"All Girls Gathering" Am I the only uncomfortable one?

[vegasfootboy]

no flame bro

Oh boy, let the flames begin... (again)

just asking questions and wanting to understand it is all,, i insult noone and hope noone will insult me for being human and asking questions,, nothing more,, im not flaming,, just curious,, my nature i guess

 

[SlaverTickler]

Paul and Karla.

Hay Cosmo, I'll bet when Christen French and Lesly Mahaphy got into the car with Paul Bernardo they thought every thing would be cool because his wife was in the car with him. Of course (Pauls wife) Karla Hamoka also helped her husband rape her own 15 year old sister too. Nothing shady about that huh.

Like I said, get the movie "Jade" and then tell me how you feel about it.

Also, being that we are both Canadian's, this would be considered ileagal in our country. Exclution based on gender, race, faith ect... . I'm simply showing Viper I agree with him on this (and that doesn't happen very often).

If this is infact an all Female "Tickle Gathering" something bad will happen in my opinion. Weather or not we'll hear about it, well, it's beleaved that most sexual abuse goes unreported, why would this be any different. What makes you think that a group of women will behave any better than a group of men, that is sexual discrimanation. This myth that women are so well behaved is just that, a myth. I've seen how women react to alot of situations, and they are not angles either.

I was in the chat room and someone said Viper was a pig for starting this thred, well I'm here to say he's not, he's a gut expresing an opinion, unfortunetly it is in oposition to something a woman wants and so he is getting beat up for it. Well Viper, I know we haven't alway gotten along (Hockey vs Baseball for example) but I've got your back on this one.

 

[Mimi]

The girls can obviously expect to go to a mixed gender gathering and not worry about being raped or assaulted....why would an all girl event be any different? They will have to go through the same screening process regardless, so safety is not an issue here.

 

[TMF Jeff]

Also, being that we are both Canadian's, this would be considered ileagal in our country. Exclution based on gender, race, faith ect... .

That kind of law only applies to a public entity like a restaurant or golf club. You can exclude anyone from your home or other private gathering for any reason that suits you.

 

[Sultrybrunette]

Some of the girls here must think their sh.. don't stink though.

I hope your not talking about me knogz????

 

[ticklkitten]

vryticklishfeet- It'll be a lot of things besides a "tickle gathering"... we will munch and such and do lots of little "girly things" I just know that being who we are and what we are interested in that tickling will surely follow. And about women feeling "safer" coming to an all female event... the NESTs and such are a very safe place to be. But a lot of girls are a little more shy at attending something like that, it could be a little overwhelming for a newbie.

slavertickler- You seem to make a lot of references to sexual abuse occuring at this party. Oh my gosh, if anyone were to misbehave and make someone else feel uncomfortable I would have them out on their butt so quick... You have probably referred to the movie "Jade" three times now, I've never seen it but what about this party makes you think of that movie?

I'm not trying to start arguments here, I'm just hoping to cool some flames...

 

[vegasfootboy]

thanks mimi

The girls can obviously expect to go to a mixed gender gathering and not worry about being raped or assaulted....why would an all girl event be any different? They will have to go through the same screening process regardless, so safety is not an issue here.

for a while there i was beginning to feel like a lech,, hearing some women describing the men like we were drooling with fangs and waiting to pounce making them feel unsafe and unprotected at these gatherings and then talking about how they would feel all so safe and protected at an all girls gathering,, nice to hear a senior mod say that the women would be screened the same as the men : )

im still kinda wondering though,,,guys get together thats fine,,, women get together and thats fine,, but a gathering for only one sex with "tickling" as the motive?? im thinking theres got to be more to it than just getting together,,i mean just look at the passion this fetish inspires,, people fight and argue and flame and accumulate 90000000 bajillion posts in one year to thier credit all inspired by this love of tickling,, a very passionate act unless of course its a family member or a child,, and if there is a motive why not just admit it?? ya its exciting thinking about it : ) why deny that people will be sexually stimulated at that gathering? many of the women in this forum have admitted to being incredibly turned on and aroused by tickling another woman which is not only cool but human as well,, so why not just come out and say,,," we want an all girl gathering cause it would really really turn us on"???

