Fetish

[tttony]

I am not quite sure what you are expecting! That people will tell you they think producers of tickling clips are bad?

I am expecting to hear from people on tickling being a fetish and maybe their personal experience and point of view. You only seem concerned in defending tickling clips producers.

See it this way: tickling can be a severe fetish and very addicting to some people, just like heroin is. Do you think it is good to sell heroin then?

You just seem to think to your own enjoyment of tickling and dont care if people are suffering from it.

 

[tttony]

Thanks for your concern, but the rest of us are too busy enjoying our sex lives to care.

You are welcome, I just wanted to express my point of view and my personal experience on tickling and its fetish. Of course everyone can do what they want.

 

[tttony]

No shit it is a sexually related fetish for me .. that doesn't mean it came from a child hood trauma. Please do not assume we are all like you.

I am glad you realize that. I do not assume all got it from a childhood trauma. I did, and like me many others did. And I can assure you it is pretty severe when you get it that way.

 

[tttony]

When I first started reading this thread, I was going to jump in with my 2 cents worth, but after 7 pages in one day....!?!? Holy crap! One thing that may or may not have been addressed here,(I didn't read every single post), is, if you had been traumatized from being tickled in your youth enough that you now hate tickling, why would you be in an enthusiasts forum on tickling in the first place????

I have a tickling fetish, I dont hate tickling now. I get incredibly aroused by tickling, that's why I come here. At the same time I realize it causes me problems, I wish I didnt have this fetish, and I try to limit and control it as I cant make it go away.

 

[tttony]

I think we should call it quits on this one.

OP had a point to make. He has the fetish due to a childhood trauma, views the fetish as a curse on his life that he will deal with my minimizing his attention to it, and assumes that others with the fetish are in the same boat. This assumption is one that many responders to his thread disagree with. Taking OP’s view, he sees clip producers as being like people who put alcoholic beverages in front of alcoholics so they can profit from the alcoholics’ purchase. Responders say that the clip producers are more like the owner of a liquor store -- lots of people buy the liquor for their own harmless enjoyment, and if some are harmed by the temptation, it isn’t really the store owner’s fault or obligation to close the store.

I think the points have been made.

I dont assume everyone got this fetish the same way I did. Still it is hard for me to understand how someone who was not abused by being tickeld in their childhood could have such a fetish. I mean I can understand playful tickling, which is pretty normal and seen as a foreplay by many couples, but the tying up and forcefully tickling someone else, the idea of tickle torture, that is extreme in my opinion and you just dont get it like that without a traumatic experience of the kind at some point in your life.

 

[tttony]

I'm going to tackle this in stages. Though I feel like I'm feeding a troll, I will treat this as a serious discussion worthy of both my time and my energy.
Firstly, the "preying on people with tickling fetishes by producing clips and art." Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that a simple buy-sell relationship? It's the same as anything else. It's my choice if I want to go buy some tickle abuse videos and masturbate until I go blind. They didn't stick anything in the water that manipulated my brain into wanting to purchase a fetish clip, it was just something that I thought "hey this looks awesome, I'm willing to fork out some money for it."
As for the abuse? Lol. My fetish came from a love of being out of control and a love of causing eternal torment in a very enjoyable way, and also because I love reactions, and knowing that I caused someone to laugh that hard, and knowing that it is because of me that they are having a good time, and also because it's FUN. We are in a fetish community. There is no normal. Normal is like right and wrong. It was created by human beings in order to pigeon hole things they agreed and disagreed with. I'd tell you where to stick your perceptions of what is normal, but it might be too logical for the bizarre and randomised nature of this thread, so good day.

Of course it's your choice. I just brought up my personal experience with it, and that it has caused me problems throughout all my life. Do you think you should call me a troll and tell me to stick things because of that?

 

[DanishTickling]

Why do you keep discussing with this guy?! He has one message: "Tickle fetish is bad and caused by childhood trauma"
He is clearly not gonna change his mind no matter how many people in here who disagree with him. So let him have this misconception and stop wasting time on him.

Btw tttony, your profile says that you are a 'ler and that you like armpit tickling with secure bondage... hmm...

 

[tttony]

Why do you keep discussing with this guy?! He has one message: "Tickle fetish is bad and caused by childhood trauma"
He is clearly not gonna change his mind no matter how many people in here who disagree with him. So let him have this misconception and stop wasting time on him.

Why would I have to change my mind if that is my personal experience with tickling? I understand other people have different experiences with it, but why do they have to stop talking and discussing with me if they want to confront their ideas with mine? Why does that bother you so much?

Of course my profile says that as I suffer from a severe tickling fetish.

