Not sure if this goes here.

[Barbiee_]

I have been getting private messages from people informing me they have "tickle dates" with me. NOT TRUE.

I guess 5 different people are saying so and it's making me want to leave the forum. I've been out of high school for 3 years now, and it's such high school drama.

Anything you hear about me don't believe. Ask me and i'll tell you the truth. It's ridiculous.

 

[kered]

Don't let them chase you away from the forum, Barbiee. Obviously this looks like just another little band of smegma straight out of highschool who see a pretty face but don't have the guts to ask her out. So they decide to have a little fun with her by ringing the doorbell then run and hide.

And for the record Barbiee and I do not have a tickle date. She's too damn young for me.

 

[Bugman]

Don't let a few schmucks run you off.You can but them on ignore or even contact a mod if things get out of hand.

 

[Goodieluver]

sigh, the drama of the tmf continues every day

 

[ticklesaurus]

Unfortunately it is the 'A FEW BAD APPLES SPOIL THE BARRELL' theory.Please don't let these idiots scare you off dear.BTW,I hope the ankle is feeling better.

 

[ThatPercussionGuy]

Hopefully you won't let these people get to you too much. Take a deep breath, smile and delete their messages.

Have fun,

Tckleguy

 

[taptoematt]

I swear , the crap never stops around here. This is one reason this forum has more men than women.

 

[Excess]

NOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooo don't go!!! I know you well enough to know that you have no reason to lie about something like this, and that plenty of guys (like atleast 70% of the male population here) have plenty of desperation to, so none will be allowed to believe that as long as I'm here and have fingers to type with. Although...if I didn't have fingers to type with then I wouldn't be here anyway so...y'know what, just forget I said that...

But yeah, there will always be some creeps around to give you some crap. The important thing to remember is that there ARE good seeds too (like me! ...Ok, maybe not like me, but yeah 😛 ). Don't let these assholes ruin things for you, and if you need to then report it for harrassment.

And for the record, Barbiee and I do not have a tickle date, especially since I don't know what a tickle date is. XD

 

[Barbiee_]

thanks

thanks everyone. i appreciate it. your all sweet

 

[Capnmad]

Anything you hear about me don't believe. Ask me and i'll tell you the truth. It's ridiculous.

Don't sweat it, kid. It happens. You should hear the shite a couple of people here spread about me -- and some have never said more than five words to me. If it's just stupid stuff, hang in, find friends, and let it roll off.

If it ever crosses a line, tell the Mods and Admins, especially if the line is a legal one, like slander or libel.

If they do nothing, or protect the perpetrator, come talk to me. I'll have some more advice.

Take care of yourself.

 

[SilverHealer84]

Psshh, I've been in forums enough to know not to believe everything I hear (read? lol) about people...if I'm genuinely suspicious about someone, I'll go to the person her/himself or just hang back and see if the words that were being spread around come to pass, in a sense. I really wouldn't worry about *that* aspect hun, because anybody with a good mind here will be the same 🙂 I've had pretty horrid lies spread about me on another forum because I challenged trolls' actions, and I just laughed it off and continued being myself. Everyone knew that the lies for what they were. I've also had harrassing PM's before on other forums, and I just completely ignore them.

I know it would be frustrating though, because...well...it's the internet. Sometimes it's hard not to believe things (or the other way around) you know? But please don't worry!

But yeah, definitely go to a moderator if this keeps up...you don't have to put up with this, but leaving is no good either 🙁

 

[ticklishscribe]

OMG DON'T LEAVE!!! Just ignore them. ​

 

[Capnmad]

Oh, and advice for now:

Keep records of everything. If it starts out minor now, it can get to be major later. If you have a trail of evidence of their behavior, it demonstrates to everyone just what's going on. Records of annoying/harrassing behavior or other things -- keep it all in a file somewhere. You'll thank yourself later.

Good luck!

 

[Comfort Eagle]

🙁

 

[Bugman]

Cap made some good points.Save the pms and forward them to a mod.It will be addresed i have no doubt about that.Someone else and i'm sorry i don't remember who pointed out thats one reason so many ladies leave the forum,and its a shame that idiots run them off.

 

[Barbiee_]

yup

I can handle shit usually, but i HATE being lied about. Nothing makes me more mad.

it;s so frustrating because it IS the internet and I can't protect myself.