 

[pennyg]

I think the all girl gathering is great and hope the they all have fun tickling each other silly.

 

[vegasfootboy]

vryticklishfeet- It'll be a lot of things besides a "tickle gathering"... we will munch and such and do lots of little "girly things" I just know that being who we are and what we are interested in that tickling will surely follow. And about women feeling "safer" coming to an all female event... the NESTs and such are a very safe place to be. But a lot of girls are a little more shy at attending something like that, it could be a little overwhelming for a newbie.

slavertickler- You seem to make a lot of references to sexual abuse occuring at this party. Oh my gosh, if anyone were to misbehave and make someone else feel uncomfortable I would have them out on their butt so quick... You have probably referred to the movie "Jade" three times now, I've never seen it but what about this party makes you think of that movie?

I'm not trying to start arguments here, I'm just hoping to cool some flames...

there it is again lol! new women would be afraid at a coed gathering?? what about the guys?? we are nervous,, just as much as the ladies,, maybe even more with some,, i think any new person on his first outing to his or her first gathering would be overwhelmed!! its alot to take in all at once,, i know myself and as much fun as i can be in a social setting im betting that i would be very nervous with everything going on,,,

us guys have feelings : (

we get nervous...
we get shy...
we need love : )

 

[SlaverTickler]

Don't Worry Sultry...

...we all love ya 😉. And I'll be getting to that Randy Orton story by the end of the week. Big Canadian Smootches!!!

Mimi, the screening process is all well and good, unless the screeners are the ones who are the sickos.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

I think one of the main issues here is that there are many individuals for whom sex and tickling go hand in hand and it simply can't be seen any other way. It's can be hard to relate to non-sexual tickling encounters. But, for those who feel that way, you need to remember that not everyone is like that. There are MANY for whom they are two totally different things at different times. Do you feel weird about giving your mother or a little child a kiss goodnight? That can be sexual. In some cultures, something as simple as a touching of hands is sexual. We don't stop shaking hands when we meet people.

I love tickling...always have and always will. I get together with friends from this community on a regular basis. But, ya know what? Other than the occassional poke here and there, the majority of our time together is purely to socialize as friends. We don't have to or want to play eveery minute of the time we're together. There is more to life than tickling. There is more to people than their love of tickling.

Why a "tickle" gathering? Probably because those friends who'd like to get together and hang out happen to have met through a tickling forum...one that doesn't distinguish between sexual and non-sexual when you sign up. If this were purely sexual on this forum, I wouldn't be here. And, I know plenty of others for whom it would be the same.

AFA VTF's comments about guys being just as easily unnerved by the stress, excitement, etc. of a gathering is a perfectly valid point. And, I congratulate him for being honest enough to point that out. So, I'm guessing he can understand why some women would feel more comfortable in a smaller and "safer" setting for their first time. I hope others can as well.

As for any guys who feel as VTF has stated...They're free to do the same kind of thing the ladies are doing....or that the couples are doing...or that those who get into BDSM are doing....or or or...... Gatherings don't HAVE to include play and don't HAVE to be sexual in nature. Hell....NEST started out with a few guys just hanging out sharing thoughts and watching a few videos.

I think it's time we all just relaxed a bit and stopped trying to create problems where there are none.

Ann

 

[vegasfootboy]

!!!!!

hey,, i just realized something,,,

these leering whackjobs that keep making the innocent new girls at the gatherings nervous,,,,,,

how did they get past the screening process????

lol!!!!

 

[vegasfootboy]

hmmm??

I think one of the main issues here is that there are many individuals for whom sex and tickling go hand in hand and it simply can't be seen any other way. It's can be hard to relate to non-sexual tickling encounters. But, for those who feel that way, you need to remember that not everyone is like that. There are MANY for whom they are two totally different things at different times. Do you feel weird about giving your mother or a little child a kiss goodnight? That can be sexual. In some cultures, something as simple as a touching of hands is sexual. We don't stop shaking hands when we meet people.