 

[DanishTickling]

Why would I have to change my mind if that is my personal experience with tickling? I understand other people have different experiences with it, but why do they have to stop talking and discussing with me if they want to confront their ideas with mine? Why does that bother you so much?

Because this discussion is leading nowhere if you haven't realised that yet. You had a bad experience with tickling and then you think everybody else with a tickling fetish must have had the same experience. That is just not right but you cannot realise that, and that is why this discussion leads nowhere.

 

[tttony]

Because this discussion is leading nowhere if you haven't realised that yet. You had a bad experience with tickling and then you think everybody else with a tickling fetish must have had the same experience. That is just not right but you cannot realise that, and that is why this discussion leads nowhere.

You seem to be deaf to what I say. I didnt say everybody else with a ticklish fetish must have had the same experience, I did though. You seem to be very concerned about this discussion to stop, and I dont see why. Who are you to say other people should not reply to me? Who gives you the right to saying that?

Btw, by reading your posts I can tell you are totally lost in the world of tickling clips, even advertising them...

 

[DanishTickling]

You seem to be deaf to what I say. I didnt say everybody else with a ticklish fetish must have had the same experience, I did though.

You’re right, you didn’t say everybody but you did say most people, which is still completely wrong.

Who are you to say other people should not reply to me? Who gives you the right to saying that?

I believe that will be the freedom of speech. And I'm not saying people cannot reply to you, I'm just saying that I don't think they should because it's pointless.

You seem to be very concerned about this discussion to stop, and I dont see why.

I’m not concerned at all, just tired of listening to you repeating the same arguments over and over again.

Btw, by reading your posts I can tell you are totally lost in the world of tickling clips, even advertising them...

Oh yes baby!

Anyway I’m not gonna waste anymore time on you like I think no one else should.

 

[BellybTickler]

I am glad you realize that. I do not assume all got it from a childhood trauma. I did, and like me many others did. And I can assure you it is pretty severe when you get it that way.

Realize? I've known that my whole life, and I've never denied it. And I can assure you I really don't care.

 

[tttony]

Realize? I've known that my whole life, and I've never denied it. And I can assure you I really don't care.

Good for you

 

[rhiannon]

You only seem concerned in defending tickling clips producers.

Where was I defending tickling clips producers? I was arguing against you when you started out claiming that a tickling fetish comes from being abused, and that was how you started out. You changed that claim later in the thread. Admittedly though, I do not even see a need to defend tickling clips producers because they are doing nothing wrong!

tickling can be a severe fetish and very addicting to some people

I agree.

just like heroin is

I call bullshit. Heroin will kill you. Tickling won't.

Do you think it is good to sell heroin then?

No. Because it is illegal and it kills people sooner or later. Tickling clips don't. Pretty bad comparison.

You just seem to think to your own enjoyment of tickling and dont care if people are suffering from it.

Honestly? I sure do! Because I don't see why I should not be able to enjoy myself just because other people can't control their urges! It is their problem, not mine. I also like drinking a glass of wine and don't think alcohol should be banned just because there are alcoholics out there - and many, many more than tickling fetishists suffering from their fetish, plus, alcohol might kill them. Suffering from a tickling fetish won't kill anybody.

 

[tttony]

You’re right, you didn’t say everybody but you did say most people, which is still completely wrong.


I believe that will be the freedom of speech. And I'm not saying people cannot reply to you, I'm just saying that I don't think they should because it's pointless.


I’m not concerned at all, just tired of listening to you repeating the same arguments over and over again.


Oh yes baby!

Anyway I’m not gonna waste anymore time on you like I think no one else should.

1. I said many people, not most people.

2. Let them decide if they should or should not

3. Nobody forces you to read my posts

4. I actually feel sorry for you, 22 years old and totally lost in the world of tickling clips, maybe when you'll be 50 you will understand what I mean

 

[Libertine]

... maybe when you'll be 50 you will understand what I mean

56 here.

Perhaps, young man, you should quit banging on about this. We'd appreciate it if you'd stop viewing our pleasures through a lens which you freely admit is distorted by your own childhood experiences. Your standpoint is that of a German nun who survived the 1945 sacking of Berlin by the Russians offering young girls advice on men in general and sex in particular.

Instead of taking such a militantly censorious tone I suggest you retire to a more pleasant life of heating yourself up to near-boiling point in a sauna, and being thrashed with birch twigs by the person of your choice before rolling in snow or plunging through the ice into the nearest lake. You can even watch video clips of that if you so desire.

We don't judge your traditional pursuits; please quit judging our amusements.

