"All Girls Gathering" Am I the only uncomfortable one?

[Oddjob0226]

sounds like a plan! would be much fun, unfortunately I think attendance would be a bit sparce.


one can dream!!

They've done this in a few places, I believe even in Dallas. It 's not a well publicized thing because it is very underground, but it has happened, and I'm sure will continue to do so. Don't dream it, live it!

(Hewck, from what I hear, the first NEST was an all - male gathering. It just wasn't planned that way!)

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

THANK YOU! I have been reading every g**damn post on this thing and I understand his feeling. No one has the right to trash on him...no one, I dont care who you are!

This was just a post on feelings and wanted someones opinion, thats it. This post was in no way ridiculous, childish, or immature. He took this post in a very mature way, and those of you who decided to just take this to a whole other level are the immature ones.

I have been wanting to reply to this post but just couldnt sum it into words. He did and I thank him and LOVE him. I see hes point and there is nothing wrong with that. Everyone has an opinion and has the right to say it, but no one can just trash someone just for the hell of it, and to get attention....

Thank you I think I am done unless something gets om my last nerve again...

I think a lot of the older, supposedly more mature posters have a lot to learn from Viper and Irish. Sure people here know about tickling and sex and theory... But these two are talking about real life.

I posted several pages ago (page 3 or 4?) that I thought it was mature of Viper to ask his question so honestly and without self-editing. There is also incredible maturity and incredible love in Irish's post.

If you combined their ages, I would be only a few years younger than the total. And yet, I am blown away.

 

[Soda Bobinski]

Jeez , I'm away from the TMF for a couple days .....

Ok , I've read the first 60 or so posts of this thread & I figured I'd chime in here. I think Viper expressed his opinions/concerns in a very mature , thoughtful manner.

Now keep in mind I'm only speaking for myself here when I say that this is what I think a lot of the guys who disagree w/this gathering are thinking/feeling .................. as a guy who has had such a mad-on for tickling females his entire life & hasn't had the oppurtunity to indulge this fetish nearly as much as he'd like to , the thought of a females-ONLY gathering is maddening & frustrating because finally ....... FINALLY ...... there's a place like the TMF where he can go & actually meet & chat w/females about tickling & now they want to separate from the guys to do their own thing?! NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well , the gathering isn't about that. For those guys that are upset about this gathering , keep in mind what gigglegal76 said in a previous post : alot of the ladies on this forum are skeptical about attending gatherings because they're concerned that guys will flock all over them. C'mon guys , after reading some of our posts on this forum , can we blame them for feeling that way? Many of the ladies attending this women's-only gathering have never been to a gathering & might have NEVER attended one.

Fellas , think about this : after going to this gathering , some of these ladies might be MORE INCLINED to attend future mixed-gender-gatherings .... & that ain't nuthin' but a good thang. So , let them get over their jitters about attending gatherings by going to this one & let 'em have a good time. And if some of them never attend another gathering , that's fine too.

So , to the Femme Fatales of Tickling : Enjoy the gathering & each other's company! ....... & do me a favor , get 'kitten reeeeaaaaallllllll good for me. I know of a couple spots that drive her nuts , so if you're looking for any pointers ... PM me & I'll fill you in on some ticklish-info. Have fun!!!!!!

 

[drew70]

You know, I had a bet with somebody that this thread would be locked before page 10. Looks like I'm losing the bet.

 

[Em Es]

Girls will be girls

Some guys may not want women around when, for example, they're talking sports or playing cards. By that logic, I can see why certain women would desire only other females for a tickle party. Like any form of touch, tickling can be a type of communication, and women value communication far more than men do.

Also, most men can be unintentionally intimidating to most women. Having even one man around, gawking, while the tickle play commences could stop some ladies from letting her hair down and having some fun.

But, DAMN, would I like to find a way to spy on that party! Anybody got a bottle of Invisible Pills?!

 

[TickledToDeath]

You know, I had a bet with somebody that this thread would be locked before page 10. Looks like I'm losing the bet.

Yeeeeep drew my friend, it sure does look like you are gonna loose the bet.

What was the bet? You getting tickled into insanity?

