Fetish

[Libertine]

maybe when you'll be 50 you will understand what I mean

I am not judging anyone grandpa, I am just talking about my personal experience

When so-called 50 calls 56 'Grandpa', it's an indication that the OP is actually an adolescent, or barely post-adolescent, since a six-year age gap in those tender years is an unbridgeable chasm. Therefore I apologise unreservedly for the sarcastic tone of my previous post.

Having established that this is the case, I really do suggest speaking to your parents and having them contact social services- I do know that Sweden has an excellent health care system and psychological help is easily available. I did say psychological rather than psychiatric, as your problem does not appear terribly severe- more a combination of guilt and the natural hormonal imbalances of youth. I'm sure that with minimal help you'll soon find a nice girl who'll help you blow off steam- meanwhile try not to worry so much- get out a bit more, engage in healthy exercise and avoid situations where fellows your age might be tempted to commit acts of self-gratification.

 

[tttony]

When so-called 50 calls 56 'Grandpa', it's an indication that the OP is actually an adolescent, or barely post-adolescent, since a six-year age gap in those tender years is an unbridgeable chasm. Therefore I apologise unreservedly for the sarcastic tone of my previous post.

Having established that this being the case, I really do suggest speaking to your parents and having them contact social services- I do know that Sweden has an excellent health care system and psychological help is easily available. I did say psychological rather than psychiatric, as your problem does not appear terribly severe- more a combination of guilt and the natural hormonal imbalances of youth. I'm sure that with minimal help you'll soon find a nice girl who'll help you blow off steam- meanwhile try not to worry so much- get out a bit more, engage in healthy exercise and avoid situations where fellows your age might be tempted to commit acts of self-pollution.

LOL I am actually 51, I said "grandpa" as a joke because you are older, but maybe it's hard for you to get that LOL

So the rest of your post does not apply LOL

 

[rhiannon]

I am not attacking anyone because they like tickling

It sure sounded like you were in your know-it-all attitude.

and BTW there is no therapy or cure for a tickling fetish, you can only try to limit and control it, but it will stay with you for the rest of your life.

Are you even reading what I'm writing? That is exactly what I said! You will not get rid of the fetish, but you will be able to live with it and actually lead an enjoyable life.

By the way, you have not told us in what way you are suffering from your fetish anyways. Is it because you can not get sexual gratification from anything else but tickling? That can indeed be treated psychologically.

 

[Libertine]

LOL I am actually 51, I said "grandpa" as a joke because you are older, but maybe it's hard for you to get that LOL

So the rest of your post does not apply LOL

Actually it's called irony, which means a razor is more effective than a bludgeon.

 

[tttony]

It sure sounded like you were in your know-it-all attitude.



Are you even reading what I'm writing? That is exactly what I said! You will not get rid of the fetish, but you will be able to live with it and actually lead an enjoyable life.

By the way, you have not told us in what way you are suffering from your fetish anyways. Is it because you can not get sexual gratification from anything else but tickling? That can indeed be treated psychologically.

You said thare is a therapy that will make me lead a normal life, which is not true. There is no therapy at all.

Listen, this is my opinion only and take it for what it is, but what I really think is that many people on here are suffering from a tickling fetish. Playful tickling is one thing and it is considered as foreplay by most couples, but when we are talking tying up and forcefully tickling someone else, or the idea of tickle torture, that, in my opinion, is extreme and the sign of being a fetish coming from a traumatic experience of the kind at some point of your life. Now dont take that personally, it may not be your case or the case of others on here.

 

[rhiannon]

I like to be tied down and tickled mercilessly until I can't take any more. And I did not have a traumatic experience in my childhood. Believe me, I am on here far longer than you are and have probably talked to much more people than you who have a tickling fetish, and only a very small percentage actually suffer from it.

 

[tttony]

Actually it's called irony, which means a razor is more effective than a bludgeon.

Whatever

 

[tttony]

I like to be tied down and tickled mercilessly until I can't take any more. And I did not have a traumatic experience in my childhood. Believe me, I am on here far longer than you are and have probably talked to much more people than you who have a tickling fetish, and only a very small percentage actually suffer from it.

Like I said it may not be your case. I question what you say, I have been on the TMF since nov 20th 2000, the day it was started, I had another profile before and started this one only two years ago. I have been talking to tons of people into tickling since 1997, you?

 

[rhiannon]

Then you must not have talked to the people who are participating here, because there are not very many who actually suffer from it. Every now and then someone shows up saying that they have a problem because tickling and tickling only turns them on, keeping them from a normal relationship.

We tell them to seek therapy everytime, because there IS such a thing as sexual therapy to help you overcome something like that. You may not believe it, but it is true!

 

[tttony]

Then you must not have talked to the people who are participating here, because there are not very many who actually suffer from it. Every now and then someone shows up saying that they have a problem because tickling and tickling only turns them on, keeping them from a normal relationship.