 

[inthenameoffun2]

Now, let me make sure I understand this. In the last 3 days there have been two post by two differant members here in the TMF. First there is a post from ImNotDave, about those on the TMF who Pretend and Lie about issues and such. Now Barbiee sends a post about getting PM's from a few on the TMF saying that they have " tickle dates" with her?? Ok, now I have no clue what you two are doing, but I'm not buying it. I know better. See, as long as I have been a member here, I have never seen anything that leads me to belive that games are being played and lies are being told at the expense of other members. The TMF is a place for honest, joyful non confrontational fun. So if either of you think for one minute, that this little backwards ploy go get those that are lerking here to going the Tmf sage, ( that never really happens ) then let me post here that you both are starting rumors. The members of the TMF will see though you poor attemtps. So please go to another forum and start your trouble there.

Ah, that was a nice nap. I had this funny dream that I was defending the members on the TMF who pretend to say things and lie to other members, and then send PM's to other members telling them what they have going on with them. That was a werid dream.

ImNotDave, I have replied to your post, so I'll not go there in this post.
Barbiee, if I can say anthing, it is to not let those that like to start rumors of saying things to get their jollies bother you in any way at all. As many that do that here, there are more that do not do that and are honest and nice. Hard to weed those people out, because we honest people are out numbered by those that are not. Just ask up front here in the forum. Ask anyone that says that to you in a PM ( and you know it not to be true ) ask them in a post why they would say or do that. Will that help? I have no idea, but hey, maybe that will help you feel better in replying to their werid ways of getting attention.
Hope my sence of humor that I wrote to start this reply off, did not offend anyone excpet those that do play games and say things that are not true. If it did offend anyone outside of those that do play the games and lie, I am sorry. Just showing what I think is my sence of humor.

 

[TMF Jeff]

I'm not sure I understand what the issue is. Forward me or Myriads the PMs you're getting, and we'll try to figure it out.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I can handle shit usually, but i HATE being lied about. Nothing makes me more mad.

it;s so frustrating because it IS the internet and I can't protect myself.

What do these pm's say, exactly? Is it people just trying to be cute and getting dumb with it, or what?

 

[Bugman]

As many that do that here, there are more that do not do that and are honest and nice

Indeed,you have to weed out the losers as best you can and enjoy the TMF.It's not just a problem here but on the net in general sad to say.I have had the pleasure of meeting so many great people here,via phone,e-mail or in person i would never allow the jerks to run me off.The a-holes will get their just deserts in the end...

 

[Soda Bobinski]

It would be a shame if you decided to leave because of a few knuckleheads , Barbiee_. I hope whatever the problem you have w/these yahoos is is resolved.

At any rate , this forum boasts a pretty high number of people who aren't in the knucklehead or yahoo categories. Hopefully , that should be enough of an incentive to stick around. 🙂

 

[steph]

Right. This IS the Internet, you called it straight.

Now, can we break it down? We all goof around and push the limits of fantasy here sometimes. I don't know you (but it looks like some of my friends do) and you'll probably take this wrong (everytime I try on these types of things it results in disaster or some overly sensitive idiot taking it wrong but I'm going to try just the same...)
You might actually be named Barbie IRL and actually live in FL and actually were born in '87 but with a nick like ticklishbarbiedoll, did you actually expect that a few guys here wouldn't take ya seriously?? Hell, when I first arrived on here, a bunch of forum members automatically decided I was a man. Mph, get over, report the trouble makers to the mods, they work their asses off to try and weed out all the losers, a horrendous job I'd never sign up for.
I got lucky, some of the old school well-respected members took me in both online and for real, I started munching and partying with some of the gang. After awhile, the word got out~"OMG, she's a GIRL and (usually) a sweetie~WOW!"
Anyway, feel free to PM with your hate mail about this post, whatever, just take it w/a grain of salt, things will be a lot less stressful for ya here...

I can handle shit usually, but i HATE being lied about. Nothing makes me more mad.

it;s so frustrating because it IS the internet and I can't protect myself.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

hey Barbiee...can we have a tickle date? 😀

seriously...don't let people get you down. the iggy button is a wonderful thing.

 

[milagros317]

Forward all offending PM's to a moderator.
And don't let the creeps drive you away. 😀

 

[Barbiee_]

No no maybe i wrote it wrong.

I'm getting messages from OTHER people saying "oh hey i hear your meeting so and so to have a little fun. you dont look like a girl to have sex with a group of people"


and i messaged back and was like what???? and they replied saying well i heard from 4 different members your meeting them. it sucks. its making me look like a total *****, and like.. i dont even know!