I love tickling...always have and always will. I get together with friends from this community on a regular basis. But, ya know what? Other than the occassional poke here and there, the majority of our time together is purely to socialize as friends. We don't have to or want to play eveery minute of the time we're together. There is more to life than tickling. There is more to people than their love of tickling.

Why a "tickle" gathering? Probably because those friends who'd like to get together and hang out happen to have met through a tickling forum...one that doesn't distinguish between sexual and non-sexual when you sign up. If this were purely sexual on this forum, I wouldn't be here. And, I know plenty of others for whom it would be the same.

I think it's time we all just relaxed a bit and stopped trying to create problems where there are none.

Ann

any websites that devote this much effort and energy to shaking hands???

havnt seen any...

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

any websites that devote this much effort and energy to shaking hands???

havnt seen any...

LOL Touche' But, that still doesn't negate my point. 😛

 

[venray]

I only have one more thing to add to this mess before I wash my hands of some of you guys all together.....

If you have not been to a gathering, you havent got a clue as to the behavior that goes on there and do not have the right to judge.....So put your petty jealousy aside and walk away boys.....

I know for a fact that there are some guys posting in this thread that I would not want at a gatering that I attend, just based on the ridiculous responses and off the wall scenarios they have posted that have their roots based in ignorance....

I know many of these ladies. They will have fun. They will bond. Nothing bad will happen........ 😛

 

[kcantankerous]

the ladies that I was refering to havent posted on this thread yet. I am trying not to name names, but if one of the women I was talking about asks who I was refering too, than I will let them know if their one of them. Sultrybrunette no you were'nt the one I was refering to though, I actually enjoy the conversation we're having about faithfulness. You seem level headed, but again to not start a flame for all I wont say the names of the girls unless they ask me open forum. But if you read te replies from a guys point of view you may be able to figure out who I was really talking about.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

If you have a VALID concern about someone, I would let Kitten know since she's the main organizer. If not, let it be.

Just my humble opinion.

 

[venray]

Actually you shouldnt be referring to anyone without factual evidence. If they havent posted here then there is no reason to even bring it up within this thread....

Good Grief! 😕

 

[kcantankerous]

Good point but really I'll let it go. The main thing is have a good time.

 

[Female Wrestler]

Solution

Since the original concern isn't valid and had no basis for being posted why not just delete the whole thread?

FM

 

[kcantankerous]

Viper if your still around can you explain alittle more what your thougts are or how they changed since the thread started?

 

[Cy/MiG]

I'm NOT the only one...

uncomfortable? No. Singled-out and therefore a little discouraged, maybe. But who am I to say anything? The hens want to have fun together without the cocks, so be it. I mean, don't we do the same with any sporting activity? (Well, at least for the most part, anyway.)

If someone has a little problem with it, I can see why, but don't hate (at least not in this case... don't we all share the same fetish. At least that we can agree on.)

I'm usually the first to hate (or discriminate, etc.), but in this case I honestly see no big deal. It actually gives me hope for the fetish (and all female kind in general). Just knowing that there are some women who enjoy or even think of this magnificent idea makes me want to grab a feather and spread the good word. And so what If I'm not 'invited', like someone else said in the original topic post: The actual thing can be no better than the ideas, thoughts and fantasies already in my little brain.

Well, that's just my dollars worth of opinion.

(sorry, but I throw out pennies and save up the silver coins.)

 

[venray]

Female Wrestler..........

The original concern was indeed valid and the basis for posting is not restricted to things that you in particular feel valid.....

For that you would need your own forum or blog.... You have no right to judge others as to the validity of their concerns and opinions...


Ray

 

[Female Wrestler]

Ok

1: It was an all female gathering.

2: He couldn't attend anyway.

3: The ladies here have every right to gather without men present.

You now have women having to defend their right to gather without any men present.

So how is this anything but the ramblings and complaints of an immature boy?


FM

 

[kcantankerous]

one sec, the thread starter isnt who your talking about right? He seems like cool people to me.