We tell them to seek therapy everytime, because there IS such a thing as sexual therapy to help you overcome something like that. You may not believe it, but it is true!

There is 125,000 people on the TMF, have you talked to all of them? LOL

 

[rhiannon]

Have you? The vast majority just registers here, looks at stuff once and never comes back. Most of the others just come here for jerk-off material. I don't know how many actually suffer from their fetish, and I doubt you do!

 

[-Hari-]

*removed a couple of off topic posts, please stay on topic or move on*

Hari

 

[FFT32]

Hey... Anyone in here like Tickling?

Just curious. ;0)

Peace

 

[tttony]

Have you? The vast majority just registers here, looks at stuff once and never comes back. Most of the others just come here for jerk-off material. I don't know how many actually suffer from their fetish, and I doubt you do!

Just the fact that one has a fetish means already that he/she is suffering from it. I mean people here seem to say that having a fetish is a normal thing. I disagree with that.

 

[Wolf]

Just the fact that one has a fetish means already that he/she is suffering from it. I mean people here seem to say that having a fetish is a normal thing. I disagree with that.

How can one person determine that anyone else having a fetish means they are "suffering" from it?

And how can you say what's normal?

 

[tttony]

How can one person determine that anyone else having a fetish means they are "suffering" from it?

And how can you say what's normal?

it's very subjective indeed. In my opinion having a fetish is not normal. You may think the contrary and I respect that.

Also, in my opinion, having a fetish implies that you suffer from it.

I see it as a condition or a illness. And if you have a illness you suffer from it.

 

[BellybTickler]

How can one person determine that anyone else having a fetish means they are "suffering" from it?

And how can you say what's normal?

It's his opinion, not fact. I'm taking the advice of a sensible person and making this my last post on this .. mess .. of a thread.

 

[Wolf]

it's very subjective indeed. In my opinion having a fetish is not normal. You may think the contrary and I respect that.

Also, in my opinion, having a fetish implies that you suffer from it.

I see it as a condition or a illness. And if you have a illness you suffer from it.

But you're using your own personal experience and opinion to determine the state of everyone else with similar interests...that's beyond opinion. That's completely illogical.

 

[rhiannon]

Just the fact that one has a fetish means already that he/she is suffering from it.

How do you define "suffering" if I may ask? Shouldn't that involve some kind of bad feeling?

 

[tttony]

It's his opinion, not fact. I'm taking the advice of a sensible person and making this my last post on this .. mess .. of a thread.

Exactly, it is my opinion, I never said it is a fact, at least not for everyone. Thanks for the replys anyway.

 

[tttony]

But you're using your own personal experience and opinion to determine the state of everyone else with similar interests...that's beyond opinion. That's completely illogical.

No, I say that is what it feels for me, maybe for some, or even many others. Not everyone. I think you should realize that tickling and having a tickling fetish is felt differently by different people. Not everyone feels the same about it.

 

[rhiannon]

I see it as a condition or a illness. And if you have a illness you suffer from it.

You know, this is the wrong way around. Doesn't something only become an illness if you suffer from it? Why do you equalize having a fetish with suffering from it?

 

[Wolf]

No, I say that is what it feels for me, maybe for some, or even many others. Not everyone. I think you should realize that tickling and having a tickling fetish is felt differently by different people. Not everyone feels the same about it.

So, you've changed your mind from what you said earlier in this thread?

yes, somehow it is comparable to the tobacco industry, both harmful, only here we are talking of a sexually related fetish, so it is mentally harmful whereas tobacco is harmful on a physical level. But yes, nicotine and tickling are both addicting and people should quit both.

What people on here don't realize too well is that most people who have a tickling fetish suffer from it as a heavy mental disorder and should seek help instead of buying tickling clips. The tickling fetish has ruined their lives as most of the people affected by this fetish have admitted.

 

[tttony]

How do you define "suffering" if I may ask? Shouldn't that involve some kind of bad feeling?

it means being obsessed with it, thinking about it most of the time, spending hours and hours each day watching tickling clips, reading tickling stories and having tickling chats. It means having it hard finding or keeping a partner because you have this fetish which sooner or later will come up if they see what you do online. It means missing on beautiful things in life because you have this fetish and wasting time with it.

I am sure this is what many of the people on here experience, but either they dont realize it or are in denial with themselves and just want to keep feeding their fetish.

 

[tttony]

So, you've changed your mind from what you said earlier in this thread?

No I still believe that, but if you notice I said "most people", not everyone. and that anyway is still my opinion, you dont need to agree with me, and you can have a different opinion. I truly dont believe that tying up a person and getting aroused tickle torturing him/her is a healthy, normal sexual behaviour. Again my modest opinion.

Amen