 

[tttony]

Where was I defending tickling clips producers? I was arguing against you when you started out claiming that a tickling fetish comes from being abused, and that was how you started out. You changed that claim later in the thread. Admittedly though, I do not even see a need to defend tickling clips producers because they are doing nothing wrong!



I agree.



I call bullshit. Heroin will kill you. Tickling won't.



No. Because it is illegal and it kills people sooner or later. Tickling clips don't. Pretty bad comparison.



Honestly? I sure do! Because I don't see why I should not be able to enjoy myself just because other people can't control their urges! It is their problem, not mine. I also like drinking a glass of wine and don't think alcohol should be banned just because there are alcoholics out there - and many, many more than tickling fetishists suffering from their fetish, plus, alcohol might kill them. Suffering from a tickling fetish won't kill anybody.

This is what you said:

I am not quite sure what you are expecting! That people will tell you they think producers of tickling clips are bad?

This is where in my opinion you are defending them, while I only brought up my personal experience with tickling which has nothing to do with tickling clips.

heroin will kill you physically, a tickling fetish can kill your life and the ability to live a normal life. So in a way they are comparable.

You continue not to care about someone who has a problem with a tickling fetish. I bet you dont care if people are alcoholic or junkies, not your problem right?

 

[rhiannon]

a tickling fetish can kill your life and the ability to live a normal life

I agree. But there is nothing I or anybody else but the person him or herself can do about it! The person who has that problem should go and get therapy, and not expect the world around them to change.

I bet you dont care if people are alcoholic or junkies, not your problem right?

Right. I am sorry that there are people like that, but there is nothing I can do to help them. They have to help themselves. I didn't inject the freaking needle in their arm, ruin their lives or stick that bottle down their throats.

 

[tttony]

56 here. Perhaps, young man, you should quit banging on about this, and retire to a more pleasant life of heating yourself up to near-boiling point and being thrashed with birch twigs by the person of your choice before rolling in snow or plunging through the ice into the nearest lake. You can even watch video clips of that if you so desire. We don't judge your traditional pursuits; please quit judging our amusements.

I am not judging anyone grandpa, I am just talking about my personal experience about tickling and having a tickling fetish. Go ahead and take your tickling clips in your coffin when the time comes.

 

[tttony]

I agree. But there is nothing I or anybody else but the person him or herself can do about it! The person who has that problem should go and get therapy, and not expect the world around them to change.



Right. I am sorry that there are people like that, but there is nothing I can do to help them. They have to help themselves. I didn't inject the freaking needle in their arm, ruin their lives or stick that bottle down their throats.

Lovely

first of all as it has been said many times already there is no therapy for a fetish

second of all I am not asking for your help, but maybe a little understanding and maybe positive and constructive replies which obviously you are not capable of.

 

[-Hari-]

A polite reminded, just in case 🙂

This sort of conversation has been known in the past to end badly.

Tread carefully, if you believe the op is a troll then its best to move on and not post, if you disagree with him or wish to add an alternative view then say so if you wish but pay attention to the manner in which you do it. A few of the replies have been questionable so far.

Hari

 

[rhiannon]

first of all as it has been said many times already there is no therapy for a fetish

And as it has been said many times before, there is a therapy that will help you lead a normal, happy life WITH the fetish. Go get it! That is my positive and constructive reply for you, because I don't believe there is another one.

I understand that a horrible thing has been done to you and causes you a lot of psychological strain, and we would be more than ready to give you understanding and sympathy if you didn't roam in there attacking us for what we love.

 

[tttony]

A polite reminded, just in case 🙂

This sort of conversation has been known in the past to end badly.

Tread carefully, if you believe the op is a troll then its best to move on and not post, if you disagree with him or wish to add an alternative view then say so if you wish but pay attention to the manner in which you do it. A few of the replies have been questionable so far.

Hari

Thanks Haribish! I really appreciated it. I am not here to cause trouble, I just wanted to bring up my personal experience with tickling and a tickling fetish and hear what other people think about it. I am not judging anyone. Sincerely, I dont understand why some people have to attack me for doing that.

 

[rhiannon]

I dont understand why some people have to attack me for doing that.

Reread your thread, maybe you will understand then.

 

[tttony]

And as it has been said many times before, there is a therapy that will help you lead a normal, happy life WITH the fetish. Go get it! That is my positive and constructive reply for you, because I don't believe there is another one.

I understand that a horrible thing has been done to you and causes you a lot of psychological strain, and we would be more than ready to give you understanding and sympathy if you didn't roam in there attacking us for what we love.

I really think you and some other people got me totally wrong. I am not attacking anyone because they like tickling. I am only talking about my personal experience with it.

and BTW there is no therapy or cure for a tickling fetish, you can only try to limit and control it, but it will stay with you for the rest of your life.