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Killing a fetish

fitzh2o said:
Hey ike4,
I'm a lurker here myself, and I don't mean to beat a dead horse, but as an ex hardcore christian myself, I felt the need to address your post. I'm not going to attack your religion or tell you it within itself is unhealthy......but perhaps you may want to reexamine your version of it. What your doing sounds very psychologically and sexually unhealthy.

Sounds like the crap and self-loathing I used to put myself through. I've known plenty of christians (including one pastor I can think of) who didn't find a problem with masturbating and we can debate all day as to whether it's immoral in a biblical sense. But the scientific facts? It's healthy and normal for someone to choke the old bishop bro (as long as it's not done compulsively).

I'd encourage you to do your own research outside of religious sources, to see if I'm right for yourself. But take it from someone who's done something very similar in the past, it isn't going to work forever, and your opening yourself up for a lot of fucking hurt doing what your doing. Because you see; the problem isn't your fetish, it's your sexual addiction and how your using it to cope.

Personally I feel you need to learn to be okay with who you are, that guilt your feeling isn't needed. No offense intended here, I'm just calling it the way I see it in the most polite way possible. Best of luck to you bro.
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Lovely post, sir! 🙂 Just had to add breaks, so your message is read loud and clear. :thumbsup:
 
AnnieHall said:
Yeah, I never felt like I was the only one. I watched a lot of TV shows and movies I probably shouldn't have growing up and I realized early on that there are some genuinely sick people in the world and there are some people that are into some really crazy stuff, so tickling... yeah, pretty tame on the list of kinks.

The more you try to repress it, the more obsessed you're gonna get about it. The less you allow yourself to indulge, the more you're going to fantasize. The bigger of a deal you make it out to be in your head, the more likely people will act freaked out when you bring it up.

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this is so true!
 
@fitzh2o - Well said.

Now lets get this thread back on topic; Drinking!... Or was is AA? Too drunk to recall. Hey look over there! *glug* :drinkup:
 
Instead of going to therapy you stopped jacking off, er, I mean mastibating?


Your poor wife indeed.
 
For me "Man, I wish I could get rid of this fetish" = "Damnit...I want to find someone to tickle the shit out of!"

....but that's me....
 
Flatfoot said:
Deadly, I tried to quote you for reply, but my phone made it difficult to eliminate the replies to others. Anyway, yes recovering alcoholics use complete aversion to deal with their problem. I remember how frustrating it was listening to a family member complain about family gatherings and having to be around others who are drinking. It frustrated me, because I didn't understand that level of temptation as it applies to drinking. I'm honestly not a fan of the mindset, because I PERSONALLY feel that to beat ANY addiction one must be able to be in the presence of said addiction, and be able to say, "Oh look, it's X. Do I want some? ...Nah." The AA mindset is more like admitting defeat and giving something power over you, while committing to avoid it and hope the bully will just leave you alone for the rest of your life--or excuse me, TODAY. Anyway, I digress. Should he have visited if he's averse? I speculate that the Christian mentality compelled him to offer help to others who feel the way he does, though I don't necessarily think many feel that they are in a burning building and require saving. There may be some who can benefit. Perhaps he also tested himself to see how he feels. If he feels he's doing a good thing, more power to him. I won't hold it against him. He's not affecting me. :shrug:
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You make good points. I agree in regards to the whole "are you really defeating an addiction by ignoring it" argument. Even if it was his way of "testing" himself as you put it, he stated a couple of times that its only been 5 weeks since he started his process. He may be seeing improvements that he's proud of but no real change can be made in 5 weeks. It was reckless to come back here and he went about his post in the entirely wrong way. All to share something with a community he quite openly rejects :shrug:

C.A.B. said:
Okay, this is absolutely fucking absurd nonsense because it is I that keep Jack Nicholson in my manilla envelope for just such occasions. You are an imposter, Sir. Take this ostrich egg and immediately seek out a Watusi bride of modest stature.

Very truly yours,
Col. Welson Joseph Bradley, Mrs.
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I salute you, Colonel! 😛

Jagermeistered said:
:laughhard: Welcome to the TMF, Alex Jones.

Those two ladies are the New World Order... 😛
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BWAHAHA! :whisper:
 
deadlywiffeathr said:
You make good points. I agree in regards to the whole "are you really defeating an addiction by ignoring it" argument. Even if it was his way of "testing" himself as you put it, he stated a couple of times that its only been 5 weeks since he started his process. He may be seeing improvements that he's proud of but no real change can be made in 5 weeks. It was reckless to come back here and he went about his post in the entirely wrong way.
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Yeah, I can't argue with that! Five weeks is definitely too hasty to declare a successful paradigm shift. I skimmed over that part. Whatever the case, I wish him well in his marriage, whatever he decides to do.
 
There was a time when I was trying to repress my tickling fetish because I was on a Christianity kick and thought that God yknow, doesn't like that sort of thing. My heart wasn't in it so it didn't last long, but while I was still trying to repress it, not think about it etc, I found that I started having dreams about tickling pretty women's feet. It was like the fetish was bubbling up from my subconscious because I was suppressing it in my waking hours. Your story just reminded me of that is all. Hope you're able to get the results you're after, stop "mastibating" and stuff.
 
ArchNemesis said:
There was a time when I was trying to repress my tickling fetish because I was on a Christianity kick and thought that God yknow, doesn't like that sort of thing. My heart wasn't in it so it didn't last long, but while I was still trying to repress it, not think about it etc, I found that I started having dreams about tickling pretty women's feet. It was like the fetish was bubbling up from my subconscious because I was suppressing it in my waking hours. Your story just reminded me of that is all. Hope you're able to get the results you're after, stop "mastibating" and stuff.
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Yeah i had lots of dreams to start with, but after a while they ceased. Now i dont have those dreams anymore. I have read all the comments so far, and all i can say is that i am getting results.
 
I've learned to compartmentalize the fetish. In other words, I can watch tickle videos and get off to them, in the same way I can watch more "traditional porn" and get off to it. I like the balance I've struck because it allows me to enjoy regular sex as much as tickling. Balance is important since we all can't date fellow tickle lovers
 
It's entirely possible to be attracted to MORE than ONE thing.
Many guys are attracted to big boobies, some love nylons/pantyhose, some love costumes,
particular outfits, etc.

I think it's always a good thing to have multiple interests/likes/fetishes, in case one is lacking or goes away - wife gets tired of being ticked all the time, for example.

You don't have to "get rid of it," you really can't. I've lately pondered the logic of the guilt many have for having a tickling fetish.

I doubt guys who love, say, white outfits, one day decide to "kick the habit" and go tearing all their wife's white outfits and business suits out of the closet and
burn the hell out of them in a big bonfire. People would be like, "What the fuck hell is he doing?"
"These white outfits turn me on!! They're evil I tell you!"
 
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