drove to Philly. (alone!)

LOL- And one guy I REALLY REALLY liked when I was in college tickled me once. He just grabbed my knee playfully, and I screamed, "Don't you EVER do that again!" OMG!!!! It just came out! LOL I couldn't take it back either. I think I just knew if he started tickling me.... sigh- you know! I had been fantasizing about it forever! Well- he never tickled me again. hahaha!

If I was still single today, that moment would still be haunting me. LOL
 
You didn't hang around with the person just because she doesn't like to be tickled?
 
I don't go around telling people about this.

I do remember, one time, I said, to a friend, in an email, that I was going to tickle her. She implored me never to do that! I hate it, please don't do that, it makes me cry!

Later on, given a mass of other psychological evidence, I realized that she had been sexually abused when she was young. She gravitated towards heroin, and I wound up losing touch with her. I miss her to this day, she was a special, wonderful person 🙁
 
Not really. i never told anyone I like tickling, even though I have been able to tickle some of my friends.

Probably should of never told anyone about my foot fetish. Cause everyone knows now -.-
 
Yes, I have, as a matter of fact. I'm still not allowed in the Hall of Presidents at Disneyland. T_T
 
Hmmm, I was never "told" in words, but I did get a look once from an exotic dance I know. I had known her for about 13 years (on and off) from her 2nd year in the business as a feature, until her "last" year in the business as a table dancer. Let me tell you it is very awkward to get a table dance from somebody in that situation. Thankfully she was really cool, and once told me not to worry about buying dances from her, because we'd known each other for so long. In fact I think she mention it would be weird too. If there were a Patron Saint of Strippers this chick would have been it. Just don't tickler, because she might kill you.

ST
 
Tickling between best friends is a very common thing especially between females. It's sad that she doesn't like it. But there definitely is hope. She can learn to like it. The good thing about it is that you don't use the word fetish. There's no need to advertise how much you like it.
 
She can learn to like it.
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How? I can see hope there if you're the significant other and mix in tickling with pleasure, but what positive connotation do you want to use for a friend? Candy? A shopping spree?

I think she made it pretty clear that she doesn't like it, and I doubt she would want to spend any time on learning to like it.

To be honest, I personally don't see a reason why she should learn to like it.
 
people that have told me they hated have ended up liking it with me 😛 whether that be with in or out of a relationship 😀
 
Lol. If I had a dime for every time somebody told me that I'd be a rich girl. If I listened every time I'd never have any fun.
 
I have not been told not to tickle someone per se, but my best friend made it apparent that she HATES being tickled. So touching that topic with her would not be a good idea. Shame too, I think it would be fun to tickle her. Oh well.
 
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