If so........I will be most happy I was the one who made it go to 10. 😱

 

[TickledToDeath]

You know, I had a bet with somebody that this thread would be locked before page 10. Looks like I'm losing the bet.

Hmmmmmm , maybe it will be this re:?

ON another note.......I take it you gals are using the Femme Fatales of Tickling?
KEWL...............!!!

 

[TickledToDeath]

You know, I had a bet with somebody that this thread would be locked before page 10. Looks like I'm losing the bet.

how about now? Hmmmmmmm, is it 10 yet?

I am really hoping it was not money lost. I'd rather see or hear about you suffering by tickling and not the mere loss of a few bucks.

TTD

 

[TickledToDeath]

You know, I had a bet with somebody that this thread would be locked before page 10. Looks like I'm losing the bet.

Ok OK it has to be this one........ People are gonna get tired of me trying to just post babble for the soul purpose of getting this thread to page 10 and you hopefully getting the hell tickled out of you.
I mean, drew, after all, what are friends for?

TTD

 

[golas1964]

Is it 10 yet?

 

[TickledToDeath]

Whew... that was a lot of words to jumble through after a VERY long hard night at work! Anyhow, I digress...

I haven't had a problem with Viper's post... I was a little miffed at first but then I read it a couple more times... he is cool with me. Of course I adored him and Irish from the start when I met them at NEST!

Okay, I will say for the umpteenth time, my intention in holding this gathering has nothing to do with excluding guys. One of my favorite realizations at NEST was the fact that I, for the first time in a LONG time was able to truly be myself. When I'm hanging out with girls I know from my "vanilla" life, I have a good time but I still feel like part of me isn't being truthful. There is a part I have to hide. By organizing FFOT I am going to be able to experience myself and also share with others who may not have been able to feel it before, that wonderfulness of just being ourselves. We get to do all of the fun cheesy "girls night out" stuff that guys honestly DO NOT enjoy and we get to be open about a part of us that we often have to keep hidden. And the guys will benefit from this too... these ladies who have always been a little leery of what a typical gathering is will already know someone who is going to be there. I know friends I have met at NEST and such, I miss. I can't wait to see them again... I'll go to more gatherings for the opportunity to see such wonderful people again! That equals more ladies at gatherings in theory.

And really... am I doing any harm here by holding this? I'm not going to be "corrupting" anyone's girlfriend into an "alternate lifestyle"... nothing of the sort! I'm not a lesbian... not even close. I do get a little turned on when tickling/being tickled by a woman. But I don't see any harm in that, I don't think I'm alone and NO ONE should feel threatened by it.

I don't take much of this personally, those who have a problem with this gathering don't know me well enough... The only true problem I have is people who resist being open minded and people who try to start fights and cause animosity within the group. I hope that maybe a few out there who are against this rethink some of their thinking. I realize that this wish is a long shot...

Gosh, I'm sure I have more than I would like to say... my head is pretty cluttered though after a tough day in the office.

THanks for listening (reading, whatever) and thank you so much to those who support me. I really appreciate it and couldn't do it without you.

Very kewl! NO harm whatsoever as far as I can see. Then again, I may need to clean my contacts.
Seriously........you are doing JUST fine.
Also, I think it is so cool you chose the FFOT name I suggested. It just came top me out of the blue when I saw you were thinking of what to call your group or gathering.

Have fun Femm Fatales' of Tickling!

You all should get together and trade secrets and take notes and most of all practice your tickling skills. You all probably need them! 🙂

TTD

Ps. This HAD to do it, drew...........

 

[venray]

Ah TTD you are too much...

Kudos to those who have read vipers post carefully and found it to be a very mature way to express feelings amongst those that are supposed to understand such things............


Ray

 

[TickledToDeath]

But, DAMN, would I like to find a way to spy on that party! Anybody got a bottle of Invisible Pills?!

Actually I have a bottle of invisible pills but.......damn, I cannot seem to find them!

😱

 

[SlaverTickler]

to IrishGirl re: Female Wrestler...

Your coment's earlier about your love for Viper will only serve to bring F.W.'s wrath upon us. I do beleave she hates men.

Now getting back to the main topic, I do beleave that the abuse thing is a valid point (VENRAY), however, Viper has the right to post on any topic he wants as long as it isn't a personal attack on a forum member (the above was not an attack but an observation). All I have read are two thing's, 1) that most of the women beleave Viper has no right to post on this topic. and 2) that viper has every right to post on this topic.

Well all I ever heard my entire life is that men don't express there feeling enough. Then GS express; them and he get kicked in the (Cyber) jewls for it. What that tells me is that MOST women only want a guy to express his feeling when it the feelings they want us to express.

In easier terms, you can feel what ever you want, as long as it's what I want you to feel. I beleave that sums up what this thread has turned into.

 

[LeeAllure]

Viper

Not knowing all the other participants, feeling a little
protective, and (relatively) newly in love, might be
enough to worry anyone. Seeing how this crowd
reacts, it's brave of you to let your vulnerabilities
show, but your questions was a good one, and as
IrishGirl showed, didn't hurt you there in the least,
which is the important thing.

Kitten,

It looks like it's shaping up to be a very fun event,
and though I can't go (but would if i could) I hope
that you and all the other women have a BLAST 😉

Drew,

I _really_ hope you get it 🙂

Lee

 

[venray]

Now getting back to the main topic, I do beleave that the abuse thing is a valid point (VENRAY)

You have not met any of these women.

You do not know which women are planning to attend.

You have no evidence based in fact that anything will or even might happen concerning abuse as you have NO idea what a gathering is all about. There is more chance of abuse at a coed party with drinking going on then there would EVER be a a tickle gathering.

There is absolutely no basis for the conclusion that you draw that something bad will happen.

You have made no point other than to prove yourself paranoid or delusional....

Perhaps you should explore your OWN inner feelings before trying to convince others that evil things will happen if they get together to have fun....

😕

 

[TklDuo-Drew]

I really enjoy those licorice "mexican hat" candies. They don't make those anymore, do they?


Drew

 

[steph]

You're referring to Polenta, I think, and yep, we got 'em here!
XOXO

I really enjoy those licorice "mexican hat" candies. They don't make those anymore, do they?


Drew

 

[ticklkitten]

I really enjoy those licorice "mexican hat" candies. They don't make those anymore, do they?


Drew

I don't know those but they sound good!

 

[ViperGTS]

Holy shit, man. I've created a monster! It's beyond my help now...it's become self-sustaining!!

Heh, sorry, couldn't help it.

I'll try not to let all the attention go to my head.

 

[ticklkitten]

Holy shit, man. I've created a monster! It's beyond my help now...it's become self-sustaining!!

Heh, sorry, couldn't help it.

I'll try not to let all the attention go to my head.

Whatever Viper... you're an immature egoist... didn't you know that???!

Oh wait, never mind, I forgot that I like you. And you're hot. Sorry, won't let it happen again. And I'm really happy that you feel better about what I'm doing with this gathering now, it honestly bothered me that you were uncomfortable with you because you know how much I like you and Irish.

 

[Celsus]

Well

If tickling is an intimate facet of your relationship, then your feelings are completely logical. It's like somebody feeling a tad uncomfortable with their spouse attending an all-female-talk-about-their-sex-lives retreat (yes I know she is not attending, hypothetical). Which, I suppose, could have the positive effect of bringing women together to embrace their sexuality in a communal, platonic way, it's still understandable that the male might feel somewhat shunned.

However, since tickling is not inherently sexual or romantic, the concept of this gathering in general should not make anyone feel uncomfortable, as there is not necessarily any one person bringing an intimate component of his or her relationship to a place where the other can't follow. Furthermore, with a single gender, it will allow women to commune about tickling without the sexuality that is likely in a mixed forum. Excluding of course, any lesbian or bisexual ticklephiles, but I assume that isn't the point of this gathering.

 

[ticklkitten]

But if there are lesbian/bisexual ticklphiles at this event that is cool too. We are just together for fun girl companionship plus tickling. I know that I get a little excited by girl tickling and I know I am not the only one... I just admit it. But I am heterosexual, the point being that it is no big deal.

 

[venray]

Next time you start a thread viper, put this up as a disclaimer.........

Thread Disclaimer

 

[venray]

Holy shit, man. I've created a monster! It's beyond my help now...it's become self-sustaining!!

Oh no...It's...